r/Accountabilibuddies

Hi All, I am starting in earnest on the entrepreneurial journey and need other like minded people

It has been my dream for many years to start a business, make it a wild success and sell it and retire for life. Fear has been keeping me from starting. I am now at a point where I feel i have done enough emotional healing on that fear to know that I Can do this and that I wont leave my dream halfway because it became too much.

I am looking for the kind of people who:
have realised that being an entrepreneur and having that kind of freedom is their life goal and that they keep coming back to it no matter how many setbacks.

are working or can start working on something directly related to business the moment we begin

Setting daily goals and reporting completion status daily

Can attend a 30 minute weekly video call

All I can promise you is small consistent and steady progress and making an honest effort and showing up even if I have failures and setbacks. If this is the person you are, then feel free to dm me or comment below and Let us build something truly meaningful

Also this invite stays indefinitely open to anyone who is interested.

I’m in my early 20s and looking for a long-term accountability partner — someone genuinely serious about improving their life and becoming a better version of themselves over time.

Right now I’m trying to improve multiple areas together because they all affect each other:

career and skills

discipline/productivity

confidence and social skills

fitness and appearance

mental clarity/stability

routines and consistency

long-term financial independence

The biggest things I struggle with are:

perfectionism

inconsistency

lack of structure

fear of failure

overthinking instead of executing

emotional burnout

distractions/dopamine addiction

low confidence sometimes

What I’ve realized is that I don’t want to rely on extreme motivation anymore. I want sustainable progress and systems that actually last long term. Sometimes that means starting small and building momentum properly instead of going all in and crashing.

I’m not looking for toxic hustle culture or fake positivity. I want honest conversations, mutual accountability, and people who genuinely want to grow.

You do NOT need to be exactly like me. You can already be highly disciplined, successful, mentally strong, or far ahead in certain areas. What matters more is:

self-awareness

consistency

openness

willingness to improve

ability to communicate honestly

wanting long-term growth instead of temporary motivation

I’d love someone who enjoys conversations around:

psychology

productivity systems

discipline

career strategy

habits and identity

confidence/social growth

life direction

self-improvement in general

What I think I bring:

honesty and self-awareness

good listening and problem assessment

thoughtful advice and perspective

consistency in communication

support without excessive sugarcoating

What I imagine:

daily/semi-daily check-ins

sharing goals and progress

helping each other stay accountable

discussing problems and solutions honestly

maybe study/work sessions sometimes

building discipline gradually but seriously

If this sounds interesting, DM me with:

your age

what you’re currently working on

your biggest challenge right now

what kind of accountability setup you want

I’d rather build one strong long-term accountability connection than collect a bunch of surface-level chats that die in 2 days.

Hi, I'm an engineer in IT and I have many personnal projects (too much ^^). They just need to be done at that point so I can start new creative processes !
I'm coding a 2d game in Unity, this one is going to take years, but currently I'm trying to code the basic systems.
I'm trying to film and publish videos on youtube regularly. So I have a lot of editing to do.
I also want to progress in drawing so I'm drawing every week, faces or just fun projects like Pokémon cards or art journal piece.
I have several sewing projects currently like thrift flip, jeans and a coat.

I wish I would find someone to stay motivated with. It's sometime difficult after my job to not sink into screens and lose the only time I have for my personal projects. I would like to communicate with someone (or several person in a small group ?) that also have a lot of personal creative projects. I love when people talk about what they accomplish, it never fails to motivate me.

Don't hesitate to tell me what you are working on !

Looking for an accountability partner for fitness, healthy eating, and general self-improvement. Daily check-ins, motivation, sharing wins/failures, maybe the occasional “why did I eat that” confession. 😅

Would be cool to find someone who enjoys good conversation too — sarcasm, flirting with danger via cheat meals, and keeping each other on track. Consistency > perfection.

Looking for one serious accountability partner. Not a motivator. Not someone still figuring things out.

I am building a creator brand and keep pushing the start date. I know what to do, I just work better when someone else is working in parallel with me. That someone needs to be serious.

What I'm looking for

• Someone building a creator brand or startup
• Any niche is fine, seriousness is not optional

How will it work

• Daily checkins — short, factual, async is fine
• Weekly 30 min call on weekends — what happened, what's next
• Google Sheet to track daily/weekly commitments
• Call out excuses bluntly. Miss a commitment, own it.

