r/gayteenadults

I finished my degree three years ago and have been working in the corporate world ever since. It’s not my dream job and it’s a bit stressful, but it pays the bills. Alongside that, I’ve done a few small modelling jobs, but unfortunately I didn’t earn enough to make a living from it.

What about you? What do you do for a living, and do you enjoy it?

Hello I'm back again! Incase you followed my last posts I'm doing better and I've begun to stop comparing myself too much with others.

But back to the main topic, me and my best friend (both 18M) were doing fine since the start of May, and actually went actually met up a few times irl, which was quite nice. But since about 3 weeks he's stopped responding to me all of the sudden and I'm now unsure what to do (for context, we usually talk with each other through Discord 2 times a week).

I've tried to asking and pinging him and I haven't heard back. I still see his status switch from online to offline throughout the day, so I know it isn't because of some other reason.

I'm just really confused. Before this I didn't sense there were any issues or other things that could explain his absence. I wouldn't mind if he had said that he needed time for himself, but there's no hints on what's going on with him that I know of and he hasn't said anything to me so I'm worried.

He has done something like this in the past, I won't specify what happened because it's private, but long story short I ended up not hearing from him for one to two months because of something between us that caused alot of stress for him.

I'd appreciate any advice, I'm just worried about him and I've been feeling really sad recently because I wonder if I did something. I was also reminded about the earlier incident in the past, which is why I had a bad feeling and felt the need to be more concerned and write a post here this time. Thanks.

Honestly just wanted to make a appearance and say hi. How's everybody day or nights going 😁

(19m) (Prepare for yap) This is my first time posting here, hello all! So I took the normal advice of looking for extra curriculars and clubs and the likes, but it hasn't worked out for me much. Most of my friends are bi/lesbian women. and the majority of straight men kinda ignore me? Idk it's weird. They won't talk to me beyond basic small talk. I am initiating all of ts too. Perhaps it's just college campus culture who knows. I love the friends I have now but I just want more gay male friends because like, having someone who can relate to you is cool! I was friends with two gays guys before except one of them ghosted everyone and the other moved states (We still talk tho he is very chill.) Most of my friend groups IRL are collapsing due to drama, and I figured I should make more friends online. I love gaming and 3d modelling and the likes but I realize I am not that tech savvy nonetheless. If I am doing anything like rude pls tell me, I am very new to posting things online in general. Idk I just wish someone would appear in front of me like "Hello gay person I am also gay we should be friends!" Anyone else feel like that? Idk it feels like I am the only gay person in the world sometimes lol. Anyways where do you guys find your friends? Did you buy them at the store?

Hi sub! I wanna take this opportunity to say I wanna know more of yall! I’m too extroverted for my liking and I wanna meet more cool people like me😎✌️

So I was at a party yesterday and there’s this guy who I knew was gay from a long time ago, but didn’t really talk to him because he’s older and honestly I thought he wouldn’t like me back (as a friend)

We’re both in theater so throughout the semester we started talking progressively more and more, until the show which was when we really started talking as friends.
Then yesterday at the party I was very drunk and I said to him like “hey I think you’re really cool I’m glad I’ve met you” and he was like oh thanks, and he gave me a kiss, but I was in shock so I backed away.

Then I told my best friend about what happened and I was like “oh I fucked up I backed off and I didn’t want to do that and now I lost my chance” and she went to ask him about it, then she called me back with that guy…
And honestly at this point I was lowkey blacking out so I didn’t know how or what happened but when I regained some consciousness he was on top of me and we were FULLY making out like fuuullllyyyy😭 and I was freaking out because I’ve never kissed anyone before, so I did my best to just go with the flow and yeah, top 5 experiences of 2026😭

But now I feel like weird, like I KNOW he didn’t kiss me in like “we should date” mindset because we were both super drunk but I still feel like something idk, I don’t want to see him or talk to him because I’m afraid he’ll just be like “oh yeah no big deal” but it was a big deal for me, and honestly I wouldn’t want to date him but still something feels weird

Oh, and my friend told me a lot of people took pictures and videos of us so😭💔

What shall I do now that I’ve graduated from school? I have seemingly infinite time on my hands and have become really bored