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ATTENTION ; to know whereabouts of my relative living in fontana ca ; cannot contact her from 32 hours ; DM for details

Hi everyone, I am writing this from India with a lot of concern. My sister's fiancé’s sister, [Sunita H/O Prashant ], lives/works in Fontana (she was previously in Orange County).

We haven't been able to reach her for the last 32+ hours. Her phone seems to be unreachable/unresponsive, which is very unusual for her.

She is around [ 43 ] years old, have twins child and husbands

If anyone knows her, has seen her recently, or can suggest the best way to contact local authorities/apartments in Fontana for a quick welfare check, please let me know or DM me directly. We are getting very worried back home.

Thank you so much for your help!

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u/Still_Birthday3637 — 6 hours ago
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Need an Advice - Is it ok to do Online marriage and bring spouse on B1/B2 and convert to H4? -Or get H1B Approve > get visa slot > get married get H1B Stamped > then started H4 Processing get it finished and then bring spou

Is it Advisable to do Online marriage and bring spouse on B1/B2 and convert to H4? -Or get H1B Approved >DS160> get visa slot > get married get H1B Stamped > then start H4 Processing get it finished and then bring spouse?? Time taking + Uncertainity.

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u/Material-Jeweler5757 — 8 hours ago
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Help my Mother Subhra Roy - Battling Septic Shock and Brain Tumor (Grade 3)

Hello Reddit family,

I am Rajdeep Roy and I am reaching out to you for your support. My mother (59 years old) is currently fighting a severe, multi-front health crisis. She is undergoing intensive treatment for a brain tumor, a severe kidney infection, and pneumonia, all compounded by pre-existing diabetes.

Because these critical conditions struck simultaneously, she requires aggressive, continuous medical intervention. On April 29th, she underwent a critical Kidney infection surgery for the Septic Shock. A week after her discharge she was again admitted to hospital due to pneumonia. She is currently in recovery phase. However, the brain tumor operation cannot be delayed further and needs to happen within the next 2 weeks.

The estimated cost for her treatment, specialized procedures, and recovery has already cross over ₹15 lakhs. We have exhausted our insurance coverage and personal savings, but we still face a massive shortfall to cover the remaining hospital bills. We urgently require an amount of ₹10 lakhs to proceed with the surgery.

Any contribution you can make will be greatly appreciated. If you cannot donate, sharing this post within your network would be immensely helpful. Thank you for your support during this difficult time.

Fundraiser donation link: https://www.ketto.org/fundraiser/my-wife-is-suffering-from-brain-tumor-we-need-your-help-to-provide-for-her-treatment-1149956

UPI ID (alternative method): rajdeeproy59@oksbi

Medical documents: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1iY6sKAoZqgUHFbexw7Ny4HcfgRLSLuxr?usp=drive\_link

Please keep my mother in your prayers. God bless you all.

Rajdeep Roy

Son of Subhra Roy

u/user_raj — 1 day ago
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Here's How to Download Your e-OCI Card

If you're an existing OCI cardholder, there's a useful new update from the Bureau of Immigration, India.

India has officially introduced the e-OCI (Electronic OCI Card), which allows OCI holders to keep a digital version of their OCI card on their phone. According to the announcement, you can present the e-OCI at Immigration Check Posts and to airlines whenever required, making travel more convenient.

How to download your e-OCI:

  1. Log in to the OCI Services Portal (ociservices.gov.in) using your existing credentials.
  2. Open the e-OCI tab from your dashboard.
  3. Click "Generate e-OCI Card."
  4. Download and save the digital card on your phone.

A few important things to know:

  • Your existing physical OCI card remains valid.
  • The e-OCI is optional and is meant to make carrying your OCI card more convenient.
  • Existing OCI holders can generate it through the OCI Services Portal.

Has anyone already downloaded their e-OCI? Was the process smooth, or did you run into any issues? It would be helpful to hear everyone's experience.

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u/savetaxs — 2 days ago

Our character's ultimate goal is to crush Rudra with an iron pillar. Indians abroad — does this cross a different line than all the others?

Hey r/indiansinusa 🙏

Korean dev team from Arena Of Avatars here.

