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24 [F4M]- Philippines/Anywhere - looking for longterm genuine relationship

Im not looking for any NSFW please don’t message me if you just want to play around. Also am honestly trying to connect with people here but they suddenly disappear after few days.

How I wish i have someone i have a reason to be excited to go home and share about my stressful work lol. Really just looking for a friendship for now that can turn into more . Just miss the feeling when someone taht checks up on you. Genuinely just want someone who cares.

Some things i can share about me:

Im really an indoor person jsut lvoes to be cozy the hwole day, watch movies or probably cook or bake something while watching a movie or anime.

im a typical girly person i like pink or black. u can usually see me in jeans with plee plum top or cardigan with baggy jeans .

im 5’0 have an average body type . Fun fact is i just realized im 5’0 because all this time i thought im solid 5’2 but when i tried to measure it im really just 5 sadly 🥲

im a big texter can also do call sometimes but i have go warn you i have a roomate so im usually just available to call in weekends.

about you: I really dont have high standards i just want someone whos calm and kind. Ldr is not a problem for me we could work it oit as long as youre willing to. Preferably someone around the age 22-31- If you’re interested dm me so we can exchange pics :) please just dont say hi!

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u/sunniesideuppp — 13 hours ago
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50 [F4M] #Chicago - Looking for a Connection That Feels Easy, Mutual & Real

I’m at a stage in life where I know what I don’t want just as much as what I do.

I’m not looking for a friends-with-benefits situation or something purely casual. I’m hoping to meet someone open to building a genuine connection if the right chemistry and consistency are there. That said, I’m also not looking to rush into anything. I actually enjoy getting to know someone naturally.

A little about me, I’m a Chicago transplant, tattoo collector, cat mom, and someone who can happily move from deep conversations to complete nonsense depending on the vibe. I have caramel skin, curves, brown eyes, and shoulder-length jet black hair. I love live music, movies, museums, coffee shops, and discovering new places around the city.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone between 45–55 where conversation flows both ways-someone curious, communicative, emotionally aware, and capable of more than one word responses. Effort, consistency, and genuine interest matter to me.

I’m ideally looking for someone within a realistic distance of, as I’d ultimately like something that can exist off-screen too.

If you reach out, please actually read the post first, tell me a bit about yourself, and include a picture.

https://imgur.com/a/v4r0qV7

u/Wild_Cloud2854 — 21 hours ago
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Hi!

I’m 6ft tall with caramel/olive skin depending on the season. I have a shaved head but with a beard to compliment otherwise I’d be an actual egg. I have blue eyes which everyone says is my standout feature. Other than that I have a bad case of RBF. I have maybe 14 tattoos all around my body, I may look scary but I promise I’m a big softy. 😇

Here is a pic for reference, yes I understand it’s blurry but let’s keep things mysterious - just kidding I’ll happily send better pics in dms.

Build wise I’m muscular yet a lil squishy. (This varies depending on what I’m doing - last year I dropped 20kgs but now I’m bulking again)

I’m a fairly relaxed person even nonchalant if you must. I love the simple things in life, beaches, cafes, exploring the urban jungle and going on road trips. I’m also a massive foodie - it’s probably the main reason I travel is to try new foods, it’s pretty much the key to my heart. As much as this makes me sound like an extrovert I do have a small social battery, you can find me at home binging shows and playing games (pc/switch for those who game!)

My main hobby is working out, you can find me in the gym most days I prefer weights over cardio but both work hand in hand! I’m always happy to give advice or walk you through no matter what level you’re at!

As my title says I’m based in Australia but due to my line of work I have flexibility to get a job anywhere in the world! So convince to come visit you 🤪 my job is niche to some but I love what I do!

I don’t have a preference on who I talk too, age, ethnicity and location don’t bother me! All are welcome.

u/Dull-Heart-1085 — 23 hours ago

31 [F4M] Maryland- Wine, a date and maybe some cuddles?

About me: 5'3, curvy, bratty masochistic, alt black woman. Piercings, dyed hair and tattoos. I've been told I'm funny, and I've got a good sense of humor and love banter. Soft eyes and softer lips. Politically left. Into metal, pop punk, Midwest emo and K-indie. Painting, karaoke, sketching, anime, kdrama and video game lore.

