Our sermon at Church today was about the virtues of following an elder without argument, with acceptance and humility. Was the meaning a religious figure or just an older man who has wisdom and looks for what's best for me? 18F in S Nevada, S Utah

BTW, by "elder" I guess they mean way over 30 and not anything hookup or relationship based, more of a guide I listen to to be a good Christian girl. Dunno how to make it more clear.

Someone older like fatherly who can check up and give advice

Someone I dont have to hide things from, like if they lived close by they'd take me to the Doc if mom couldnt

Like a church elder who keeps me on the right track and knows when to be nice and when to be harsh and demands results

Our sermon at Church today was about the virtues of following an elder without argument, with acceptance and humility. Was the meaning a religious figure or just an older man who has wisdom and looks for what's best for me? Happy to discuss.

Pretty sure it's not like allergy or anything like that, like I get anxious and reach under my shirt and scratch my breasts without even realizing. Will it get better after puberty? Do others do it too?

F18 in Nevada, I am already here so might as well post. I go to church a lot and do think male led relationships are better and men are good mentors for young females. Its just how it is, like it or not. Just wanted to put it out there for what its worth

Nothing intense in terms of workout, more like make sure I eat what I am supposed to and lose weight in the right places, more like take fatherly or grandfatherly long term interest. Not sure if this is the right place for that.

thanks to the encouraging advice to my previous post about it being ok to post a personal a here , I now feel comfy asking if bec my breasts hurt when I run downstairs at our apt building I should talk to mom about a reduction ?

I am not comfy w younger ppl cause always feel they want something or hitting on me. someone old and fat is ideal cause then I don’t feel judged.

looks like it’s most boys posting and I really don’t want to read any of that so just asking. thanks