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Looking forward to make connections, Any Queer peeps around? Bangalore ?

Any Bangalore queer Malayali folks ?

Life’s been pretty hectic. I’ve been living a somewhat solitude life and, honestly, I’m still a little confused about myself. Just trying to make connections, explore who I am, and understand myself better.

I’m a pretty open person, and I’d love to meet people who are open-minded ,people I can genuinely be myself around and have real, meaningful connections with in all means

I hope this post is clean and clear

And guys, please don’t hit me up assuming I’m a girl 😅

Hey everyone. I am an 18-year-old trans girl (MtF) living with my parents in Kerala because I live at home, I am completely closeted and pre-transition. I cannot leave the house for offline groups, so I am exploring everything safely and secretly online.
I am writing this because I really need some advice and connection. For a long time, I have constantly imagined myself as a woman, and it makes me feel incredibly happy. However, when I try on women's clothes in private, I experience a mix of physical arousal, which is immediately followed by a massive wave of intense guilt and regret. It makes me feel like my feelings are fake or wrong, and the stress makes it hard to focus on my daily life.
Did any of you experience this mix of excitement and deep shame when you were starting out? How did you deal with the guilt?
I would love to get advice from older trans women, and I would also love to connect and text privately with other Indian or Malayali trans peers or queer students who are in a similar pre-transition situation just to make friends and support each other. Please drop a comment or send me a DM. Thank you so much!

25f here, anyone up for a genuine chat( please be atleast 25 or above)? atleast tell me how do you guys actually meet up with queer women in kerala? is there like any gathering or something organised here we can go to?