Can we please just normalize understanding a person before judging?
As I said in my previous post, I'm not a stable person. I know that because of my actions, the constant overthinking and having anxious feeling whenever I'm alone in public. Because I wasn't exposed to public even as a child, I think it's because of the pandemic that truly built my anxiousness whenever I'm alone in public... And whenever someone mistake my words for an insult, I WANTED to explain how things actually going on in me. And it's not for dramatics but I actually lost my father when I was 16, and I'm an only child. And my mom is old to work too much, and those problems truly burned me. I hate people who judged someone just because how they acted and how they look, but reality? You don't know what their going through. I realized this when I was 9, when my father and mother suddenly got hospitalized. And I have to drop out of school just to take care them. It's truly sad, how people judge people like me immediately and even started posting how problematic I am... I know I am, and I'm not denying it. I'm just scared to tell my reality cuz it's either I get judge or people may say I'm trying hard to look weak so people would pity me...