I was thinking of implementing a rule where people have to mention what relationship style they're in, what kind of connection they're looking for etc.
I'm also not entirely sure we should have "seeking" posts at all, considering all that can go wrong via the internet. Thoughts?
I am 44M straight. 6ft2', wheatish complexion. I don't look 44 is what I am being told by female colleagues. I play basketball and I'm fit. But not a gym freak.
I have seen people in their 20s n 30s who are into polygamy. I have not found any people in their late 30s or beyond 40s. I am looking for a partner but I am clueless where and how to find one.
Any suggestions!?
We're a couple in our 30s looking to meet a like-minded woman for an MFF dynamic. This isn't our first experience—we've had a few great experiences in the past and are looking to connect with someone who enjoys good chemistry, open communication, and a relaxed, respectful vibe.
We're not interested in rushing into anything. We'd rather chat, get to know each other, and make sure everyone is comfortable and genuinely interested before meeting.
A little about us:
Couple in our 30s
Clean, respectful, and drama-free
Prior MFF experience
Looking for a genuine connection with a single woman (not another couple)
If you're interested, feel free to send us a message with a little about yourself. Happy to exchange photos after we've chatted a bit.
Looking forward to meeting someone who's on the same page!
Hi all,
I'd really like to get this community going. People seem to come across the sub every now and then but that's it. Does anyone have any ideas?
I'm 34F, and I was in a relationship with my ex who has been in love with his partner for 16 years. We had broken up once over him feeling not so much in love with me six months ago, and we got back together after a month when he felt he was in love with me.
He broke up with me two days ago, and the reason is that his partner is not okay sharing him with me. This feels like betrayal because he made up to me after the last breakup, and promised not to leave me. I tried to explain to him that his current dynamic with his partner will always remain difficult because they stay in different countries. However, he has made up his mind and has asked me to move on.
I am still in love with him, and though I still expect him to return, my mind tells me we are through and this is the end of it all. I'm finding it difficult to cope and my mental health has taken a huge hit. I know it's too soon to expect myself to actually accept the situation, and I need time to heal. I think I was just looking for a place to rant.
Any suggestions on how to cope are welcome.
P.S. Do not offer to be a replacement. My DMs are filled with people wanting to engage. I am not going to reply to any such messages.