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30 [F4M] Southern Indiana. I want connection but I live in southern Indiana and this place is a corn filled hell.

I'm starting my life over after some really tough stuff from the past 6 years and ive made a lot of improvements but its kinda lonely. I'm not even looking for anything romantic, though I would like that (I'm not interested in super long distance for romance so that does limit that but for friends there's no distance that's too long), someone to talk to would be nice. I'm not great at talking about myself buuuutttt here we go

I'm the dumbest smart person I know. I'm pretty quirky and awkward, I've been told I have a weird sense of humor, I'm super geeky and I love to learn/have discussions about various topics. I really love niche internet drama. Job/mom/adult stuff that takes up most of my time but I love podcasts, documentaries, YouTube. I like to play RPGS. I love to write when I can. There's more, but I'm not good at these things. I do prefer voice notes/chats to texting (i have a lot to say about everything and texting takes too much time) so if we hit it off and you're not like a creepy weirdo then we can maybe do that maybe.

Also, for people that read this and think "i want to date this woman"

First, talk to a psychologist. You might need some help. I have a few numbers.

Second, I do come with baggage, as does everyone but I am like really fat, probably bigger than what you think, like i cant be on 'My 600 lb Life, but I am for sure bigger than most big people. I know that's not everyone's cup of tea, i will not shame you if that's not your cup of tea. I'm still a human, I still deserve respect. And you deserve a partner you're attracted to so keep that in mind. If my being fat is a turn off, I understand, and I'm always down for friends too.

u/bamsy1 — 12 days ago

▲ 45 r/ruralR4R

Tried to be tolerant of poly people but it has to end here.

Unfortunately I have solid evidence that nearly every woman that posts here is being unicorn hunted and propositioned.

There are MANY subs for that sort of thing. If women want to join some grubby couple or have threesomes, this is NOT the sub for that anymore. Reddit is littered with porn subs and poly subs and swinger subs. Most of those subs are overrun by porn bots and brainrotted men and there is good reason for that. It's because those subs are nothing but sexual ego and they quickly devolve into nothing more than paid peepshows.

Well guess what, this sub is not that. This sub is for INTENTIONAL relationships only. And no, your "biblical polygyny fantasy" is not intentional.

I know some true poly people have good healthy intentions, but those are rare to be honest and it becomes IMPOSSIBLE for a mod to distinguish.

Therefore, I am instituting a new rule. You are not welcome here. If you are caught posting or sliding into our users DMs, you will be perma-banned. That includes any flavor of poly, swinging, ENM, or just outright cheating.

Rule 9 has been amended accordingly.

Rule 9: No cheaters. No polyamory. No ENM. No hookups. No swinging. No perverts. No sexual propositions.

I am asking women members to please report people by screenshotting bad behavior and messaging the mod mail. ANY version of solicitation, not just swingers should be reported.

mods

u/sourisanon

u/just-the-teep

u/trippytab

mod mail
https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=r/ruralR4R

reddit.com

u/sourisanon — 12 days ago

▲ 20 r/ruralR4R

The horny police is cracking down.

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You brought this on to yourselves. Enjoy your bans. You know who you are.

And if you don't, your user name will be posted here so you can't forget. Bonk! How embarrassing for you.

Unfortunately I cannot post evidence as it might violate Reddit sitewide rules but these people below have been reported to us (with evidence that) they violated rules 2, 9, or 11 and have already been banned. This list is going to grow very quickly I imagine.

If anyone has evidence of bad behavior, report it to the mods with screenshot evidence please. Do not do it in a public comment! ANY women interested in becoming a deputized Horny police, please inbox me.

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Lifetime sentence in Horny Jail:

Different-Battle8600

Curious_Lurkur

FATSISSYPAKISTANI

Correct_Valuable1907

controversial_limits

yumyum6969696

pacouple1501

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u/sourisanon — 12 days ago