Today we want to share a character we're most uncertain about.

His name is Zoravar.

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No one knows where he came from.

He was found as an infant in the underground sewers of the empire — the place where all the filth and discarded things collect. A "world error" the gods never assigned any fate to.

Thrown into a slave arena. Fought for years with no weapon.

One day he rips a massive steel pillar from the arena floor with his bare hands.

As a beast lunges to kill him, he doesn't swing at the beast — he strikes the empty air where the beast's trajectory is going to be.

The pillar hits nothing visible — and the beast collapses in a bloody heap.

He had just discovered he could physically shatter Karma itself.

The invisible threads of fate that gods weave into every attack, every death.

He builds a clan. He overturns an empire.

When the gods drop a meteor to punish him, he leaps into the sky alone and smashes it.

He is vaporized in the shockwave.

Then Rudra watches — and laughs. The primordial God of Destruction. The storm that precedes all things. Shiva's most ancient and ferocious form.

He sees in Zoravar the perfect detonator for the complete destruction of the current universe — and snatches his dissolving soul from mid-air and throws him into the AOA arena.

Zoravar fights in the arena.

But his final goal — the only thing he is working toward — is to crush even Rudra with his iron pillar.

To be used as no one's weapon. Not even a god's.

We've shared characters throughout this series who defy gods.

Uttaran turned against Aryaman. Dandak aimed his cannon at Kartikeya. Nakhadra planned to hunt Sharabha.

But we're asking about Zoravar separately — because Rudra is different.

Rudra is not a minor deity or a mythological creature. He is among

the oldest and most powerful divine forces in the entire tradition.

He is Shiva before Shiva had a name. The howling storm. The roar at the

edge of dissolution.

For many of you, Rudra — or Shiva —is not mythology. It is the god your family prays to. The name spoken at the beginning and end of things.

We're asking Indians living abroad specifically because you have spent time in environments where you had to hold your faith more consciously — and that often means you feel these things more clearly than anyone.

Two honest questions:

→ Does Zoravar's goal of crushing Rudra feel qualitatively different from our other god-defiance characters — and if so, why?

→ A character with no Indian-rooted name, no fate from the gods, who physically destroys Karma trajectories and plans to smash Rudra — is this a character you could see yourself rooting for?

Or does something about the totality of this feel wrong?

Survey is 3-5 minutes, no login, anonymous: [Survey link]

If Rudra or Shiva is part of your daily life or your family's faith — we want to hear how this character lands.

Even one sentence in the comments tells us more than the survey data can.

— Arena Of Avatars, South Korea🙏

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u/Ok_Conversation6215 — 3 days ago

29F Indian, SF Bay Area — best dating app for serious/marriage-minded dating?

Hi all, 29F Indian here in the Bay Area, looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage, not casual dating.

My parents are also looking on matrimonial sites in parallel, but I'd like to try finding someone myself too. Any recommendations for apps (or communities) that actually work for marriage-minded dating here?

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u/IntelligentTower6032 — 3 days ago
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8 approvals in 14 days. 7 O-1A, 1 EB-1A.

Disclosure upfront, we're OpenSphere and we handle O-1A and EB-1A cases.

Here's what all 8 had in common.
- Every single one almost didn't apply
- None of the files started strong
- The raw evidence looked ordinary. A judging gig. A press mention. Work people use but nobody wrote up
- What changed was the framing, not the applicant

Extraordinary doesn't mean Nobel Prize. It means meeting specific criteria with evidence framed the right way.

The biggest filter isn't USCIS. It's people counting themselves out too early.

Questions welcome in the comments.

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u/openspheree — 4 days ago

Do majority of Indians usually reside in northeast coast ?

Why do people prefer living in the north when the weather is extremely cold and living costs are usually higher. Does it provide job opportunities and better salaries

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u/Lemonade2250 — 6 days ago

PSA about visiting National Parks, especially those with tons of wildlife like Yellowstone, Glacier, and Theodore Roosevelt NP.

I just returned from a 10-day trip to Yellowstone. As a field biologist who has worked in the Greater Yellowstone area for the past four years and visits monthly, I’ve seen hundreds of bizarre human-wildlife interactions. But this trip was different. I witnessed an overwhelming amount of baffling, disrespectful behavior specifically from our own community (Indians).

