r/Accountabilibuddies

I am posting this with no hope of getting a reply, coz thats how depressed I have been these days.

I am M26, with a stable remote job and its a well respected role in finance. But I feel bad about the way I look, I wanna get ripped and jacked and also work on better work life balance. I am single for last 4 years and porn has been the only companion and it has only done more good than harm so i wanna leave it too.

I am at a point in life where I wanna fix my health, porn consumption, and manage anger.

What could be the relationship between them? Is it online or offline? How does it work? I'm stupid so please explain it calmly if you want.

Trying to get back on track with eating (only usually eat once a day), water intake, walking, and working out. I plan on doing home work outs for the month of July and getting into the gym in August. I do suffer from severe depression so I find it very difficult to manage this on my own.

For gym and staying productive everyday

I'm a guy from India btw 😅

Hey! I’m preparing for CMA USA Part 2 and wanted to build a small community of people who enjoy studying together.
I created a Discord server where we can focus, stay accountable, and make studying feel a little less lonely.
If that sounds like something you’d be interested in, send me a DM and I’ll share the invite.😊

Hello!

I'm from Russia (UTC+3) and I'm looking for an online friend to help each other with weightloss and gym journeys. My current goals are:
- Strength straining 2-3 times a week
- Tracking calories and staying under 1500 cal
- Losing around 5 kg

I mainly use telegram (we can figure out other platforms), and I'd like to exchange daily/weekly reports (we can figure the frequency out as well) on our progress :)

EDIT: I'd like to say a BIG thank you to all the people who reached out to me! I've concluded my search and I wish best of luck to everyone in their fitness and weightloss journeys

I am learning my own mother tongue (Punjabi in Gurmukhi script). I want to spend 20-30 minutes a day practising reading and writing it. I would love an accountability buddy who can check in daily (I will send pictures of my daily writing practice). I am in the IST time zone but open to other zones.

If someone is willing to be a language exchange partner, even better. We can spend time on calls helping each other. I can help with English (I scored well in IELTS -8.5)

I live in Switzerland, so someone on a similar timezone would be super. I'm looking for someone male or female, where support and accountability goes both ways!

My goals:

* Exercise 6 out of 7 days a week (3 days strength training, 3 days walking/yoga)

* Weight loss (about 10kg/22 lbs) while building muscle

* Healthy diet (my diet is already a little restrictive but yours doesn't need to be. I eat plant-based and gluten-free)

* Healthy habits (minimize doomscrolling, loafing and negativity, maximize mindfulness and intentional living)

I also love reading, especially motivational or self-help books when I have the chance. I am currently on summer vacation before doing my final semester of a bachelor's degree so I'd like to establish a healthy baseline before my studies start again.

Generally, I'd love to connect with someone supportive, kind and open-minded and I can guarantee you the same. I'd be happy to share reading recommendations, meal pics, goals, struggles, successes and whatever else might come our way!

Well I am gonna start 21 days hard challenge in which we will focus on our health, studies, hobbies, own seld and more.... so interesting but hardddddd to handle!!⚡️👀

Well I am gonna start from tmrw anyone wanna join and participate?💪🔥 if yesss comment we will make a group of that🫶

Hi,
I’m from Australia. I’d love an online friend to keep each other accountable.

My current goals:
- minimum 10,000 steps
- stay under 1,500 cals/healthy eating
- get more sleep (ultimately waking for 6am class consistently)
- At the moment I do HIIT/weight style classes 4 times a week and other workouts 2 times a week, with a rest day
- I have already lost 10kg, 5kg to go to my next short term goal

NEET PG

I want to start a 21-Day dopamie-detox and searching for a partner.

My detox contain....

- no social media (t*ktok, instagramm, snap, ...)

- no yt (except educational purposes)

- no p*rn

- everyday reading

- journaling every day & planning the next day

- eating/drinking less sugar

I am searching for somebody who wants to go on the same journey with me. We check each others status and create the accountability for each other.

I can do Meetings or chatting; whatever you want. If you interested you can DM me

Hello everyone !

