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F4M 38F black woman seeking Single WM for a Serious Relationship.

I'm big on emotional maturity! I admire a man who can keep his word and has the ability to communicate well. I'm into all things Nature, Lazy Walks, houseplants, board games, Travel, Aromatherapy and a good book. Good energy is a must!! AGES 40-55! ONLY

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u/According_Bear1848 — 21 hours ago

25 F4M #Delaware - Seeking Friendship before Relationship

Hey! I'm a 25yr. old black woman from Delaware, looking into online dating here because the stories of the apps scare me. I've only had one relationship before (a long time ago) and am kiinda sick of sexting. I would like a flirty friendship and would love to meet up someday once we get to know each other a lot better.

I'm a shy artist that loves watching anime and playing video games, I am a paragraph typer and slow (and a somehow dry) texter, and am an absolute homebody (but I don't mind going places).

I prefer men ±2 my age, with a range of no younger than 22 and no older than 29.

Latino/Hispanic men preferred, but I don't discriminate against genuinely cool people :p

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u/Downtown-Girl0-0 — 1 day ago

Black F19 seeking for someone to talk F4M

Hi. I'm Emma, a F19 black girl from Spain, 5'7. I'm just looking for someone to have fun conversations with 😊

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u/yours_b23 — 1 day ago

23 [M4F] #Poland - can I actually find someone serious here?

Hi, I'd write a long post, but I believe that curious people will DM me anyway. There is no point in saying everything right away. Where's the fun in that?

So, I'm a 23yo male, currently in Warsaw, Poland (born here)

I am slim, good looking (I think? xd), tall (191 cm) and sometimes I like to do sports. I look young, for now I don't plan to have a beard. Apparently I dress like a nerd, lol. I don’t think I give the impression of a basic person.

When it comes to my character, I just try to be the best I can for the people I like. I watch people carefully. Sometimes I have a lottt of energy. I have many friends and I was in a relationship last year (with a local person). I'm a very open person.

I am now at a strange point in my life. I was recently (again lol) fired from my job. I am looking for someone who has control over their life.

As I said, I'm a very open person so every woman can DM me.

I'm tired of unserious people, I want someone who doesn't change mind everyday.

Oh, also I forgot to say that I'm k inky

If you are from far away and u still DM me it shows that you are serious and I need someone like that.

Really, don't be scared and DM me, I want to know what do you search for

Regards,

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u/Seledy — 2 days ago

25 F4M am I crazy for liking men who lose themselves in me (us) ?

Always been super obsessed with men who are obsessed with me and make me the center of their world like totally
I love love love the feeling of a man who lets go and lets me just take over and he love it

No I’m not saying this in a pervy way let me be clear … I’m curious what it’s like to be with a man of a different race because I’ve heard about how romantic and lost in you they allow themselves to be in comparison to those in some of our rigid cultures …. So I hope I’m clear and not misunderstood

But ya if you like the idea of it we don’t have to do it I’d just like to know I’m not delusional in liking something like that bad that there’s guys that like it too

In my own world I’m single and at best a cosplay relationship with the right person is the best I can do (could explain further) … but like I said this post is mainly to tell myself I’m not crazy haha

Pm if you’d like to chat (plz be preferably older than me or same age), no red pill men and be respectful

😊🤍

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u/danab_aby1 — 3 days ago

26F (F4M) #California anyone wanna talk to a Bay Area girly with a short attention span?

Hii! I’m 26 yo girly from San Francisco, ca. I’m mixed with Italian, Hispanic, and Creole. Im about 5’1, petite build and do have kids! So if that’s a deal breaker stop reading now 😂

Im looking for a confident, older connection to keep me company. I have a short attention span and need someone that’s funny and can hold a conversation.

I like to think I’m easy going and independent. I work and own a business in the cosmetology/esthetician field, so I don’t have a ton of free time, but in the free time I do have I like late night convos, reading, listening to music, and cooking.

Not looking for anything overly serious right away, just seeing if there’s a genuine connection and someone who can keep my attention. I’m willing to trade pics, and move to discord if we vibe well lol

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u/rudeassaquarius — 2 days ago

21f - F4M UK/Anywhere - any hispanic men into gaming?

