r/inthecity_

On WWHL 5/19 Kyle was asked if he regrets asking Amanda for back rent on the apartment they shared. The fact that Kyle was broke, in debt and she had affiliate money and not helping to pay rent is craaaazy to me. And yes I know she had a problem with Kyle DJing but if I was broke with my spouse, I’d be at that DJ booth every night helping pay the bills, especially if I didn’t have a day job. Additionally, if she was really worried about his cheating in result of his drinking, wouldn’t she want to be there to make sure he gets home? If they were trying to work on their marriage, should they have been together at these DJ events for support? After seeing how manipulative she is in this season, I think she loved having the cheating rumors to hold over him and gain public sympathy.

What are your thoughts?

Edit: I DID NOT SAY AMANDA SHOUKD FOLLOW KYLE AROUND. If you are in therapy and dealing with infidelity issues, there should be a middle ground where you do MORE things together (in this case his events) rather than spending more time apart, especially if there’s alcohol/drug issues. SUPPORT YOUR SPOUSE YOU’RE A TEAM. It goes both ways in this situation 🤦🏼‍♀️.

The surveillance camera access to the speak easy? Disgusting.

The way he didn't have a straight answer for Lindsey or the panel questioning his intentions.

The way Whitney was already moving across the country, but he's still wondering if she "is his person"?!

Red flags all around.

Why does Danielle have to be in, In The City??? I was really hoping I never had to see her again!! Literally ANYONE else would have been better!!!! Hopefully she won’t last long!

She left to San Diego for multiple days and he didn’t even realize???????

And you want to have children with this man??

Truly. What is with women that want to be moms this badly, so they settle for marrying a complete dope thinking that’s the ticket?

As a family law attorney, let me tell you it’s much cheaper to skip marrying the dope who doesn’t even know if you’ve left the state and to just go the IVF route.

I get we all hate Amanda, but let’s be real why is he out until 4 AM the night before therapy? He get’s to play victim at the last party- crying, skulking around, pity party because Amanda didn’t want to talk after everything he did the night before. That SAME night he stays out WAYYYY past her - that doesn’t say “I want to make changes in this relationship”

Yayayya she had on a coat in the summer- you all have never been spiraling, sweating and in sensory overload? Let’s add a camera crew and the reality that the moment will be aired on national TV…

I know i know we hate Amanda.

I think?

Danielle posted on her story on Instagram that the handjob thing was a lie. Then Lindsay posted on her story to rewatch season 4...it's not totally clear if Lindsay is responding to Danielle. Like it could easily also be about Kyle and Amanda. On season 4:

- kyle and Amanda set a wedding date. There are more cheating rumours I think.

- Lindsay and Carl hook up/makeout. Unclear if the handjob thing is from this season.

Thoughts?

Amanda made a point to tell Kyle she’s moving out at their anniversary date at the end of September (felt a little retaliatory for the rent back pay but whatever). However she said on WWHL that she moved out before BravoCon in early Nov. What took so long? She had the money, could get more from her parents if needed, but hung around over a month? Was it a production thing, a lie, or was she being malicious?

I have nobody to discuss this show with, so I have to post my thoughts here!

To preface, I’ve never been a fan of Amanda or Danielle.

I just cannot believe Amanda’s hypocrisy between her comments on this first episode and in the summer house leaked audio. She’s calling out Danielle for dating a married guy, but was screaming at Ciara about how she’s only married on paper and is allowed to date other people. Don’t even get me started on her laughing about being a girls’ girl. She has never been one.

With Danielle, she knew her boyfriend years ago and moved in with him after a few months of dating. Already talking about a baby and engagement. But it was too much when Lindsay, who actively knew Carl for years, moved in with him and got engaged?? And when Lindsay got pregnant, she also knew her then-boyfriend years before like how Danielle knew her boyfriend years before they reconnected. It’s fine for Danielle to do whatever, so long as Lindsay doesn’t get there before her.

Thanks for reading my rant!

Just finished the first episode of *In The City* and idk, y’all….Gaslight Girl, lost?? What’re your takeaways??