I am making this post to:

a) Raise awareness for first-time visitors who aren't used to the outdoors.

b) Promote best practices to keep both people and wildlife safe. Too many animals are euthanized due to human interference and habituation.

c) Set higher standards for our community so we are looked up to, rather than escalating tensions or building negative stereotypes.

Here are the specific behaviors I observed this week:

a) Blocking Roads & Lack of Courtesy: An Indian family stopped literally in the middle of the road to look at a male elk in velvets, completely blocking the view of people who had properly parked in a pull-out long before they arrived. When asked to move, they shouted back and argued. The rule is simple: priority goes to those already there. If you arrive later, find a spot that doesn't block others. If you are in the wrong, apologize and move. Don't ruin a moment someone else waited years or decades to observe.

b) Blasting Music & Loud Talking: This is especially for the 30s–40s age groups visiting mostly with friends. When you are outdoors, please, for the love of whatever you pray to, stop playing loud music or talking in loud voices. Loud noises startle wildlife and ruin the quiet for everyone else. I actually watched a group of techies blasting Telugu music near the central part of Yellowstone.

c) Harassing Private Tours & Ignoring Rangers: If you see a group using spotting scopes, it is usually a private tour people paid thousands of dollars for. Tour guides have told me for years that Indian families frequently barge into their space, overtaking to look through their scopes, and badger them with questions. It is incredibly rude. Furthermore, multiple rangers have told me they are exhausted from having to repeat simple directives (like moving a car or stepping back) over and over to South and East Asians. When a ranger tells you to do something, obey immediately.

d) Dismissiveness Toward Nature: Too many people visit only to cross "charismatic megafauna" off a checklist or take selfies. While I was observing a family of marmots play-fighting, an Indian family stopped to ask what I was looking at. When I told them, they openly scoffed, said it was a "waste of time," and said they only cared about wanting to see wolves. A white American photographer who was next to me and someone I know personally for years was floored by how rude and bizarre the comment was.

How to respect the parks, the wildlife, and fellow visitors:

a) Never stop in the middle of the road. Pull completely into a turnout, park, and walk to a safe viewing spot without blocking others.

b) Give wildlife space. Stop trying to take group selfies with bison. They are wild, unpredictable, and can kill you before you can blink. There was a 12 year old kid who got seriously injured last week by a bison and had to be hospitalized!

c) Obey rangers instantly. Every nationality has its idiots (wandersluts and tourons). Let's make sure our community doesn't lead that list.

d) Keep negative opinions to yourself. If you aren't interested in a specific animal or landscape, just move on quietly instead of broadcasting your dismissiveness to people who are enjoying it.

e) Drive slowly, and don't, for the love of whatever you pray to, be loud or play loud music in natural areas!

Attached is the photo of the exact marmots I was watching when that family called them a "waste of time." Let’s do better, represent our community with pride, and respect these wild spaces.

PS: I have called out any touron who does the above crap, no matter their nationality or skin color and will continue to do so!

u/EfficiencyDry1159 — 5 days ago

Is it really possible to secure a new Job in US for H1B laid Off candidate within 60days?

I have been recently laid off, Its been a week. I see a lot of job posting and applied to few of them, no reply yet. Just wondering, are there anybody who were able to get new job in this job market. Please do share your experience. I find it tough and hopeless. My previous SDET job interview process and sponsorship LCA submission took 4 months with 5 rounds Interview. Sometimes HR is on vacation and panel is not available, It does take time as per my experience.

please pour in any success stories or let's talk reality.

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u/Physical_Image_5788 — 5 days ago
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27[M4F] Let’s make friends/memories

I just recently bought my new apartment in downtown, right next to the sphere’s !Got it setup and furnished, but now outta things to do
I’m sure in the mood to do a nice chick now, and trust me, I’m very accommodating!
I’m here to grow circle’s more, i felt Reddit is the right place to come for the character i am.
Would love to meet and indulge deeper!!

About me : Extroverted, athlete , racer, love to explore, 6 feet tall and 220lbs, i’ve been told i grow on people fast,so keep that in mind.