Not sure what I'm looking for, but maybe it's you? Craving physical touch and emotional connection. You: 34-48 years old. Politically left and nerdy. Taller than me and live in Maryland/Baltimore/DMV area. Open to Philly or Lancaster. Ideally to meet in person eventually.

No poly or ENM and no children please.

Interested in East Asian/South East Asian men and white men.

Tell me your favorite hobby or music artist and let's get to know each other. Hope to hear from you~

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u/spoiledxseraph — 1 day ago

32 [M4F] #UK #Anywhere - White Male seeking genuine connection with an Indian or Black Woman.

About me:

I'm Jack a 32 white male from London UK. I work in the corporate world and have a stable life/career. I'm an ambitious person and a provider.

I'm calm, understanding, passionate and caring. I love exploring the world and experiencing different cultures when i get the chance. I love to keep active, go out to try new food or places to eat, or walk out in nature.

Physicaly, I'm 5'10, attractive guy with green/grey eyes and dark brown hair and an athletic build, happy to share a photo when we connect.

What I'm looking for:

I've always been drawn to the culture and beauty of India, South Asia & Africa and I'm specifically hoping to find an Black or South Asian woman who is open to start something geniune. I don't mind long distance as long as we communicate well and look to close the gap eventually.

I care more about your personality than physical appearance and also open to an age gap relationship.

If you're interested in chatting, please reach out to introduce yourself, and I'm looking forward to seeing where our conversation might lead!

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u/RequirementDirect469 — 3 days ago

26(F4M) Looking for a real connection #Anywhere

Hey 😊

I’m looking to meet someone genuine I am open to someone from Nepal or long distance if the connection feels right. I value kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, and good communication, and I’m hoping for something meaningful and long-term.

About me: I’m 5’2.5 and into anime, gaming, dancing (salsa/bachata), CrossFit, and exploring new places. I’m currently studying for the bar and run a guest house . I’m vegetarian, don’t smoke, and drink socially.

You: ideally in your 20s–30s, emotionally aware, respectful, and taller than me. Bonus if you enjoy games, fitness, or the outdoors.

If this sounds like you, feel free to message 😊 That’s me:https://imgur.com/a/83URbE5

u/Most_Coffee7063 — 5 days ago
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45 F4M African lady seeking an older than me partner of a different race

F45 seeking an older than me whiteman, for friendship➡️long-term relationship➡️ marriage. Teacher by profession, African lady, divorced. A mother of 3, two adults and one minor boy-16. Currently residing and working in South East Asia - Cambodia. I'm not for flings or nudes. I value honesty - the ugly truth is perfect and a straight talker- a man who knows what he wants. I'm 5,5" tall, average/full-figured- UK size 44-46, cheerful, kind and loyal to serious commitments. I'm looking for my soulmate- most preferably Taurus/Scorpion/Pisces stars. I'm a Capricorn lady! You're welcome to text me your introduction.

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u/Quiet_Teaching_7590 — 6 days ago

25 F4M looking a serious partner

I'm looking for someone serious, I'm a deadhead have three dogs , I love reading novels, I love cooking . Never been married before. Hmu if you want to get to know each other 😌

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u/New_Eggplant5863 — 9 days ago

F4M] 38 NJ black woman seeking man 35+

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Hey. Trying something new. I am. 38 year old Black woman 5'9" based in NJ wondering if I might find an interesting man here.

First things first: Knicks/Mets/Giants fan and I have no tolerance for Philly sports teams or the Pacers lol. A girl's gotta have her standards.

Indoor activities: 1000 piece puzzles, homemade mosaics, experimenting in the kitchen.

Outdoor activities: movies, concerts, sports games, cultural activities, karaoke, hiking.

Non negotiables: I have a 13 year old and don't want more children. I am happy in NJ and don't plan on moving.

I'm open to all races. I'm not strict about height as long as you are confident.

