I don’t respect my husband
me and my husband got married 3 months ago. I love my husband and want it to work. i moved cities for my husband and quit my job to do so. he insisted I do this. I asked him multiple times leading up to it if he was sure, I offered to keep my job in my home city and move when I got a job. after moving in, my husband did not offer me any money. I eventually got the guts to ask a month later. we have fought about this multiple times- nasty fights. he has now taken accountability and apologised. I love him and I know he loves me. since then he always makes sure I’m ok for money.
it still gets me I had to ask. I feel like he only gives me money because I brought it up, like he doesn’t really want to, like he sees me as a burden.
I forgive him and appreciate his apology but I feel as though I’m lost some respect for him. I feel like I resent him.
how do I get over this? do I speak to him about it? am I valid in feeling this way or am I holding onto things too much?