Advice needed, please
So.. Just discovered my husbands history, all kind of porn, I’ve confronted him, I’m so angry, nervous, sick, betrayed. I feel lost ..
There were a loooot of sites, red gifs and diff searches for specific things.
About 2-3 months ago I cached him watching and he recognized and said he s sorry, after that we had multiple discussions and he continues to say that I can trust him and so on.
Back to now: so he comes home, I show him the history and he says he did not access those and it s shocked at me that I can believe he s capable of something like this. He first says that maybe someone has him credentials log on and they accessed, but in between those searches, are his searches that he admitted to and I recognize.
After he checked where he was logged, and he was only logged into his devices, than he says it s a virus, that he searched on ChatGPT, that he did not acces those sites and that he has an extension to Reddit and that there are hundreds of sites and he could not possible access them and somehow tried to convince me about that.
He got mad and angry that how can I believe that and not him. I’m lost… I really want to help him, I read a lot about this and I understand it s shame and it s not easy, I can’t understand how he can be still the angry one and tries to shift the situation.
What should I do?