r/lolgrindr

Just accuse anyone who rejects you of being an Indian catfish, I guess?

sidenote: i am the whitest mf alive so idk where he got liberia from. ive been assumed to be wasian before so if it were that id sort of understand but liberian??

also theres nothing on my profile that hints at my job

All cause I had "no old or masc guys" in my bio

What's this one's issue?

(London UK)

Am I missing something? Is this a stereotype? What the hell just happened? I am… so genuinely baffled. I have never been speechless on Grindr before. This is a first.

I don’t think I even knew I was positive for a whole day at this point.

I met a sweet, well-endowed guy, and we hooked up when we were really drunk. He drove about 30 minutes to see me around 1:30 AM. We did what we came to do, then he slept over—we cuddled and kissed a lot. In the morning, we had more fun, blown together, and after that he left and texted me saying how much he enjoyed it and that he wanted me to come over to his place, even though we had just said goodbye an hour earlier.

I was keen to see him again and he came to my place at very late time (he was genuine to me), so I decided to drive to his place (which isn’t something I usually do, especially since he lives that far away). We kept exchanging update when I was driving. I ended up being about 10 minutes late because of traffic. When I arrived, I texted him—he had been offline for 10 minutes. I rang the bell and knocked on the door—nothing. It was silent, even though I could hear the bell ringing inside.

The funny thing is, over the next few days, he checked my profile 2–3 times a day whenever I was online, but he never texted me again after that. I know that people get cold-feet sometimes but Grindr guys are mysterious thing for me to explain.

Completely unprompted! I’ve never messaged this person:/

Just got this one.

That last line gets me.