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I used to rehearse what I was going to say to a girl in my head so many times that by the time I actually talked to her it came out completely wrong

And I thought that was just me. Turns out it’s basically every guy who was never taught how to actually communicate with women.
Not pickup lines. Not tricks. Just normal human conversation without freezing up or saying something weird or overthinking it into the ground.
Nobody taught us this stuff. We were just supposed to figure it out somehow and most of us didn’t. So we either said nothing, said the wrong thing, or got our dating advice from the internet which made everything worse.
If you’ve ever blanked out mid conversation with a girl you liked, sent a text and then stared at your phone for two hours, or just avoided the whole thing because rejection felt unbearable, this page is for you.
Follow. I post about this every day and none of it is pickup garbage.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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u/AptusMan — 2 days ago