My partner is feeling left out and I don't know what to do. I NEED advice
Hi! So, I am in a poly relationship with 2 other people. We'll call them R and S. S is the one feeling left out. S and R have been dating for 3 years, all 3 of us have been dating for about 5 or 6 weeks. R and I met almost a month before I found out about S. I live miles away from the both of them, but we try our best with online stuff. So R and I have matching profiles on pretty much every, even matching avatars on roblox. We talk just about every day. Now, 2 days ago, R and I got new matching profile pictures on Discord, and S updated their status not even 5 minutes later and it said "oh ok then" so, I did some digging because the timing was stupidly suspicious and what do you know, I find something in a server I forgot I was in. S was talking about it with some other people in the Discord server about feeling left out, someone suggested getting a fourth but I don't want to. I'm very protective and territorial over those I care about and it would take time before I adjust. I told R and we both were like "OMG, HOW DID WE NOT NOTICE THIS SOONER??? I FEEL SO BAD" Now I don't know if I should confront them about all this or just let them talk about it when they're ready. Sorry if I'm unclear about somethings, I'd happily answer any questions in the comments!