Pussy power?
I am a man so my bias is going to be much different than others. In unhappy sex lives You will probably hear a lot about therapy and couple therapy and also that you have the natural right to refuse anything that makes you uncomfortable. This will all be correct.
If there’s anything like me, My guess is that he is unaware that he is the “bad guy” here. It’s likely he doesn’t even realize that he is pushing into dangerous territory of violating you.
Here’s one thing you probably won’t hear too much.
I think most women have no idea how much men who are straight will think about sex or something sex related during a typical day. For myself, it is hundreds of times a day. This is the normal that we all live in. As men.
I say this carefully, but you hold a lot of power in the relationship and my guess is that it would be a turn on for you both if you could reward him openly with sex for doing what you want…. Stay with me in this.
Ask a man if he enjoys a beautiful city skyline, a sunset at the beach, a beautiful flower, a powerful animal in the wild, a sports play that blows the mind…. I guarantee you that most men would agree that the female body is the culmination of everything beautiful that they love to look at.
It’s inescapable and only the strongest men can use self control when out in public and when put to the cheating test.
What happens if you were to take power back and use this undeniable attraction to gain?
In short, I bet your man listens to every word you say when he eats you out. (As long as he likes to serve too)
I know it seems weird, but imagine embracing this inescapable truth and waving your magic pussy wand whenever you want the power dynamic to shift,or to be heard, or to shut him up, or to get those house chores done.
Could be fun and a lot of women misunderstand this as something they are forced into by society. But I assure you there is room in this idea for real bonding. I know men would love it in most cases.
Take it or leave it.
In the end, abuse comes in many forms and if your hunch is that you are in danger or violated, act on that!!
This isn’t a random thought, this is a genuine observation.
Thanks all.