What I bring:

• Consistency
• Honesty
• No ghosting

Do not reply if:

• You want motivation or mindset talk
• You disappear when things get hard
• You are doing this casually

To reply, DM me with:

1. What you are building
2. One thing you keep procrastinating on
3. How do you intend to track your progress in google sheet

Low effort replies will be ignored.

Looking for a serious long-term accountability partner

I’m an international med student in Turkey, looking for one serious accountability partner or a small group focused on consistent self-improvement.

I’d prefer someone related to medicine or healthcare, but it’s okay if you’re not. What matters most is that you’re serious and consistent.

My main goals are studying, improving English/Turkish, fitness, sleep, and better routines.

I’m not looking for constant chatting or motivation talks. I prefer something simple and sustainable: daily check-ins, sharing goals/progress, and weekly or monthly reviews by voice message or occasional call.

If interested, message me with your age, timezone/country, what you’re working on, and what kind of accountability works best for you.

Trying to stay consistent with workouts and build better discipline, but I do better with regular check-ins and mutual accountability. Looking for someone serious about improving as well, so we can keep each other on track instead of constantly restarting.

hello I’m 25F and i’m currently learning german, i don’t feel like i’m at a conversational level but would like to keep accountability with someone who has the same goal or wants to chat in english and german :3
I also started going to the gym, doing some light beginner calisthenics at home, and want to focus more on uni and reading more. Would like to do this with someone around my age.

I am a 29 F who is transitioning between jobs and was hoping to find someone who also wants to improve in different aspects of their life as well. My main areas of focus are job applications, going to the gym/healthy eating and working on my side hustle. Hoping to find someone that has slightly similar goals even if they're not exactly the same. I live in the UK so I'm on BST
I would like use to mostly catch up over text and then have either a weekly or bi-weekly call to see where we are.
Looking forward to making our lives better!

Age: 25F
Time zone: Pacific Time / PST
Goals: schoolwork, studying, reading, journaling, routines, and general self-improvement.

What I’d need in a buddy:
Someone reliable, patient, and consistent. I don’t need someone super strict, but I do want someone who will actually check in and be honest. Ideally, we could do daily or almost-daily check-ins, share what we’re working on, and follow up later.

I’d prefer someone who is also working on school, routines, productivity, reading, fitness, or life organization. I’m okay with Reddit messages or Discord.

I’m not looking for perfection, just someone who also wants to improve little by little.

Looking for an accountability partner

Heya everyone

I'm 29F trying to start over life after losing my job and being at the worst stage of my health with zero discipline. I need an accountability partner to wake up at 4:30am and we check our daily goals and then at the end of the day we reflect what we achieved for the day. No unnecessary chitchat just the goal oriented discussion. I'm in IST timezone. Please ping me if you're looking for the same.

Im currently stumbling around, making excuses, making NEW plans to add to the current list...

Im getting stuck in the 'plan and do nothing' stage.

Anyone fancy giving me like an hour of their time... Just to let me talk things out with them? Help me kick out of this planning paralysis

Hello I am looking for a person for daily walking and steps counting accountability partner.

I started a few months ago and it would be great to have another person doing the same thing for daily motivation.

If you are interested please let me know.

Hi. I created a Discord server with the intention of having a small group to help each other out when it comes to drawing and painting. It is mainly for people struggling to sit down and create art.

It is five of us so far, but some of us are still struggling, so I thought I might extend the invitation to some more people. Serious inquiries only. You do not have to draw or paint everyday, but you have to want to put effort into sitting down at least once a week to draw.

The group has resources to channels and videos to help you learn, and to help beat procrastination. We also have daily prompts that can help you if you don’t know what to draw. Additionally, we have Art Sessions, where we request for help. Whether it be a reminder or setting a time block with someone to draw at the same time, same day, even if you are not in the same state or country. Lastly we set goals for the week, and check in at the end of the week to see if we were able to complete our goals.

DM if genuinely interested and willing to commit. As I said, it doesn’t have to be a daily thing. You just have to want to set time aside to draw at least once a week, and help those struggling by reminding them to get things done.

Edit: Adults only please. Eighteen and over.

Edit: Closed. Thanks to everyone who reached out. I will be responding to those who are serious about this and respond in a mature manner.

