r/stopwatchingporn
The worst that can happen is you'll feel bad
Seriously. How many things are you not doing because when it comes down to it the worst you'll get, recieve, experience, is a bad feeling.
Trust yourself take a chance and it "blows up", what's the worst that'll happen, you'll experience negative feelings?
Fear of feelings keeps people living so small, it's INSANE!!
You have one only one, one and EXACTLY ONE LIFE!
If you don't want to lean in and take a chance when will you?
Maybe never and that's ok, that's a choice. I get it, i've given up on life so many times.
You’re not watching porn because you’re addicted, you’re watching porn because you were bullied.
You were bullied, you were harassed, you were made fun of, you were emotionally abused.
And when that happens, it leaves scars. Those scars don’t heal on their own and they’re ripped open every time you get bullied.
That’s why you’re using porn. The emotional pain is there and your brain will say, let’s go look at porn to feel better.
That’s just one thing.
There are 3 more ways this is impacting you right now.
When you’re bullied, you’re going to
- Avoid human connection. You’re going to avoid being vulnerable, you’re going to avoid being exposed or possibly made fun of.
- You’re going to think less of yourself and your appearance.
- You’re going to bully and harass yourself. You’re going to be extremely hard on yourself and try to be more disciplined especially when you can’t stop watching porn.
Those are some of the impacts of bullying and all of them will drive you to porn .
Getting through that and healing those wounds, is exactly the same as quitting porn.
You get triggered and you learn to feel the emotions instead of running from them.
You use mindset work to blow up the stories creating the pain and keeping you stuck.
You stop watching porn and you become bullet proof to bullies.
You become super powered against bullies.
All of this is what I help you do in coaching.
I help you overcome porn and become bullet proof to bullies.
If you want to learn more, come check out my webinar
Never Watch Porn Again
I’ll show you how to stop watching porn and never Watch it again.
Sign ups are at https://NeverWatchPornAgain.com
Do you hate yourself for watching porn? Do you want to learn to love yourself and stop watching porn instead?
Which road do you want?
Do you want to try to control everything and hate yourself when you fail?
Or do you want to learn to love yourself no matter what and still get free of porn.
Do you want a shitty experience quitting?
Or do you want to take the easy road and actually have fun quitting?
When you quit with me it’s fun because I am fucking funny AND… if the end result is you get free of porn… why would you not want it to be fun?
Why would you want it to be hard and filled with disappointment and hating yourself when it could be easy, fun and you learn to love yourself ?
Come check my webinar Never Watch Porn Again, you can find it at https://NeverWatchPornAgain.com
Sex and intimacy
Sex is intimate.
Intimacy isn’t always sex.
Intimacy > sex imo.
Intimacy w/ sex > all things everywhere.
It took me a lifetime to fully understand that.