Must be discreet and nothing set on stone, Just some passionate lustful encounter and we move on as strangers

Must be: Clean and intellectual, no restrictions with relationship status, age of 21 - 44 works for me.

If you’ve made it so far,don’t stop yourself from texting , obviously!!

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u/No_Stay8780 — 6 days ago
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A kid needs our support

Edit : Thank you all for your valuable contributions. The fundraiser goal is completed.

Hey friends, requesting y'all to kindly support this ailing kid. Please support her in any way possible.

This is a genuine case and there are many who is helping by providing financial support. Kindly do your part whatever small donation you can.

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If upi doesn't work, the best option is direct bank transfer.

u/HungerForPurpose — 5 days ago
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"American college experience”

I'm an international student (Indian) and I genuinely feel like I'm watching college happen through a glass wall.
My classmates are reserved, clubs are limited, and the ones that exist are mostly with other international students, which is great for experiencing different cultures but it also means I'm never really around Americans or learning how to exist in that world.

Sororities feel completely out of reach both financially and culturally. I didn't grow up with the same references, shows, humor, inside jokes. I don't know how to just fit in the way people who grew up here do.

And the worst part is time is passing. I'm not a freshman anymore. I’m a junior. I feel like I missed windows I can't reopen.

Did anyone else feel this way? Does it get better or did you just accept it?

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u/SoulnProgress — 7 days ago

halal for Hindus Is Haram

I want to understand: why is American Airlines feeding halal food to Hindus or vegetarians?

I recent was on a flight from Zurich to Lax on American Air and they fed my halal vegetarian for my Asian vegetarian meal option. Whats forcing them to do this?

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u/Sharp_Criticism7425 — 7 days ago

New in Indian heavy town in nc

So hey new here. Just moved to a new town in NC and there are a ton of Indian families. Always like Indians from my background which is tech sales. So weird question do Indian women specifically Desi girls like white men? They’re so hot but idk they seem not to look my way I’m attractive and dress well but not sure if it’s culture or if I am just not their type??? Thoughts?

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u/ncjts29 — 7 days ago

Need urgent help, please!

I won an international bookstagram giveaway and the host can't ship anything from the US to India via Amazon. Is there any online indian bookstore which accepts foreign payment for gift cards purchase or something?

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u/iivoryyiivyy — 7 days ago
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Need advice/validation of relocating from Texas

I have been living in Houston Texas for the past 20 years and my wife for the past 15 years. We are from India and just happened to land here when we came to US, no particular affiliation or family here. Since then we have a good group of friends and neighbors. We have two kids 9 and 7. Our closest family (wife's sister with her family in NC). We have extended family in Dallas and LA. We all like nature, hiking, and sometimes backpacking as well. My kids and I like skiing and rafting.

Problems with Houston: Very hot and humid. There's no outdoor activities (I am not into fishing, hunting, etc) here and closest mountains and skiing are 10-15 hour drive. Any outdoor vacation we want to go in is a flight trip away. There's no casual weekend trip. We have next 10 days off for July 4 week long shutdown but don't have many options go anywhere drivable. It has gotten much more conservative and religious. Especially ten commandments and upcoming mandatory Bible reading in schools. I am sure they will come up with more.

Pros with Houston: Familiarity, affordable, big houses, and friends.

Relocation: I have been thinking of moving for the last 3 years and have dreams so often of moving, I keep asking my wife to move. She is concerned about the unknown, lack of friends for us and kids, and specific reasons like gloomy for Seattle, cold for Denver etc. She is willing to relocate to NC to be closer to her sister but I am not sure if NC is worth the relocation - I checked the weather next two weeks, it's hotter than Houston. I understand overall it's colder than here but if we are uprooting ourselves, I want it to be worth it.

My preferred locations are West. Seattle and Denver are my choice given access to outdoors. Salt Lake City is another one. Our HHI is 400k+ and we get 10% more at our jobs if we go to HCOL places like LA, Bay Area, Seattle, NY, etc. Anywhere we go, we will likely look for suburbs with some Indians around for sense of familiarity.

Please provide any advice, thoughts on moving vs staying. Thanks in advance.

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u/GoCamping27 — 9 days ago