r/keralapride

I (21M) was in a relationship with a guy (19M) for almost 8 months. We live in India, and because of that, we aren't open about our sexuality with anyone. But I loved him so much that I started planning to come out and live with him. I am bisexual and was never planning on being in a gay relationship, but he changed that. I loved him with all my heart.

Recently, however, I started uncovering a web of lies. He had told me that the relationship with his ex was completely over before we even met, but I found messages from just a few months ago where he was apologizing to her. When I confronted him, he claimed they were only pretending to be in a relationship in front of their friends and that there was nothing actually going on between them. I chose to believe him, even though it was hard to swallow.

Then, I saw some very spicy texts with another guy. When I confronted him about this, he told me that his friend was using his Instagram account to text his own boyfriend because the friend’s account was banned/deleted (I didn’t ask for details). This time, I had to make sure it was true because the texts were way too explicit—there were literally messages talking about what they would do to each other if they met in person.

I asked for his friend's number (the one who supposedly used my boyfriend's Instagram) and DM'd him. He admitted that he did it, but the strange thing was that when I checked the number on a caller ID app, it belonged to the very guy my boyfriend was supposedly texting on his friend's behalf. I demanded the truth, which finally forced him to give me the real number. At that point, I was heartbroken and lost all hope. I had been planning my entire future with this man against my family’s wishes.

The final nail in the coffin was finding his Telegram. Even if I couldn't 100% prove whether the Instagram DMs were sent by my boyfriend or his friend, the Telegram left no doubt. There were audio clips of him being so... explicit. A few months ago, he had planned to meet a different guy through Telegram. He did meet him, but promised me they didn't do anything physical. That part was actually confirmed by audio clips where my boyfriend said, “Oh, it’s so bad that we can’t do anything.” They were planning another meet-up and switched to WhatsApp for easier texting. He admitted to the texting while insisting nothing physical happened. The WhatsApp chat has since been deleted.

I'm writing this while still processing what to do. Even after all this, I can't bring myself to hate him. He promised me that nothing happened and that he won't do it again. But every single time I gave him the chance to be honest and begged him not to lie, he did it anyway.

I really just want to find the strength to move on from him.

i dont just need any freaks i want someone who has abstract thinking

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Almost all posts here are made by chasers and most of it's about seeing transgenders as eye candy or something to be sexualized.

This is just disrespectful to the trans community itself, like this sub is enabling sexualizing a group of people.

Idk why man posts made by people specifically says in the lines of "I'm attracted to the trans". You are just a creep if you feel that way.

It's normal to get attracted trans people, but if you are specifying that you like trans woman instead of calling them as women , you are a chaser.

Trans women are women....

All these people use offensive terms to describe transgenders..

What's wrong with you people

About a month ago, I came across a profile on the nymph app by the name of Sandra on travel mode. She was a gorgeous 23 year old post-op transwoman based somewhere in India or the US (she claimed to be living in Mumbai but her hometown was Kochi and she also said she had an American father). But before I could send her a like and a message, she disappeared from my feed and now I cant seem to find her. She said she was basically a mallu, but that her father is American as stated before. As for her appearance, she had caramel-brown skin, blue-green eyes, and long dark hair; all-in-all she was very beautiful. I know that it is a long shot, but I am posting here just in case she is on here or if anyone else has interacted with her and has some information or can point me to another subreddit where I could find her.

I myself am a 23 year old cis male and I was born in Bangalore, but raised in London.

From my experience with women and shemales shemales understands mens easily. But the ones I met are mostly horny and all they do have boyfriends but and still talk stuff sometimes i play along with them. But most of the time I need genuine connection and all but it always crosses boundaries and they get bored and go away. 🏃🏻‍♂️

I don't find much transgenders or femboy of my age. Groups.

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28 M here from kochi, watching adult content from my 8th class, i thought i was straight and liked only girls,but for the past few months i been finding male sexual part to be arousing. Wt to do.

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I am a girl, bi-curious and want to explore my sexuality. I have been curious but I never thought to act on it until now.

I don't want anything serious until I figure this out.

What do I do? I've thought about hooking up with a girl to confirm it. But the dating apps are filled with fake profiles and men pretending to be women. Where can I actually find queer women?

I want to talk and discuss what i feel like probably venting to someone who can understand. I don't mind who you are or what you are. i just need a good listener to identify myself.

Like i am straight but after seeing beautiful transgenders like yaami, missy ts. Etc.

I am confused am i bi and I had some times with real feminine femboys mexican and 2 indian they were hot and girly which kinda gives me Butterfly

If ya'll wana talk for a bit hmu ig wait is this kinda post even allowed in this idk sorry mods 😭😭

This sissy feeling is making me horney as fuck. This drives me crazy. But am closetted,need advices from fellow sissies and trans.