r/shaniisnark

Feel sorry for sumo as he is overdoing it with the affection now. It’s obvious he’s doing it just for the video. Poor woman you need to leave him

The other 2 have never cooked in the kitchen with their husbands.

They're only shown cooking at the start of their marriage Or when there's an dawat and their mother in laws breathing down their neck.

Proves that only shani n samira currently lives there

All of the girls have their own instagram, mollys instagram is private but she still has one. Samira is the only one who doesn’t have an instagram account of her own.. the other account is shared with shani. Disgusting. That girl needs to leave

SORRY LONG POST, BUT TIMES ARE CHANGING, PUT YOUR HAPPINESS FIRST ❤️

Times have changed and when the Begs started their vlogs their content was different, and their following was mainly for Boar's cooking and also there were many few vloggers in their content category.

Most of their followers are from abroad, but now what message are they giving? With social medai so popular everyone can see what is happening all over the World, and it is not easy to portray a fake lifestyle, also only so many comments you can delete.

In the recent months the gifts of gold were something most of us questioned, was it real or do they borrow all these!! These begs have very little to their name, begging and borrowing is their trade, if there was anything they bought we would have seen it, they never show the gold shopping!!!! just like all the hired cars during the wedding, the clothes out of their budget that they resell the next day

We are all different people here, whether it is religion, sex, rich, poor, modest, modern. But we relate to the Begs way of living and daily vlogs

All the celebrations and gifts are not relatable to a way of life in the UK, Four couples and two children, one single daughter all supposedly live togeather in that house.

The Buddha has taken the channel for his own greed and to protect it for any future fallout. How are you meant to split a business between children, will cause issues, property can be split between all kids

This is my view and also from a recent discussion with other women that any Gold I have and was gifted will go to my daughter or female grandkids. but AFTER I have passed away. Some asian parents hand over their family house and then are left in homes later on

I understand buying DIL gold as gifts but times have changed. I will never be someone else's daughter and noone else my daughter, I will gift her when I choose too but My son can gift his wife gold and it his duty, and as seen with the begs, fanny should be buying his wife anything she feels lack of his parents are not there to make up for his stingy behaviour, it is his RESPONSIBILITY, Also have seen families that gift their own gold and then ask for it back because it's theirs 😄

So I think the whole gold gifting in the begs house is not real gold or borrowed, they need to break this cycle and the pendus have not shown a lot of the gold again, this old mentality of gifting gold because you have to needs to go, some of their female viewer's must feel their in laws do not like them at all, I read comments that some in laws did not even gift the baby in the vlog comments,

Have seen Brother's who will take and not provide for sisters, children will backstab parents for inheritance, the old days have gone!!!

The beg parents are filling their relationship void in their grown ass sons, no life skills or work ethic has been given, maybe to control them, but how long will they do it with the DIL's? The boys should live on their own and any needs Boar has she should rely on Pervy. It is the women that start to rely on their children OVER their own partners that create a trauma bond, which causes problems

The couples are no better, Both baby girls are being used for content and to grab freebies. No plan of how to raise them sufficiently and make sure they have the best quality of life, what kind of role models are their parents. the kids will see these women trapped or struggling and settled for a dusty man who she cannot escape from, because she has no independence or literally drive away from 😄

My parents worked hard and we were taught to stand on our own two feet and build something for ourselves, it was not a easy life, I will do the same, my children will inherit assets but they have a good work ethic and will buy their own house and of course I will be there to help if needed

Just want to say to all the women wake up from delulu land girls, we give so much trust, shift our life. move into their family home, lose ur indepedence, look how you all get treated!!!! Most of the issues I see around me stem from living with in laws

Even if they are nice, which some are, what's the harm in protecting yourselves, my in laws are lovely, my partner and they are happier we live in our own home., this way we respect each other more and you do not interfere in anyone;s business

I could have sat at home or at my in laws all day, but that is not how MOST people move forward in life and see what is out there in the big world, even if you go out for a walk or coffee on your own it can bring so much more clarity into your life, do not make your marriage all about your life, keep a part of your self who was that single girl, the dreams and interests alive, ❤️