r/selfieover40

Went to a wedding in Phoenix. It was too hot to bother with my hair.

After 25 years together, I recently found out I was cheated on. I’m still trying to make sense of what that means for my relationship and for me personally.

One of the stranger parts has been realizing how little thought I’ve given in decades to how I’m perceived outside of a long-term relationship. Confidence takes a pretty good hit in a situation like this, so I’m trying to get out of my own head a little, remind myself that life continues and figure out who I am at this stage of it.

Posting a picture of myself on Reddit definitely wasn’t on my 2026 bingo card, but here we are.

Hope you’re enjoying the week so far! 🥰

Enjoying the rain... Indoors

Song of the day:

Bad Omens - "Specter"

Busy Tuesday and glad to be home to relax (and possibly work more tonight… 😭)