u/TheTankIsEmpty99

When you’re quitting porn, triggers are your friend. They’re not your enemy.

You don’t need to protect yourself from them.
You don’t need to run from them or hide from them.
You are okay.

You know how to get through triggers without watching porn.
That’s the thing.

You think you can’t, based on your past experience.
But none of that is true.

You have a lot of success getting through triggers and not watching porn.
So we want to grow on that success.
We want to focus on that success.
We want to grow stronger so that you can get through triggers.

Getting through triggers isn’t about resisting or fighting.
It’s about relaxing yourself, relaxing your body, regulating your body.
Calming your nervous system so that you can make a better decision about porn.

Triggers make you stronger.
They make you more powerful.
You don’t need to be afraid of them.
It doesn’t mean you’re going to watch porn.
We blow up any idea that you think that is true.

My name’s Matt. I’m a coach. I help guys get free of porn.

I have a webinar today at 4 PM Eastern Time on Zoom.
If you want to come join me, I’ll talk about triggers and how to get through them without watching porn.

Go to https://NeverWatchPornAgain.com to signup

You’re on the right track you’re getting there.

You’re not making any mistakes you’re making all the right moves.

You may argue and say no, I am not. But I know whatever you did that you were calling a mistake…

You are more aware of it now than you were before so it’s only a matter of time before you make a different decision than you did before.

I try not to make decisions right or wrong. I try to just look at it as I made a decision and I have a result. And if I don’t want that result in the future, then I need to make a different decision I need to think differently.

I try to never make myself wrong. I try to never beat myself up. I never fault myself. I try as hard as I can to never look at anything I do or anything I think or say or feel as wrong.

Why would I wanna beat myself and make myself wrong in anyway if I had the choice?

Anyway, you’re on this path you are definitely going to get there everybody does eventually.

You are an amazing human being now and your amazingness will only grow as you go further on this journey.

All the doubts in the fears that you feel now are uncomfortable, but they’re OK. They’re part of the growing. They’re growing pains.

They may feel intolerable but I promise you they are not.

You may feel your life is in shambles, but I promise you it is not. You may be going through massive changes in your life and all your relationships. You are changing as a person.

But it will all be OK.

You will get to your destination you can’t stop it.

Think of you never watching porn as just inevitable.

Like it’s gonna happen, it’s happening right now.

Right now, reading this you’re not watching porn. So right here right now you’ve quit you’re done you don’t need it.

Because you’re an amazing human being, don’t ever forget that.

Trying to retain your semen is the same as trying to quit pouring. You’re trying to move away from lust.

For whatever reason.

But the reason you fail at both is because the emotions of less than desire are stronger than your ability to think.

In other words, you’re trying to outthink an emotion and that never works.

You have to let the emotion be there. You have to feel the emotion you have to do everything you cannot to fight it resistant or even ignore it.

Your skill to grow is actually feeling the emotions instead of fighting them.

If you could learn how to feel lust and desire, you wouldn’t need porn.

My name is Matt. I’m a Coach. I helped guy stop watching porn and do things like that. I have a website called never watched porn again. If you wanna learn these skills, come check it out. Go to never watch pornagain.com.

When quitting porn it is very important to study your patterns.

Your patterns of thought, the thoughts you think about you and quitting porn that you think every single day. 

Getting those thoughts out in the open is how you change them.

Being aware IS what causing the change. 

Any changing those thoughts IS what gets you free of it. 

Come to your webinar Never Watch Porn Again

To see how your thoughts are keeping you stuck watching porn.

Sign ups are at https://NeverWatchPornAgain.com 

The #1 question I get as a coach who helps men stop watching porn is....

How do I stop watching porn.

The #1 answer I have is, come to my webinar.

Come to Never Watch Porn Again, my webinar and signature program to help guys stop watching porn and never watch it again.

Interested? Go to NeverWatchPornAgain.com to sign up.

The #2 question I get is..... why the blue nails?

That's my favorite question because so often it's framed as.... I'm not judging you, I'm just curious, why the blue nails.

I love that question because it makes me curious as to why you're asking that question.

what is it about my blue nails that triggered you enough to ask? Curiousity is one top layer but there's always something deeper.

When you take a deeper look at yourself, you'll see things you're afraid of because they're different than you, they don't match your blue print of what the world "should be" .

Digging deeper often leads to letting go of porn. letting go of the need for it and the desire for it.

This is what I help guys do, I help them love themselves enough they stop watching porn.

When it comes to quitting porn, most guys are focused on the wrong things. They are focused on blockers when they should be focused on why they’re using porn.

Most guys are focused on fighting, resisting or ignoring urges when you should be learning how to feel them.

I talked about both these things on my webinar today at noon time it’s called never watch porn again.

And you can sign up at neverwatchpornagain.com

So when I'm coach guys on quitting porn, here's what happens.

I show you how your mind works. So that you understand why you're doing what you're doing .

I show you how what blocking you from quitting. So that next time you see it, it doesn't block you.

I show you what to do when you get hit by a trigger and an urge hits. So that next time, you respond vs react.

I show you how to get through the shame. So that it's not holding you back from living your life.

I show you how to feel emotions instead of running from them. So that your desire for porn will lessen and you'll see you don't need porn at all anymore.

And then you'll discover that your desire for porn will lesson. You'll watch it less ... not by fighting, resisting or ignoring it.. you just won't need it anymore.

And just like that, you'll have confidence like you have never had before.

And you get to decide if you ever want to watch it again.

My name is Matt and I help guys stop watching porn and never watch it again.

I've a webinar called Never Watch Porn Again tomorrow at 12pm ET on zoom.

Sign up at NeverWatchPornAgain.com

I get penis emojis, I get people telling me how much they love porn, I get people asking me why I have blue nails, I get people asking me telling me that I just need Jesus, and then there’s genuinely a lot of people who actually wanna know how to stop watching porn.

God, I love my job. Thank you for this life. I went through a shit ton of pain but now I get to help others feel better and get free porn.

Your brain will work against you when you try to quit porn.
See that and recognize that….
don’t make it a problem.

You work with your brain, not against it.

Your brain just wants to be happy and feel good just like you, but it doesn’t know that porn is not the answer so that is what you have to teach it.

When you are quitting porn, mindset is everything.

No matter how you quit your mindset changes.

And your mindset is basically everything you think about you watching porn and not being able to stop.

And you can change your mindset through action by trying to prove it to yourself. Or what is easier is changing your mindset and then letting your actions prove it.

Mine is basically removing the block that is stopping you from succeeding.

My name is Matt and I talk about this on zoom.

You can sign up and learn more @neverwatchpornagain.com

“I’m addicted” is a mindset that keeps you trapped watching porn.

Why are you “addicted”?

Because you can’t stop?
Because someone told you you were?

Because you checked off all their check boxes which a bunch of old men decided was “the list” , the master list by which we can safely categorize and put everyone into a box?

Do you want to stop watching porn or do you want to be addicted?

Because they are 2 different things. The former creates a new you, the latter keeps you as you are, now and forever.

You can stop or you can talk about why you can’t stop.

The process is simple.

Learn to think and learn to feel.

I used to say simple but not easy. The easy part is up to you, you can make it hard or you can make it easy.

The pain is emotional so you have a lot more control, a lot me leverage, a lot more ability to just feel and experience the emotions without needing porn.

And that is the fundamental issue, not whether you’re addicted and what that means to you.

Come join me Tuesday @ 12pm ET where I’m talking about how to never watch porn again.

Go to NeverWatchPornAgain.com to sign up