r/r4rinterracial

Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US hoping to find a woman who wants something long term, and also has full freedom to be her full sexual being. I want my wife to be able to have fun with anyone she likes, anytime she likes.

In case I didn’t lose you yet, here’s a bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

As for the part about you having full freedom, that can obviously mean a lot of things and I’m pretty open to exactly what it looks like. But you should reach out if you’re interested in any of the following or more: dressing provocatively (short skirts, low cut tops, generally revealing clothes), showing off to other people (dancing for/with other people, making sure they get a good look at you), kissing/hooking up with other people (yeah I don’t mind being a cuckold), or anything else you heart desires.

If any of that sounds fun to you, but you want a guy who will love you while you are your true self, I’m your guy! Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band/artist in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

EDIT: I am looking for a woman who does not have a primary partner already. So if you have a husband or boyfriend I’m sorry but this isn’t for you.

Hii trying this again as some of the previous conversations fizzled out or came across fetish like.

I'm 23, from the UK, was born in the London but I am caribbean. Im 5'6, curvy, brown eyes and a part time 4 eyes lmao. I am looking for a possible serious connection that does not come across as fetishism as I am not interested in that. Few things sbout me: Recently took up tattooing which has been fun, love watching documentaries such as true crime or even listening to mr nightmare on youtube lol, I also game and love to cook. Also did go karting and it was fun :) looking for someone funny, kind, emotionally intelligent and just a laid back person really.

I go off energy and intention 🙂

Hello. Hope you all are doing well. I am a 25f Kenyan based lady, born and raised in Nairobi. I am still an undergraduate student pursuing my Double Major degree in Psychology & Sociology. Well I do have a dual personality if I can call it that way, one time I'd be cracking you up with my stupid jokes and the next armed with a pen at hand doing a research on a topic most people don't ever think about. Ohh and I can yap for days, random stuff, intellectual stuff ..name it.

My current favourite hobbies that I am exploring are crocheting(I'll make you a scarf 😂😍), painting, and I've recently switched the genre of the books I read, currently interested in history and geopolitics while still maintaining my collection of African Literature. I also love travelling and I hope to visit the Mara before this year ends( this is a special invite for you to be my plus 1, will you😘?)

Well I've been single for some time now and I genuinely want to give this thing called love a try, this time with intentionality, care, compassion, grace and reciprocity among other values I am drawn to. Just to be clear, I'd love a committed relationship that leads to potential marriage and as with this ,I do appreciate someone who is family oriented and committed as well. Someone who wants to be a husband and a father not someone who just wants a wife and children.

I do love to think of myself as a a good communicator, not just when I am experiencing challenges that I do need to bring to your attention but also when it comes to appreciating the small moments that I get to experience with you which make life worth living. I am not afraid of conflicts because I see it as a chance to welcome the adversity to bring us closer, not drive us apart. With understanding, comfort and empathy over fuelling hatred, avoidance and egos

Of course, attraction matters to me I am 175cm tall and I weigh around 53kg. I'm not very conservative with clothes so if you want a girl who'll cover up I am not the one for you, kindly. I'm proud of how I look but we all have different types so I'm down to exchange photos at some point. I get that personality tops looks but please, you have to be attractive and appealing

If you really feel drawn to this, feel free to send me a dm and we can pick it up from there! Thanks for reading all this up to this point.🌹🌹

I’m looking for a genuine connection and a life long partner. Below are some requirements /dealbreakers to get out of the get out of the way before getting to know each. I hate long posts so I’ll keep it brief.

Me:
F28, black, 5’3, skinny, Beautiful, loving, i can be funny sometimes, love a good banter, i try to be the best version of myself every day. Feel free to ask me anything else you want to know. :)

You:
White man, attractive, over 25yrs old, caring, loving, great character, educated, easy going, capable, also have a stable career, and good hygiene.

You (sexual):
Someone who loves to eat and please - And is clean.

Please be willing to send your picture if we chat.

Hi everyone

I’m 24, Female, living in the U.S, and I’m looking to meet someone who I can genuinely build a connection with. I’m open to friendship first and seeing where things naturally go. I’m not really interested in rushing into anything or forcing a romantic connection just because we’re attracted to each other.

