r/teenagersbuthot

So my guy friend ( i am a girl ) said he would never date a bi girl and this is pretty weird cuz he loves to date he prly has 6 ex’s & countles situation ships ( but he is sweet tho not a playboy ) . And he said the reason he wont date a bi girl is ciz he is scared they will fall for me . Yes , after getting gf’s he would maintain his distance cuz duh im a girl but his gf’s always asked for me and honestly were sad when i wasnt at the parties and his ex literally said she is sad to break up cuz she cant be frnds with me anymore and hence he is scared to date a bi girl i have no idea what to respond to this really btw im straight so idek .

At my high school, there’s this twink (he’s tall, but has a delicate face and soft features; he almost looks like a girl when he ties his hair up), but he’s super weird. First of all, he literally wants to become immortal by altering gene expression or getting genetically modified organs transplanted into his body. He also wants to make money off it, saying he’s going to sell products like that in countries with low birth rates.

Then, he’s bisexual, but he hates falling in love because he wants to fall in love with himself. According to some bizarre philosophy of his, he sees love as basically a way of using someone as an intermediary to love yourself, as well as a means of obtaining validation from society and nature. He once mentioned that when he masturbates, he thinks about the sky and the sun ten seconds before he finishes. He’s also individualistic as fuck, and even if the world were to descend into an apocalypse, as long as it created opportunities for him, he wouldn’t mind. He might even enjoy it. He’d also like to start a cult someday, although I don’t think he’ll actually go through with it.

He believes that morality only applies to people who are replaceable in society.

There’s more, but I can’t tell you everything. I juste dont know what to do about him.

Basically, I (14F) met a guy (16M). We first met because my school was doing a one week science club summer camp thing (at my school this club is a really big thing because we are really good at it) where the 'teachers' were older students. He was one of the teachers for my class and during the camp we talked a lot and got along really well. Anyways after the camp when school started we kept on talking in the halls and we do a fair amount of clubs together. He would always make fun of me but then he would be like 'are you ok with that' 'is that too mean' ect and I'd tease him back. He also admitted I was his favorite student during the camp and said if he could choose one person to join the club from the camp it would be me. So, last night was hoco and he didn't have a date (neither did I because I just moved here from a different country) and we were talking and gossiping throughout the night and at the very end when most people had already left he was taking down the decorations and he jumped up to try to get a flower thing that was hanging from the roof and he fell down so I went to go help him up laughing and he was like 'ok, you try' and I said 'nooo, you try again' and he jumped up and got them this time and then gave them to me and said 'take them, they're for you' and I said 'really' and he said 'yeah, I don't care' in a kind of flirty way. Also, his brother who is in my grade mentioned that he had talked about me before and said nice things. My friend who knows that I kinda like him told me that he might have a small crush on me (she claims one of his friends told her he thought I was pretty) but probably wouldn't ask me out because it would make things awkward if I said no + he probably thinks I'm too young because I'm the same age as his brother.