I’m getting SICK & TIRED!

I know I’ll probably get a surplus of messages from people who are about to waste my time but I’m genuinely SICK of people reaching out to ME asking for payment details and then disappearing the second I provide exactly what they asked for.

Like… what is the psychological payoff here? 😭 Do some of you actually get off on pretending you’re about to send just to get someone’s attention, reassurance, or reaction? Pathetic.

Because reaching out & initiating the interaction…asking for payment information…receiving said information, and then immediately blocking or disappearing isn’t normal communication.

It’s attention seeking, avoidance, and weird as fuck wasting someone else’s time for your own little ego boost.

If you don’t intend to follow through simply don’t fucking ask. 😭

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u/Goddess_Finn_ — 1 day ago

3am thoughts

You’re not looking for another subscription. You’re looking for somewhere to put your attention.

There’s something psychologically satisfying about choosing a person you admire and making them feel valued.

Most people spend their lives trying to be noticed.
Trying to impress.
Trying to feel important.

You get to experience the opposite.
You choose the woman.
You choose what she deserves.
And you get the satisfaction of knowing that your generosity directly contributes to her life.

That’s the part people misunderstand about findom.
It isn’t really about the money.

It’s about power, attention, status, anticipation, and the feeling of being useful to someone.

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u/Goddess_Finn_ — 9 days ago

What apps do you guys use?

Most of my clientele came from Kik. It’s live streaming service is now discontinued and I can no longer go live on the app :( I also don’t enjoy clapper. What other apps do you guys use?

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u/Goddess_Finn_ — 14 days ago