r/focusedmen

Here’s the part nobody wants to admit:

No one loves a person.
They love the emotional function that person performs in their life.

Stop giving validation and you become “difficult.”
Stop giving attention and you become “annoying.”
Stop giving value and you become “invisible.”

When someone leaves, they’re not leaving you.
They’re leaving the loss of advantage.

And when they come back, it’s never for you.
It’s for the access you used to provide.

If you want to know who actually cares, remove the value you give them.
Watch how fast their “loyalty,” “love,” and “concern” evaporate.

People don’t stay because of who you are.
They stay because of what you provide.

The place where all life started……
Ahhhhhh not really.

More accurate description of Africa is this.

The place where everyone (except africans)owns
Everything from land,mines,gems,natural resources etc.

We have been indoctrinated with this BS.
There are studies that show certain people across the world
Have zero correlation with their DNA ( genetic material).

Everything has to do with race,color and gender
The animal kingdom and the plant kingdom
Provides exceptional evidence of this fact.
It has NOTHING to do with Love or hate

Is called the Nature of life.

We don’t come from the same place.

This should set you free!!

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"Black men we're dealing with a shift in power economy the wealth of the unrighteous is being stored for the Righteous.... they believed that the black man was a whipping pose They Can Just Beat on us...these Black Women Dont understand that the black American man is God Choice so even Black woman who against the black man is going to LOSE‼️‼️

As a man, you gotta get so obsessed with yourself that any woman who can’t add value to your life start looking like a liability instead of a blessing. I’m talking about loving yourself so much that bare minimum behavior actually gives you the ick. Like ma"am… you want access to me but you can’t even offer peace, stability, or consistency? Please be serious. I already give myself everything I need—my own money, my own happiness, my own security, and my own peace of mind.

I done worked too hard to build myself up just to entertain somebody who still trying to figure out how to build himself. I refuse to downgrade my lifestyle, my mental health, or my glow just to say I got a woman. Some of these women don’t want to contribute, they want to attach. They see you shining, handling your business, taking care of your business as a man , leveling up—and suddenly here they come with their empty pockets and emotional damage, talking about “let’s build.” ma'am build what? You don’t even got the bricks.

And let’s be real, once you reach a certain level of self-love, you stop being impressed by words. Anybody can talk. I’m impressed by consistency, effort, and results. If you can’t make my life easier, more peaceful, or more enjoyable, then what exactly are you here for besides stress and confusion?

I didn’t come this far just to babysit a grown woman. I’m not a rehabilitation center for potential. I’m not here to raise somebody else’s daughter. I’m here to protect my peace, elevate my life,

This has become the most popular topic throughout this year .

People are running all over like chickens with out heads
Proclaiming that this is the anti christ, satan, the prophecy,etc you name it.

This confirms how ignorance is the root of all evil
Not satan or whatever people want to blame it on.

Quick effective Ignorance test

When you are hungry
Would you rather eat or read?

After answering don’t judge yourself
Just be aware of where you at in character.