Trapped by a Narcissistic Psychopath
At first, he seemed like the perfect partner......polite, kind, and caring. Slowly, he made me depend on him for everything. He cut me off from my friends, controlled my finances, and manipulated me with threats of self‑harm whenever I tried to leave.
He became obsessive..... standing outside my home and office, accusing me of cheating, even showing jealousy when I spoke to my parents. If I didn’t answer his calls, he would force his way into my home, lock me inside, and demand apologies.
The situation escalated into public scenes dragging me into the street, shouting, throwing stones at strangers who tried to help. When the police were called, he turned the blame on me, falsely accusing me of taking money. Thankfully, I had proof to clear my name.
Even after promising to leave me alone, he still calls and text me as if nothing had happened. I live alone, and I am terrified he will show up again. He even quit his job months ago just to monitor me.
I’m sharing this because I don’t know what to do next. Blocking him feels dangerous, but continuing like this is unbearable. I’m scared for my safety.
What should I do? Has anyone faced something similar, and how did you protect yourself?