I’m pretty introverted and honestly a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I can talk A LOT. I love cooking, baking, painting, reading, music, crime, and I’ve recently been learning Spanish. I’m also someone who really enjoys getting to know people and hearing about the random things they’re passionate about.

I’m looking for someone who actually wants to get to know me as a person. I like consistency, affection, humor, deep conversations, and being able to be silly with someone. I want something that can start naturally as a friendship and potentially grow into something more.

What i like in a man is someone kind, emotionally mature, communicative, and genuinely interested in building something rather than rushing into a relationship because we like each other. I am someone who is tall as well, so my only preference looks wise is someone who is tall.

I can start off the conversation, hopefully you’ll have more to add but besides Japan, where is one place you’d really like to visit?

44 year old African American Female in South Carolina. Seeking non African American male between ages 40 to 55 years old.

19 year old here looking for a loving black man, looking for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage.

Hello! I'm a plus size white lady with a very low libido and it won't change anytime soon.

I'm interested in a variety of everchanging topics ranging from religion/spirituality to fashion and subcultures, plants and nature, piercings and tattoos, all sorts of DIY stuff, celebrity popculture, paintings.

I used to be in a hindu cult as a non Indian for many years and still practice deity worship on off, but this time on my terms.

On here I hope to find a slow burn connection. I'm not in a rush as I don't want to have kids and don't see myself moving in with someone anytime soon.

Due to timezones I'm unable to stay in touch with folks from USA, South America and Australia/NZ.

Hey! I’m a 29-year-old black Canadian girlie from Ontario. I’m well-traveled, curious, and always planning my next adventure. I love good conversation, exploring new places, trying new things, and making memories with the right person.
I’m hoping to meet a kind, intelligent, confident white or Asian man who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me and seeing where things can go. I’m especially drawn to men who are a little nerdy, educated, adventurous, and open-minded. I’d love to meet someone who enjoys traveling, making plans, and building a genuine connection over time.
If you think we might get along, feel free to reach out! 😊

57 yrs old, man living in Texas, U.S. Looking for that connection that comes naturally and can grow and flourish. Some things I enjoy: reading, listening to music, watching a movie or series, gardening, cooking, home renovation projects. Love to travel in general - from day trips to nearby small towns and state parks to cross country road trips to exploring places on the other side of the world. Love nature and animals. Love meaningful conversations and can talk about a variety of subjects unless it’s some current pop trend or sensation that I haven’t caught up with yet… in that case you can clue me in. Love learning and exploring in all aspects of life.

Not much into trying to fit a label but left-leaning, divorced, monogamous, believe in intentional independent thought. Believe this country needs soldiers and police with responsible and accountable leadership - not nameless/faceless thugs. Believe everyone has a right to their own freedom and not a freedom dictated by others. Believe in science, Black Lives Matter, women’s rights, your sexual identity is your own and access to healthcare should not be limited.

Am enjoying living with intention and with a purpose of collecting treasured memories instead of a material/consumer-based lifestyle. Always pursuing fitness in all areas - mental, physical, emotional, spiritual.

Please reach out if this appeals to you and tell me a little about yourself and what you want out of life. Also, please tell me your city or approximate area. Hope to hear from you!

Heyyy,

I am a 32years old black single mother of two. I live in the United States and I am looking for a relationship with the end goal of marriage and maybe kids. I prefer someone within the US or Europe, who is passport ready.

I kind, caring, loyal and hardworking. Some things I like to do for fun, swimming, piano, games, movies, gym etc.

I am looking for a man who is kind, faithful, loyal, can communicate respectfully and has something good going on for himself, a man who wants to be a husband and maybe a father some day.

My preference is someone who is 27 and above, I'm flexible with how high I can go. I want someone who really wants a family eventually, someone who wants to have a partner for life, a gentleman who knows how to treat a woman right and knows how to appreciate a good woman.

