Hey everyone, I am looking for a jeweler who does permanent/locking jewelry!
Me and my fiancé originally got some from Captive Collars (me a necklace and him a bracelet) but both of them fell a part within a month of wearing them. I’m wanting something in either gold or rose gold and my fiancé is wanting something in black.
Any recommendations are helpful!! ☺️❤️
I'm so blessed that daddy retired me from my job when I was 31 ( I'll be 36 next month). By no means are we rich financially but he saw I was unhappy and it was wearing on my physical health ( I have respiratory failure) and he told me to quit and that he'd figure it out. I told him I would keep pushing through and he said it wasn't a conversation it was a decision that I put in my two weeks and let him do what he's supposed to do as a man. I was nervous and reluctant as we were newly weds just getting our footing but I trusted him. I was scared it would change the lifestyle I had gotten accustom to as I made a nice living but I trusted him. He has done incredibly! He works a hard job as a welder and puts his body through so much to make sure that I don't have to. On just his income we still cover all of our bills and have gone on a minimum of 2 vacations a year, one year we did 4. Everyday he pushes through for me and us and I'm so grateful. I try to ask myself everyday how can I be of service to him. I know he loves brown butter and he loves a sweet treat after dinner so while he was working on his car I whipped up a batch of brown butter chocolate chip cookies! He was so pleased and loved them. Now he has a sweet treat to look forward to in his lunchbox and after dinner this week 🤗
This is so hard! I do badly want to be a good girl for myself and for my husband but my entire life I've been the strong independent woman that doesn't need anyone for shit. And as badly as I want to do and be better is do hard to unlearn these behaviors and not beat myself up and give up when they arise. My husband deserves a gentle docile wife and I deserve to be soft and feminine and not carry the mental or physical weight and responsibilities that I currently do. My husband is the only income as I have a respiratory condition that made it impossible to breathe so he told me to quit my job three years ago this June. I do all cooking, snack preparations, I clean his office and turn on his wax warmer so it can smell nice when he comes home, I lay out his after work relaxing clothes and spray them with cologne. I pull out a fresh pair of socks and underwear for him to change into after his shower and make sure his slides are there for him. Everyday when he comes home I greet him at the door and take his lunchbox from him and give him a hug and have his snack and sweet tea waiting on his desk in his office for him. I schedule all his appointments and take care of prescriptions and household inventory so he doesn't have to. And probably other things I can't think of but I do everything in my power to make it so that when he comes home he doesn't have to worry about anything. My problem? My fuckin mouth and attitude and emotions! When I'm upset it bleeds over. When I'm hurt we need to talk and talk now and you better respond the way I need you to or we're going to keep telling about it which makes him feel attacked and badgered so we argue and ruin a good day. I don't do it intentionally and struggle on a deeper level as I have autism and am hyper verbal and overly expressive. My voice and time increase and fluctuate with my excitement or eagerness which can come across as me being aggressive when I'm not and it seems to get lost in translation. How do I learn to STFU! How do I learn that being heard isn't always worth the conflict. I don't want to stop my voice I want to use it when it matters! But I'm so emotional I feel like it always matters lol. I had talked years ago about the desire for physical discipline. Not out of anger but for him to discipline me for acting out. Spankings for crossing lines or throwing tantrums. He was very receptive but there were several catastrophic losses in our life that year that we never came back to the drawing board over it. I really feel like it would help me but don't know how to bring it up. I think I'm rambling, any words of wisdom would be appreciated!
There’s something so comforting about making food from scratch for the people you love. 🍯🍞❤️
These homemade hamburger buns are whole grain, naturally sweetened with honey, and made without all the extra chemicals and unnecessary ingredients. Just simple, real food made with love.
While he’s away working hard to provide for us, I get to pour that love back into our life together in ways like this, fresh warm buns straight from the oven in a kitchen I’m grateful for every single day. 🥹✨
Sometimes love looks like homemade bread cooling on the counter waiting for him to come home.
I wanna be a sub so bad!!?! The best sub possible. What’s the best advice you can give me? Any resources you could share with me for sub&dom play?
I wanna get my new boyfriend involved, he is so dreamy🤤 and I think he will take me seriously. I need some hints to drop him.
My D’s favorite thing to do is to protect me and it’s turned into being my favorite thing about being a sub. When we started I assumed it was going to be all the traditional BDSM stuff but then I realized I had a huge praise kink and that he loved to be a caregiver. Now when I go paddle boarding I’m the only girl wearing a helmet, hydration vest, full wetsuit, ear plugs, and life jacket. It’s our number one protocol is D dressing me to be as safe as possible at all time. It makes me melt and it makes D go crazy lol. I’m sure this isn’t attractive to all people but I figured I’d see if this resonates with anyone else 🤷♀️?
Hello all. I 35f an married to my 37m husband of 5 years. Our relationship is complex due to his mental health issues bipolar and bpd. Throughout our 5 years due to insurance issues he had stints of being off his meds. Both times resulted in affairs. One physical the other sexual in nature but only online/phone. Prior to his indiscretions I knew he was into submissive women. I have been a strong independent black woman my entire life. He has always been a tall strong Croatian. I naturally began to submit to him. Permission for all locations I attended. Checking in before I leave, once I get there. He'd call throughout the evening just to check in. Getting my curfew I would be home by certain times. He knew where I was going who was there what was going on and if he was uncomfortable or unsure it was a no! He was my safe space. He was my best friend. We did everything together. The annoying couple that was always together and always touching each other that was us. But with the second indiscretion being so recent I'm just lost and angry and sad and have abandoned my role. He allowed her to call him Daddy, that was mine. He called her my pet names, they were mine. He called and texted and exchanged videos and pictures in our home, that was mine. Now that everything is out here has been open. I have access to all devices and passwords and information. He is back on his meds and starts therapy this week and sees his psych Dr to get his meds adjusted this week as well. I know that he would never have done this if he were on his meds but I'm still hurt. I want our dynamic I miss it so much but that trust has been broken. How do I get out of my head and rebuild the dynamic we had. My rebellion has him angry and he's also angry at the damage he's done but I'm just great broken and afraid and miss him and us so much. The first time was almost 5 years ago and no issues up until his meds got cut off 6 months ago and he engaged in the inappropriate contact for 2 months. I'm trying to be optimistic but have no one to talk to as no one understands or knew about our dynamic and those that did made it weird because of us being different ethnicities. Any support would be greatly appreciated. I know he's in there and I know we can get back to us it just feels daunting.
I'm new to the BDSM space and currently talking to a soft Dom. We’ve talked about a lot of stuff except where we live/ look, and names. This is obviously a red flag on both our ends but I really like talking to him and respects my boundaries. He's been patient with me and is moving at my pace. I want to bring this up to him but I'm not sure how. Can someone help??
If you look at my profile it's alot about sex and even some about sexwork. And I like both.
But not just that. I feel really good when I am with a man that is strong, a man that no he is boss because he is man.
It is so good to know I make him happy. I feels great! Just sitting cuddling. Kissing. Cooking. Sex. Listening. I dont understand or remember all he talks but I listen and love it. And the feeling at home. And safe.
I am so happy to obey a man and do all he wants. When I get love and safety back. It make it all feel good.
But it is nice also to just have sex with a man that I just met. When he use me as a toy. Because it make me so wet.