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u/AfterManufacturer558 — 8 days ago

22 F4M Egyptian looking for a like minded relationship

I always felt posting to find partners is desperate but hey you never know what you may find.
I ideally I am looking for a life abroad away from my country living freely with a like minded partner who is of more European/American culture as I feel like I belong more to this part and I feel like the dating pool where I am from is a big no no

I love traveling hiking exploring having adventures I more of an outside person i want a life partner that makes me feel safe and comfortable and supportive towards who I am

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u/Effective_History_68 — 8 days ago

33 [F4M] Philippines #online #friends

Deleted my old account because I thought I found someone but now trying again.

I’m a 4’11 33F from the Philippines looking for a friend and possibly something more. I’m shy and an introvert but a yapper with the right person. I like anime, traveling, watching tv series/movies, playing online games (some mmorpgs, tried gacha, shooting games) and going on walks. I go to the gym (but not a gym rat and no abs). I’d rather you drop me a dm and get to know me so you can decide for yourself.

Looking forward to getting to know you.

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u/Different_Peace3137 — 10 days ago

36 [M4F] #Minnesota - Looking for black woman to date long term

Hello! Im a white, 36 year old male on the spectrum. I enjoy drawing, reading books, biking around the lake, working out, playing videogames, watching movies.

Im in my experimenting phase. Ive been attracted to women of color for a while, but have never dated one before. My very first real girlfriend was mixed-race, though. She was latin and indigenous. I prefer black women, but im open to Asian and Latina women.

30+ and older. Any body type. I don't discriminate. I do love a huge butt, though. Id prefer if you were from USA or Minnesota, but not mandatory. Out of state or from Africa is fine. I cant travel, though. Id be open to long distance until we are able to meet though.

DM me if interested in making a new friend and are serious about dating.

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u/totallysadical90 — 11 days ago

33F. Yeah, just stating here I'd feel like rock bottom at the sea, haven't eaten much lately, just going to bring out my offering buckets for Dagon once again, looking for serious friendship connections and looking for new cosmic horror podcasts or sea horror stories. U.S. any location. [F4M]

No comments on my post, that's because I don't read comments, I don't bother reading comments, I don't even bother remembering that I've a notification bell and I go straight to my chat req instead.

Low chat requests will also be ignored, I'd understand why people hide behind a blank profile, that's fine it's just I'm not going to ask you what your interest and hobbies are because you should be able to do that yourself 💀

However, if you read this post to the end you should put some emojis that are a bucket then followed by emojis of what you would offer to Dagon. If that doesn't interest you, then make a Sleep Token pun and my knowledge on video games is more old-skool if you want to make puns.

My other small hobbies and interests.

And yeah I should also address, I'd wish that Redditors would've seen my Steadfast Dwarven Spider uplift itself from a shout from a Deathlord, that was/were the most funniest thing I've seen this whole month currently 💀

However, just camera angle alongside with the dragon shout just was/were 🤣

Yeah, the camera angle you could hilarious see the 8 legs just lifted off the tomb ruins and just went flying FAR back 🤣

However, those Steadfast Dwarven spiders are well-built. I couldn't believe the spider was/were still alive after how far the spider got uplifted and went flying far back from the Deathlord shout far back.

Greek literature, I need to catch up on this though, Lovecraft stories (fascinating, just not the person.) Japanese Yokai lore, new technologies that are out, Skyrim is what I play every single day, if I'm not on YT or listening to music, occasionally everyday or every other day or two I get on Mario Kart 8 and on occasion Splatoon 3.

Yeah, this is just what interests me single day of the week, nothing changes and this is why asking me what's up will get VERY boring every single day.

Big Macs (no lettuce, no pickles and light Big Mac sauce.) Mcdonald's hot chocolate is amazing in flavor and 10 grams of protein for a small is awesome/kool.

Sea salt caramel.

Sugary or caramel perfume because you know that Sleep Token song huh?

Perfume that smells you walked out a forest because you know you got to remember the House of Veridian in the woods of Arcadia.

If you're also alternative, love deathcore, rock music, djent, different types of core and metal music and then just send me a chat req 🌸

Sleep Token is fusion music, that's what genre that I give Sleep Token as well 🦩

The standard Paradiddle 👑 II 🩷

Music.