Hi! :) The title basically says it all, I’m really big into gaming, such as online fps, story games, literally anything to be honest😭

I’ll admit it takes a small while for me to form a connection with someone, but once that’s built, I get pretty attached (NOT in an obsessive crazy way or anything lmao). I’m currently at university, so I’m stuck in the uk for a few more years, but I’m willing to travel after.

I’m white, slim, 5’2, and pretty introverted to begin with, but I’ll open up when I get more comfortable. I am autistic to be honest, but it’s not like that bad? (It’s hard to explain!)

I’m really just looking for my person and I have a big preference for hispanic men or men with a darker tone. Preferably please be 20-27! I’d prefer a slim build, but that’s not a dealbreaker :)

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u/shyd0ve — 4 days ago

21 The Philippines - Genuine connection only, dating to marry F4M

this was recommended by a friend and idek what to put on here. trying my luck because i'm so done with dating apps and even tried speed dating on tiktok. i genuinely just wanna find someone that i'll spend the rest of my life with. only dated one person my whole life and i was engaged to him but it didn't work out. i don't have kids n i've never been married.

preference:

someone with no kids would be preferable
never been married
would be able to travel in the philippines
someone who only date to marry
24-38 preferably

my red flag: i do not see myself having kids in the future but i'm not completely saying no to it. i'll only consider it if i see a good man that will be a good father.

i'm 4'10 160 pounds (yes plus size) i've lost almost 50 pounds alr, i'm working to be the best version of myself physically. i have amazing face card tho 😁

what i'm looking for: mutual respect, effort, n consistency goes a long way for me.

also, someone who speaks good english and no accent is preferable.
+ can't be

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u/ProfessorFun3772 — 4 days ago

F4m looking for companionship and a romantic experience. interested in more than friends but I know it has to start

F4m looking for a serious romantic relationship but nothing casual. interested in more than friends but I know it has to start somewhere. Im open to many different things in a relationship but would have to align with my person for it to be successful. Let's chat about where life can take us next. Age is just a number!

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u/sandraropow52 — 5 days ago

F4M- 22F, Black woman from eu looking for something real

Hey
Im 22f from The Netherlands and am a proud dog mom currently unemployed and looking for the next step in live (school)
Who am i. I am a nerd, gamer (anime, dnd, overwatch) and a smoker. I have tattoos, dreads and a septum. Im 170 cm and am around 65kg (i want to add weight). I do not really have muscles. I have a dog and she is my baby and very important.
Preferably: i dont really mind race but would prefer a asian men. I would for my partner to have tattoos and be a smoker. Also would love it if you also were nerdy. Dont necessarily need a fit body but i do want a healthy body.
Plus points if you ride a motorcycle hahahah
Dm if you are interested

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u/Affectionate-Dust755 — 5 days ago

36[F4M]: Portsmouth, Virginia - Seeking A Long Term Relationship

Hi,

I am an African American woman seeking a long term relationship with a WHITE MALE between the ages of 21- 40. I'm NOT looking for anything too long distance. So men who live in Virginia and North Carolina, I am open to. Just as long as distance isn't an issue and you can travel to me. While I have nothing against men in the Navy/Military. I choose not to date them due to the long distance that may happen within the relationship. I'm referring to them not living in a state permanently but would have to move eventually.

I have had so much time wasted on men who have lied to me. Taken advantage of me and used me. I am looking for someone who is serious about dating. Someone who doesn't lack communication. Especially in regards to simple things. I'm looking for someone who is honest as well. Someone who knows how to take care of themselves. Someone who is funny, smart, loving and caring. I am NOT interested in hook ups! I'm not interested in men who have tattoos literally on their faces. Tattoos anywhere else is fine. While I'm ok with men who drinks. I'm not interested in men who tends to get too drunk. I don't mind if a guy smokes. But if it's marijuana, all I ask is that you don't smoke it around me.

I'm looking for serious inquiries only! So if you don't live within the state of Virginia. Or even in North Carolina (if the distance isn't an issue). Please DO NOT message me! If you live out of the country. Please DO NOT message me! I do not want my time to be wasted!

Here are a few things about me:

- I'm a home healthcare nurse

- I have one child. I am NOT interested in having more children!

- I'm only interested in having a long term relationship. I'm NOT interested in getting married!

- NO gays, bi, trans or poly!