Hi, looking for an accountability partner, maybe coach-ish support around workouts and food.

I am stuck in a circle of trying to outtrain bad eating habits. I grew up with the whole 90s slim ideal mindset and I think it still lives in my head. I work out daily and I am glad for my newfound love for weight training but I also struggle with disordered eating- going from restriction to overeating. I’m 48F and I guess I still want to eat the cake and keep it too (enjoy food but still fit into tight jeans). Add work stress and not the most harmonious relationship at home and I know I am very much an emotional eater.

I would really love to discuss weight lifting programs and nutrition that works without triggering stress. It’s easier talking to someone who genuinely understands this mindset and worked through the mental side of it alongside fitness.

Just trying to get out of this loop.

Quick question — I keep getting notifications for comments but when I click them they say “comment no longer exists.” Is this usually due to comments being removed by mods, filtered or are users deleting them quickly? Just trying to understand how it works here, thanks!

Hi I’m a 25F living in Korea (GMT+9) working as a nurse. Because of shift work it’s hard for me to keep working out or studying... So it would be great if you’re okay with irregular posts sometimes. I probably can’t do study calls or keep the camera on together, but I’d still love to encourage each other as long as we both check in at least once a day regardless of time zones..!!

Hi!

I’m 30F located in Arizona (MST timezone) looking for an accountability buddy because I’ve realized I do way better when someone else is also checking in and trying alongside me.

Main goals right now are:

🩵sustainable weight loss

🩵meal prepping/eating better

🩵getting out of the “sit at desk all day then rot after work” cycle

🩵building routines that actually stick

🩵staying accountable without toxic diet culture vibes

I’m not looking for perfection. More like someone to message daily-ish about meals, water, movement, goals, wins, bad days, etc.

Someone who understands consistency matters more than going super hard for 4 days and disappearing.

A little about me:

🩷introverted/social anxiety club member lol

🩷into crafts, baking, cozy hobbies, memes

🩷honestly thrive on repetition/routing

🩷trying to feel better physically and mentally overall

Would be cool if we could encourage each other but also be real when one of us starts falling off track. And honestly, if we accidentally grow into besties in the process, that would be pretty nice too!

If this sounds like your vibe feel free to DM me 😊

after graduation the nostalgia of studying could still linger. need partner to study for fun not full time. (btw studying pharmacology)

One thing I’ve noticed in a lot of accountability groups is that people still fall short on their goals because they match with unqualified accountability buddies.

Not in a harsh way, but if two people both struggle with consistency, procrastination, and following through… they usually end up enabling each other without realizing it.

A lot of accountability setups fail because there’s no structure, leadership, or someone who actually knows how to keep people on track.

I used to work as an Accountability Coach before founding an accountability platform, and honestly, the right match/accountability system makes a huge difference.

Curious if anyone else here has experienced this with accountability groups or partners?

Hi! I’m looking for an accountability buddy who is genuinely serious about improving their lives consistently.

My main goals right now are:

• Art consistency (drawing regularly, improving skills, sharing progress)
• Weight loss / fitness
• General productivity and building better habits

I’ve realized I do much better with external accountability because if something isn’t urgent, I tend to procrastinate heavily. I haven’t been diagnosed with ADHD, but I relate to a lot of the symptoms, so structure and consistency help me a lot.

What I’m looking for:

• Someone reasonably consistent and serious about their goals
• Preferably someone with creative, fitness, or productivity goals too
• Someone comfortable being direct and calling each other out if one of us starts ghosting or avoiding things
• Regular check-ins and actual follow-through instead of “I did it” 😅

I’m not looking to start a huge group or community — ideally just 1 or 2 people so we can actually build a solid accountability system.

We can figure out the details together via text and maybe a quick call:

• daily vs weekly check-ins
• body doubling / co-working sessions
• progress tracking
• schedules/time zones
• how strict we want accountability to be etc

I also think a 30-day trial period would be good so there’s no pressure. If after 30 days we work well together, amazing. If not, no hard feelings.

Timezone and gender don't matter too much but I am based in Ireland.

If we seem like a good fit after chatting a bit, I’d ideally like to move to WhatsApp eventually since I’m much more responsive there than on most social platforms.

If this sounds like something you’d genuinely commit to, feel free to message me!