Erra, Wage War, I See Stars, Currents, I'd enjoy a variety of metal genres/that even includes old-skool black metal and doom metal as well.

And yeah, just the style of old-skool-black metal bands that I'd enjoy are the 90s era of old-skool-black metal as well.

Lorna Shore (Will Ramos era only.)

How often do I go outside?

However, I should address that I'm not a people person and I'd only go out once or twice a week because I don't enjoy going out.

Yeah, just for me though I would rather be a metaphorical term of a Lovecraft unsocial hide away rathan me going out every single day to be around as well.

Highly disinterest me, maybe my Past Self would and it's just not for me anymore. Gave all away my blessings you know, put down my roses and picked up as well ⚔️

And yeah Lovecraft, I'd enjoy his books and just not the person that he is. Dagon and Mountain of Madness are my favorite as well 💯

Yeah, I should also address that I no longer answer how I'm doing and how are you because I don't want to state the obvious, then I get blocked for how I'm feeling because I get blocked every single time I'd.

The last thing I should address is that I'm a VERY codependency for someone to start the conversation every single day, my Vessel brain and skull is an active typewriter.

However, I should address there are too many noises to pick something for a conversations for the day, my Vessel brain and skull has exe error loading.

And yeah, if you're a long winded texter those are the people I look for and I had a few ex-friends that only loved talking in mono and one sentences the friendship connection got nowhere 🤣

However, I should address now that once again if you don't see me post here in a few days I'm just offline and you can 📌 my pinned post as well.

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u/PralineBudget4235 — 10 days ago

40[M4F] #australia - obsessional love

I’ve always dreamed that love would be reciprocated. That love would be the nice house, kids running around, pets and family holidays.
That’s the dream but kind of can’t do that alone… makes for a very sad delusion 😂

I’m 40 , 6ft 3 tall and love scifi, fantasy and qwerky things.
I’d say I’m someone who loves to do acts of service for my partner to show I love them.
I want someone I can feel hopelessly in love with but have that returned. Not just a one way street. Someone who isn’t afraid to tell me how they feel about me and show love.

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u/the6ft3aussie — 11 days ago

42F4M, North Carolina, USA BW 🙂

There’s something about the way a saxophone sounds in a dark room that just stays with you. I’m a 42-year-old Black woman in North Carolina who lives for those moments—the ones filled with jazz, soul, and a little bit of indulgence.
I’m looking for a man outside my ethnicity who appreciates a woman with layers. I love the thrill of the city and the energy of a concert, but I’m equally drawn to the quiet intimacy of a Saturday spent entirely under the covers. There is a certain art to doing absolutely nothing with the right person—getting lost in a Chinese drama marathon and letting the rest of the world fade away.
I want someone who wants to be out by my side, but who isn't in any rush to leave once we’re home. If you think you can keep my attention as well as a good storyline can, I’d love to hear from you.

Edit:

Age range 35-45 is preferred. South Asian, Chinese, European White, Italian, Arab men are preferred. I like men with fair/olive skin but darker hair.

I’m 5’5, 165 lbs and actively working out.

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u/Alternative_Fan_7837 — 12 days ago

28 F4M - Kenya#Anywhere - looking for childfree male

Hi everyone!

I’m a 28-year-old Kenyan woman, 5’4”, childfree, and not religious. I work remotely, which gives me some flexibility with travel and where I can be based.

About me? I occasionally write poetry, I love learning new things, trying different foods, playing Scrabble, watching TV shows, listening to music, taking long walks, and reading. I’m getting into painting, although admittedly, I don’t think it’s a gift I possess. I dance too, although I have two left feet.

I’d consider myself introverted, although I do have some extroverted traits.

About you? I’m looking for someone who communicates well, is empathetic, kind, and emotionally available. I don’t smoke and would prefer a non-smoker. I’d also like someone who enjoys travelling, as I do that occasionally.

I’m open to something consistent that can grow into a long-term connection. I don’t mind long distance, and I’m open to relocating if it feels right.

Thank you for reading!

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u/Almost-impressed-863 — 12 days ago