- If you lack communication, I'll delete the message and move on!

- Hobbies: watching movies/going out to the movies, watching wrestling, watching horror movies, listening to music, playing old school video games, reading, and shopping. I'm ok with doing other activities if something interests me

If you're interested in talking, you MUST send me a photo of yourself. I would like to know who I'm talking to

My pictures: https://www.reddit.com/u/Dull\_Cookie9140/s/tseh0S3aRp

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u/Dull_Cookie9140 — 7 days ago

22 [F4M] [London/UK/EU] looking for something serious and long term

Hey there! 22F from the Philippines looking for something serious and long term.

A little about what I’m looking for:
- Serious and long term relationship
- Someone around the age of 23-26, don’t want anyone older or younger than that
- Preferably tall. 6’0 or taller, the better. I want someone taller than me for once, I’m taller than most people here lmao
- Someone from the UK/EU as I’m planning on moving there after I graduate university
- Takes care of themselves
- Drinking alcohol is a yes but please don’t smoke/vape or do dr*gs

A little about me:
- I’m 5’2, studying in university for my bachelor’s degree
- I’m slim/fit, I do light workout and have a flat/toned stomach and a tiny waist
- I don’t drink, smoke/vape, or do dr*gs
- Fluent in English as I speak in English more than I speak in Tagalog even if I lived here my entire life lmao
- My hobbies are singing, dancing, playing instruments
- I’m a closed off person but once I get to know you, I’ll open up to you as well
- As mentioned above, I’m planning to move to the UK/EU after I graduate

If you’re here because of nsfw intentions, don’t bother sending a message as I’m not interested. I’m looking for a genuine relationship with someone.

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u/PrestigiousFruit2195 — 5 days ago

34 [F4M] Ontario- BW For Asian Man

"Each of us is a story, waiting for a devoted reader who will take us off the shelf and embrace all our plot twists."

-John Mark Green

Hushed conversations in the corner of a cozy restaurant, bright smiles glistening in the candle light. Red wine swishing as the long stem glass twirls between delicate manicured fingers, hearts palpitating as eyes linger...

Searching for someone who's presence makes the mundane extraordinary.

I'm a single 34 year old black woman interested in connecting with single East Asian men in their 30s living in Ontario. I am seeking a casual monogamous relationship.I'm 5'4,of average weight and childfree. Not open to long distance. If you're interested in finding out more about me feel free to send me a message with a brief description of yourself and your favorite rock band.

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u/ssuuummmeerr — 6 days ago

19 [F4M] MALAYSIA ( online / anywhere ) Looking for BF ( black ( African American / African / white king )

hello, I am a FIFA and I am from Malaysia. I’m mixed race. I would like to get to know someone that can potentially be my boyfriend, where in the future I want the guy to be my husband. I am 19 years old and I know I’m quite young for this, but I am ready for marriage because I feel like I wanna be in a stable relationship , so I don’t mind if you are from another country or whatever because I am open for a long distance. I am also OK to travel to see you or if you want to come to my country I am very OK to go out and see you . so if you like to get to know about me, feel free to text me so we can have a conversation lol

well, a little thing about me is I am very open-minded and I can say that I’m very funny and very outgoing. I really like to watch movies and listen to music and I also love to travel other than that. I’m also a good cook and I can bake very good. I am also someone that like to work out and do explore new things together. I am 5’3 and 154 pounds

so if you are interested in me, feel free to text and I hope we can have a good conversation. Thank you so much and have a nice day.

edit: im open for guys that aged 20-30 only 😅
and i mentioned that i love BLACK ( Africans pls )and WHITE men, Also feel free to ask for my pics
thank you

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u/shawarmababy777 — 6 days ago

26 [F4M] GH /Anywhere -Looking for genuine connection

Hi! I’m a 26 year old woman from West Africa looking for a genuine connection

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s respectful and communicative and interested in building something real

I love learning about different cultures and watching movies and listening to music and having conversations that can go from fun to deep

If that sounds like you I’d love to hear from you

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u/Terrible-Angle8908 — 8 days ago

28 (F4M) - Black gal Looking for Romantic Connection

Hello Hello👋,

Well as my username, I am a F28 black girl living in Seattle, WA( USA). I am 5'6 and weight around 190lbs. I have a red afro hair(well I dyed it), so I am a ginger black lady😉. My personality is I am Friendly and extrovert, but not really open book untill I am comfortable. I am a happy go lucky gal and very playful😄. I like to live my life on whatever for me will find its way to me.