I am a master's student in physics and I spend most of the time in the lab carrying out my experiment..So, I don't get much time to spend with my frnds as all of them are busy with their thesis as well..So, I am looking for some frnds over here with whom I can do daily check-ins and can build good frndship as well..

The activities that I do apart from my studies are nature walks, clicking moments everyday, documenting myself, playing tennis and volleyball, workouts, and doodling when my mind gets off..sometimes I draw as well but didn't draw anything lately..

What am I learning lately ? I am giving my hands on 🎹, and swimming 🥽..and I am trying to improve on these 2 things by the end of this year..So yeah if someone is looking for an accountable partner for check-ins, we both can have..One more thing, I want to develop a habit of book reading so if someone does, then plz rescue me out and guide me..

I do watch a lot of TV shows/movies/anime as well..so we can yap on all of these as well..

I am 22 and I prefer ppl around my age grp (19-24)..and serious ppl who don't disappear after few msgs.. Don't bother to text me, if u are not serious..

TL;DR : Master's student, looking for frnds as an accountable partner for daily check-ins and working together on improving our activities..

Hi everyone! I'm a BTech ECE student currently focusing on improving my skills in DSA and aiml. I'm looking for a dedicated study partner who's consistent and interested in growing together.

I'm comfortable with structured study plans, regular progress tracking, discussing concepts, solving problems or ANYTHING AS YOU LIKE but keeping each other accountable.

Time zones aren't a major issue as long as communication is good and both of us stay committed.

If you're interested, feel free to reach out!

I'm in my 3rd year of mbbs

With it comes pg prep and my proffs

I still wanna take good care of my health and be motivated to do so everyday.

I want to hit the gym which I've been lazy enough not to.

My personal life is really shitty

And I really need to nevigate through it.

Hi, I'm a 23 year old student. I'm looking for an accountability partner. Goals do not have to match. You just need to be serious and consistent. I'll push you and call you out. You do the same for me. We keep each other on track. If it's not equal effort, it's not going to work. If either of us slips, there are consequences. I can be lenient with you. For me, it needs to be strict. I want someone who will actually hold me to it. If you won't, don't contact me. Message me if you are serious about consistency.

Hey, I am currently in this point in my life where I'm working 2 jobs and taking classes to try to build myself in a way I didn't care about in my 20s. But, I'm not fully utilizing my time and I'm not doing everything necessary to meet goals.

Ive seen a few posts like this where we meet in the mornings, or text in the mornings to discuss the days goals, then in the evening to discuss what was accomplished.

Hi everyone! 😊
I’m a 38 year-old female from Singapore looking for a female accountability buddy (or a small group) to build healthier habits together.
My goals are:
• 🚶 Walk 8,000–10,000 steps most days
• 💪 Exercise 3–5 times a week
• 🥗 Eat healthier and lose weight gradually
• 😴 Build healthy daily habits like sleeping on time, staying hydrated, and being consistent
I’m not looking for competition or perfection—just someone who is genuinely committed to becoming healthier. It would be great to have daily or regular check-ins where we encourage each other, celebrate small wins, and stay accountable.
I’m hoping to find someone with a similar positive mindset—someone who wants to lift each other up rather than make excuses or pull each other down. We all have off days, but I’d love a buddy who’s willing to keep trying and help each other stay on track.
Ideally, someone in Singapore or a similar time zone would be great, but I’m open to anyone who’s kind, supportive, and committed.
If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect! 😊

My original act buddy wasn’t consistent and honestly seemed to care more about their issues. It would be amazing if they were local to become friends.

I’m 36 married and was in a car accident almost ten years ago. My life was completely flipped because that accident resulted in several tragedies that day. I would love to have someone follow up or even encourage me to do just basic tasks like chores or errands. I struggle with chronic neck pain. Some days are easier than others. I also struggle mentally so sometimes don’t have a lot of mental energy to do much or my ADHD likes to convince me certain things are imperative but could probably wait.

I’m located in the US on the east side. If anything seems relatable send me a message or comment below. Hoping to find that boost of support and maybe even a genuine friendship❤️

I have an addiction to masterbation and so I was looking for a group of people to help me quit