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31 [F4M] Looking for a long-term partner

Hey! :) I’m 31F (almost 32), 5’8”, blonde, blue eyed and a bit curvy. I’m pretty active/sporty and usually go to the gym 3x a week.

I have my own place, a car, a good career and a stable income. I also have a small dog (poodle). I’m emotionally available and I go to therapy regularly.

I’m pretty social and I’d really like to find someone who actually wants to do life together. I’d love to find someone who is down for things like:

- Board game nights
- Double dates with friends
- Events, concerts, festivals, etc.
- Going to the gym together
- Trying new restaurants and random activities
- Travelling 1–2 times a year (I’d love to do Europe or Japan at some point)

I’m also a huge gamer. Mostly PC but I have a switch too, so if you’re into gaming that’s definitely a bonus.

I’m not looking for anything casual. I’d like to meet someone who’s in a similar place in life: independent, emotionally available, financially stable and wants to build a relationship together.

I definitely want kids someday, so someone who doesn’t want kids wouldn’t be a good fit for me. I’m also looking for someone who doesn’t already have kids.

Ideally looking for someone around 29–39.

Feel free to message me and tell me a bit about yourself! I’m happy to exchange photos of myself in DMs :)

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34F4M - Cute date, coffee and a little spark

I’m not looking for anything sexual. So just putting that out there upfront.

Looking for a good-looking guy to grab coffee with, so hear me out 😅

I miss having that flirty, playful chemistry with someone. Like good banter, deep conversations, laughing and just enjoying each other’s company. Ideally someone who sparks something in me.
Maybe coffee dates, walks in the park, cute little hangouts……..and if the chemistry is mutual, I wouldn’t mind holding hands. That’s honestly about as far as I’m looking to take it.

My type: age range 25-40, preferably white, tall, on the thinner/slimmer side (you definitely don’t have to be muscular) ,with a full head of hair. A nice smile is a bonus. 🫢

Personality matters : kind, emotionally intelligent, a good listener.

About me: Married, 34, Brown, 5’6”, curvy and apparently beautiful according to people who have seen me. 🙂‍↔️ I’m terrible at describing my appearance without accidentally making it sound like a dating app thirst trap. so I’ll leave the rest to photos/conversation 😂

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u/Ill_Shallot_4403 — 4 days ago

Warning: super corny, super embarrassing post.

Hey, I’m a single 24 year-old man out of Barrhaven. I’m looking for a single 20-35 year-old woman. Need someone to steal my hoodies and my heart.

Long-term or Short-term. Doesn’t matter, I’m getting back into the scene so really I’m game for anything.

I’m 6 feet tall and about 160-170 pounds. I’m a white guy with a bald head and a moustache. I’ve got a big heart with lots of love, and no one to give my love to.

I enjoy going on hikes, photography, vinyl records and ice cold beer. I love spending hours walking and talking aimlessly about super deep and profound stuff or super dumb and pointless stuff.

I wouldn’t call myself a shy person, I’m very extroverted, I’m not super hung up on my appearance but I like dressing nicely, I clean up well. I don’t like to fight and I don’t like drama. I’m looking for a relationship not a starring role in an action movie.

I want all the super corny, super embarrassing and incredibly confusing stuff that comes with a relationship. I don’t care what anyone else thinks about us.
Getting you flowers, holding hands, kissing. Falling in love. That’s all I want.

Is there any love here for me? Dm me.

Life sucks being alone, sucks even more if you don’t have any friends. Which is a very easy thing to achieve in my line of work. So even if anyone here just wants to be friends, if you need someone to just shut-up and listen.
Hit me up.

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u/Sorry-Conference460 — 6 days ago

35M4F - Looking for a long lasting AP (Affair Partner)

- Looking for that spark and connection and I don’t have, I am hoping to find a women in a similar situation in the Ottawa area! I am not looking to change our situations but hoping go find that emotional and then physical connection. I am hoping to find someone that I can share my life with and vice-versa. I wanna hear all about yours and build that ever lasting connection!

- I am hoping that we could maybe go for coffee and meet the odd time and then plan out other times to see each other. I get both our situations with busy lives ect. But I am willing to make it work for the right person!

- If this interests you please don’t hesitate and send me a message I would love to talk/swap pics and get to know each other! :)

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u/Easy-Cry7767 — 7 days ago