r/findomsupportgroup

So..a long term sub of mine has a history of going mia then coming back as a lot of them do. He was gone all summer and came back 2 days ago. I made him pay for his absence with no reward (clearly!!) to which he was not very pleased about….next day he said he couldn’t serve because he had gotten “sick” which I found to be pretty convenient.

So I removed him, not blocked, but deleted our chats and he came back this morning asking why I had did that to which my response was that I’m a domme and not a brat tamer……

And his 100% non-bratty response, was “wtf i told you I was sick! Why would u assume I’m leaving when I’m ready to serve again?” and I said it’s cus he didn’t have the balls to tell me when he wanted to stop and has ghosted multiple times.

He sent a picture of his meds and I called him the boy who cries wolf.

This was one of my longest standing subs so having someone who I shared so many personal details with speak to me like does sting a little…but trust me when I say this dommes! The red flags at the beginning will always come back and bite you in the ass.

Instead of reassuring me, his domme, he was more offended by the fact that I would assume he’s lying instead of reflecting on how HIS behaviors planted those seeds of doubt.

I don’t see this as a loss tbh it’s more of the trash taking itself out.

If you don’t have the backbone to be able to say when you’re leaving, come back whenever you please and expect me to revere you for that, and on top of all that, are unable to calmly and respectfully resolve disagreements then I was never the domme for you🤷‍♀️