Please only reach out to me if you want something serious, we are old enough and very busy to come here and play around, if you can't hold a conversation, you are rude, you ghost people etc...please save us both the time and don't reach out. I've noticed a lot of people post here very often and that's because unserious people reach out and the conversation becomes fruitless.

When you reach out, please state your age, location and what stood out to you from my post. If you are a scammer or bot, don't bother reaching out because I will request for verification before the conversation becomes deep.

🛑 Please do not reach out if you plan on ghosting me, I will ask for a video call verification to make sure we are both real. If you are married, don't bother reaching out please.

Talk to me, Goose.

Let’s pretend this is the part of the movie where two strangers start talking… and suddenly it turns into exactly what we were both looking for ❤️

I’m a 31 year old black woman based in South Africa. I’m a Christian. My faith matters to me, I’m still growing in it but I’d love someone who’s open to growing together.

I’m romantic, soft, affectionate and probably a little more sentimental than I let on. I love thoughtful gestures, physical affection, inside jokes, lingering conversations, being wanted and all those little everyday things that somehow become your favourite memories. I really enjoy the little things. Little things like enjoying my cup of coffee on the patio super early in the morning whilst I watch the sunrise.

I’m also a bit of a movie nerd. I like watching action movies, 90s romcoms, war films, psychological thrillers and I have a serious soft spot for old movies. I can literally spot a Bruckheimer or Don Simpson movie, no credits needed lol. I watched The Irishman for the first time not too long ago and it was everything I wanted it to be and more 😭 Next up is Casino. Listen, 1995 was Robert De Niro’s year okay 😂 I’ve also been watching Columbo lately, which is very different from my usual Mindhunter and True Detective 😂 Every episode feels like a little movie and I’m obsessed.

And oh I also like watching anything based on real events. I loved Chernobyl and Band of Brothers (whenever the weather is really cold I like rewatching the Bastogne episode of Band of Brothers 😭🥶)

Am I just geeking out about movies and shows instead of trying to impress my future hubby? 😂🤭

Anyways back to business: I’m looking for a serious relationship with someone from a different racial background. I want my best friend, my man, my future hubby. I love a man who makes it obvious he wants me and doesn’t hold back. I’d love something that feels like home, safe and steady, but still has FIRE. Real passion and that shared hunger for each other. The kind of chemistry where you can be completely comfortable together and still have that I really want you feeling years later.

I’m very open to long distance if we’re both intentional about closing the gap. Any red flags about me look like this “⛳️” cos the grass is greener over here baby.

I’m excited about sharing my everyday life with someone. I love having that chemistry where we can’t get enough of each other. I want us to have our own little world, our own jokes, our own routines, our own favourite places.

Basically, I want to be completely gone for my man 😂I just want to be obsessed with my man in the best way.

And because apparently I need one more random fact about myself: I’ve been listening to an unreasonable amount of 80s music lately, I guess I feel nostalgic for a time I never even lived in lol. Aerosmith, ABBA, Duran Duran, Bon Jovi, Metallica, Nirvana, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Laura Branigan, all of it. There’s just something about the music from that time that I love.

I think I’m just a bit of a yearner at heart. So I think it’s safe to say I’m due for some overly romantic shit. I’d really like to meet someone who’s serious about building something. I hope to meet my future hubby and my best friend 😍

20 [F4M] UK | Black British woman looking to meet white men for dating

20F from the UK. I’m a Black British woman and I’m interested in meeting white men, preferably around my age, for genuine dating and potentially a relationship.

I’m generally attracted to tall, white guys with a more masculine/gym-built look. I’m not saying those are the only people I could ever be attracted to, but that’s generally the type I find myself drawn to.

I’m not looking for someone who specifically wants a Black woman because of stereotypes or has some weird racial fetish. I’d rather meet someone who is attracted to me as an individual and happens to be into Black women.

I’m pretty active myself, I’m in the gym almost every day and I’m also into martial arts, so bonus points if you’re into fitness too 😂. I’m open to getting to know people online first and seeing where things go, including long distance if we genuinely click.

If you’re a white guy around my age and genuinely interested in dating Black women, feel free to message me.

Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US and I’m hoping to find curvy forever person. I want a woman who is confident in her body and loves her curves.

A bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

As far as who I’m looking for I don’t have a hard type, I find attraction with a wide variety of people. So please don’t let age, height, weight, race, religion, style, gender identity, etc. prevent you from messaging me if you have read this far. Obviously from the title I do prefer a curvier women (think Bebe Rexha, Ashley Graham, Lizzi, etc.)

Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

Hey everyone! 😊 I thought I’d put myself out there and see if I might meet someone interesting.
I’m 25, from Angola, Africa, and I’m looking for a genuine connection that can hopefully grow into a long-term relationship. I’m not really interested in rushing into anything I’d rather get to know someone properly, build a connection, and see where things naturally go.
A little about me: I graduated about a week ago with a degree in Computer Engineering, so I’m still enjoying that “I finally did it!” feeling 😂
Outside of studying and work, I absolutely love cooking. I also really enjoy movies and gardening. There’s something really relaxing about taking care of plants and watching them grow.
I’d describe myself as someone who values kindness, good communication, consistency and genuine effort. I’d love to meet someone who actually wants to get to know each other, have random conversations, laugh together and eventually build something meaningful.
I know distance can be a challenge since I’m based in Africa, but I don’t think it should automatically stop two people from getting to know each other if the connection is there.
If you’re also looking for something genuine and a potential LTR, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself I’d love to hear from you 😊

Hi! Located in the United States. Just moved to a new city for a corporate job. Looking for something new and fresh. I prefer white guys in the US or Europe. Ages 25-29.

I just want to see what will happen and if someone will actually reach out and talk.

About me:

-African-American
-5’8
-Athletic/curvy build
-Christian
-no kids
-doesn’t smoke
-doesn’t have tats/piercings
-completing my undergrad in English

I'm 25, Black, African, educated, and doing everything I can to build a career for myself. I have a degree, and I'm working hard to create opportunities through business consulting, research, and systems development because finding stable work hasn't been easy.

At the same time, I'm hoping to find real love. I don't want a relationship because I need someone to pay my bills I want a partner because I genuinely want to love and be loved. I also want to be financially independent so the responsibility of providing doesn't fall entirely on him.

Right now, I'm in that difficult space where I'm searching for both meaningful work and a meaningful relationship. It's not easy, but I'm still hopeful that with time, both will come.

The other thing is I find myself attracted to older white men which is very unusual where I come from and I can't break out of my shell because I am afraid that the society will judge me (she is with him for money) type of thing.

Any advice for me?

I HAVE COME HERE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE AND IT DIDN'T WORK!!

Hi everyone! You may have seen me before around here, yet here I am trying once more to search love, something we all need and want 24/7!

Allow me to introduce myself! I'm Yojan, I'm 21, I live by myself with some roommates, I currently live in Europe, Spain, the timezone being UMT +2, I'm someone who considers themselves an indoors person, playing videogames, watching YouTube, or writing stuff to practice my English (I write all sorts of things!)

Apart from those qualities, I'm also someone very much empathic, who listens and knows how to talk about something without getting judgemental nor insulting (unless I'm allowed to be insulting), someone respectful and that will always care and put your necessities upfront with mine. My goal is to be the safe zone of that special person, to let them know I'm their home and their cozy place where they can be themselves, where they can be weird if they want, noisy, loud or romantic!

Calls and texts are obviously very much welcomed, the more you text me the better, there is nothing wrong with being clingy and if I don't respond because I may be busy with work, when I'm free I'll reply to every single text of yours 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Who am I looking for, you may ask?

Simple! Someone who can match my energy, someone who can be themselves no matter what, someone relaxed and caring, loving and sharing, who wants to put me in their life, gossiping, talking and playing videogames, someone nerd like me!

That special girl can be from ANYWHERE, any height, any size, anything! Physical aspect is important yes but I look closer the shape and the form of her heart!

If you read it all the way down, thank you SO much for your time, and if you find this post interesting, send me a message! I'm a quick replier and I'm sure we can talk for a while, tell me a bit about yourself and let's get to know each other, have a wonderful day!

\-Yojan 🫶🏻