These people really pisses me off!!
This take completely misses the entire point of Sanji's character arc by flattening his code into a toxic caricature. Sanji doesn't reject self-defense; his code is strictly about never raising a hand against a woman, which is why against Black Maria he didn't just take a beating he actively called out to Robin for help, demonstrating that trusting your crew to handle what you can't is the ultimate display of teamwork, not a suicide pact.
The claim that he lets women ruin his life completely distorts Whole Cake Island, where he sacrificed himself and endured brutal trauma specifically to protect Zeff and the Straw Hats from a Yonko, only to reject Pudding the moment her true, cruel intentions were exposed. Enies Lobby showed an earlier Sanji who didn't yet know how to lean on others, but Wano proved his growth by showing he can maintain his moral boundary without compromising his crew's safety. Concluding with "I love Sanji still" doesn't fix a critique that fundamentally misunderstands his maturity, his deep loyalty, and how his code actually functions.