I am trying to meet people off dating apps since it has not given me the outcome I want.

Well since 2 of my coworkers meet their husbands off reddit, I am giving it a try😅. I want a stable relationship with someone who actually likes my company and vice versa.

LOOKING FOR: someone(male) between the age of 25-45, Non-Religious but Christian fine(I grew up Christian), Living In United States would be great(so we can actually meet up✨️), Whoever actually find black woman attractive as likes and date black woman.

Lastly, please be Single and do not have kids.

Thanks for Reading my Dating ads😀

If Interested lets connect and chat me up!

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u/Black_Girl_Seattle — 9 days ago

[26/M] M4F - Out of the game for years and zero confidence. How do I start talking to women again?

Hey everyone,

I am a 28-year-old guy living in a small town. I've just moved here. I have been single for a long time, and my confidence is at zero. I get incredibly anxious talking to women, especially about dating, and I have no idea what women actually expect these days.

I work as a frontline healthcare worker, with plans to get a higher qualification in a few years to move into a non-clinical role. Outside of work, I go to the gym, read books, love comic books and comic book movies, visit art galleries, check out op shops, and head to local community events and restaurants.

Living in a small town makes putting myself out there feel even more intimidating because everyone knows everyone.

I want to start dating again, but I freeze up. What do women actually look for early on? How do I build the confidence to just have a normal conversation without letting anxiety take over? What are all the expectations from women? Any advice would be amazing.

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u/Willing_Board_669 — 11 days ago

M4F #Europe, white European guy looking to make connections with black women, as well as a potential relationship.

I am a 32 year old man living in Central Europe.
When it comes to my looks I am around a 170cm, with a good voice and good looks, appearance.
Personalitywise I would say that I am a healthy blend of an introverted and an extroverted person (ENFJ) who has a lot of emotional intelligence. I also love to look after people, and based on what they say about me, I am accomodating and easy to talk to. I am also a romantic and passionate person.

More about me, my interests and hobbies: I love art, poetry (I write poems as a hobby and make minimalistic drawings as well), learning about foreign languages and cultures is something that fascinates me. Psychology, reading, deep-stimulating conversations are also something I really enjoy, besides these interests, I like tapletop gaming, video games, hiking, dogwalking and checking out restaurants.

Thanks to my former partners, black culture is something I deeply appreciate and feel close to.
(I wanted to mention that - I am not trying to generalize here as - I am aware that black American, African, Caribbean cultures have their own uniqueness and depth.

Also important to note for reassurance that I am not ethnicity fishing/fetishizing as my adoration for black culture/women, runs deeper, than just surface level (I am talking about cultural interests, languages, history, hair care and quisines).

What I value in a potential significant other: I value genuinity, altruism, kindness, emotional intelligence, quick witted-ness, good humor and generosity. Someone who is knowledgeable, well mannered and knows how to keep up conversation. I find intelligence to be one of the most attractive attributes, besieds that intrinsic attributes in general matter the most to me, everything else is secondary. What I also prefer is if someone is a liberal in terms of their political views and non religious.

Who I am ideally looking for: Someone with whom I can share my life with, intimate moments, I can look after, we can rely on each other, a person who enjoys life and is open to trying out new things.
A person who can engage in deep, silly and stimulating conversations as well as flirtatious ones.
I am open to long distance as long as there is an intention in closing it.

Please note that personality matters the most, as that is what I am attracted to and fall in love with, also establishing a mutual and deep connection is paramount for me, so let us take our time to get to know each other.

If you feel that my message resonates with you, then feel free to reach out to me 😊.

Thank you for taking the time and reading my post!

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u/PaleontologistSea640 — 10 days ago

18 [F4M] #Atlanta - Where are the older Black men?

5 4, 120lbs, light brown/hazel, white, athletic, looking to meet older Black men who want to have a relationship/start a family. Love older, love tall men, love muscular men, love Caribbean/African men the most.

Where are the older Black men who are looking for something long term?

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u/Separate-Musician-43 — 11 days ago