r/vedic_astro_questions

13 May, 2001(Sunday)

00:50 AM

Ranchi

Helppp kindly

Looking for astrology-based insight only, please — I've already heard the "love yourself" advice. I want to understand this through charts and dasha, not general relationship advice.

Context:

We've been together for 8 months only. There's been lying, manipulation, and infidelity on his side. I know logically I should walk away, but I feel incomplete without him, and I can't fully act on the decision. He says he's changed and wants to fix things, even talks marriage.

Specific things I'd love astrology perspective on:

why leaving feels so hard?

Does his chart or current dasha suggest genuine change, or a repeating pattern?

Is this more like karmic attachment or a supportive long-term match?

Any timing indicators (dasha/transits) for how this resolves — separation, healing, or continuation?

Genuine answers welcome — happy to share more chart details if needed.

Cancer Lagna, Taurus Moon (Mrigasira). Saturn Atmakaraka, Scorpio 5th house.

Transitioning careers and launching a self-funded project starting late 2026. Major milestones hit during Sade Sati Rising (June 2027) and right into Saturn MD (Jan 2028).

Question: I'm quite nervous about the Saturn MD starting inside an active Sade Sati phase, when Saturn is also the Atmakaraka?

21/08/1999, Delhi at 11:40 pm. Tried for a govt job in 2021,2022. Cleared SSC but was out because of Document verification . Then started the career at a private school as teacher and stopped preparing.

Now I want to start preparing again and give my last try this year and in 2027, is there still any chance for it?

Hi, I (26F) have been in lots of weird and painful relationships in the past. Lately I have been in an amazing relationship with the sweetest man for 6 months now - which seem like a short duration but we spend a lot of time together. He is the best I can hope for, and we both are aligned on the marriage aspect - that we want to get married next year. We are compatible in every way possible - there are little hiccups here and there, but it’s all good. I feel I cannot find someone better and more compatible and moral than him.
The problem is - I have Rahu in 7th house, which one of my astrologer friends always says is 100% going to lead to divorce or extra marital affair or something really really bad. I am so sick of hearing that, so much that I do not want to marry anyone and it breaks my heart.
Someone please give me a proper reading of both of ours charts please - I do not care about good or bad conclusions, I also need to know why just Rahu being in 7th is so unilaterally bad.

Please guide and spit the fact that can possibly happen in future related to relationship, career, education, job or business etc.

Can't understand what he actually wants

Im so done mentally
Will i ever be happy
When will i get married what kind of marriage and spouse
Why is this happening with me
Marriage pressure as well
Please help

Hey all, I’ve been having a wave of emotions for a while. From over optism to panicks. I’ve been putting in so much work on projects and tasks to boost my technical portfolio and proficiency. I am about to finish my classes soon. I hold jyotish to a good belief and I am hoping if one of you guys could tell me what my chart says about my future.

The questions I’m here for is:

Will I finish my college education with ease? Granted I do well in this class I’ll be done by end of Aug.

Will I be able to find a job atleast by late September/October and relocate?

I’ll do any amount of hardwork it takes. I’ve been restlessly grinding for the past 3 months, if I can attain what I’m looking for in those two questions I’ll be more then happy to work even harder. I’ve been wanting to leave my house for so long now, and have independent life where I make my own decisions and live on my terms. I really want this to happen.

Appreciate what you guys have to say.

Thank you 🙏

My 27-year-old brother has been unemployed for the last three years. Two months ago, he started a temporary data-labeling job at Nvidia with a salary of ₹14,000 per month. Today, he attended an interview for the one-year SAP PGDERP programme at JSPM Pune. There are only 30 seats, and he has been selected. We need to confirm his admission before the 10th. Will this course be good for his career? Will he get a job after completing it? Also, how will Saturn's retrograde starting today will it affect him? With Saturn debilated in 10th house along with sun

My parents have been searching for marriage prospects for me since 2021, and I have also been actively trying to find a partner on my own. However, every proposal that comes through seems completely mismatched.

I find it extremely difficult to connect or "vibe" with the people I meet, or people I have known through school, college, or work. Nothing ever seems to materialize or click on a deeper level, and it is becoming exhausting to navigate.

I really want to understand what my chart indicates regarding marriage and my future spouse:

Type of Marriage: Is a love marriage indicated for me, or will it be an arranged setup?

Timing & Spouse: When am I likely to meet my spouse and get married? What kind of person will they be?

Dasha Analysis: Could someone please analyze my current running Dasha and transit period to explain why I am facing these delays, mismatches, and disconnects?

Any insights, guidance, or remedies based on my chart would be greatly appreciated!

When will I get married love marriage or arranged marriage will i go abroad if so in which year?

Any dosha in my chart? any special and unique features in my chart ?

They said I will have separation or divorce but may do well in career is it true?

In this post I have mentioned about how to know your arudha lagna, and all 12 zodiac signs as Arudhas, and how on a basic level you can identify and understand your AL.🌸

》​In Vedic astrology

||Lagna: Your physical body, core self, and actually who and how you are, and defined as.

|​|Arudha Lagna (AL): Your public image, external reputation, fame, and how people perceive you or see you as.

》​How to Calculate AL-

▪︎​Identify your Ascendant (Lagna) sign and its ruling planet.

▪︎​Count the number of signs from the Ascendant to its ruling planet.

▪︎​Count that exact same number of signs forward from the ruling planet.

□Example: Aries Ascendant with Mars in Leo is 5 signs away. Counting 5 signs forward from leo itself lands on Sagittarius.

》Exceptions-

An Arudha can never fall in the 1st or 7th house from its starting sign.

•​Falls in 1st house: Shift to the 10th house sign from the lagna.

•​Falls in 7th house: Shift to the 4th house sign from the lagna.

□Exception examples-

▪︎​1st House Rule: If AL falls in the 1st house, use the 10th house.

​Example: Capricorn Ascendant with Saturn in Capricorn (1st house). Count is 1, landing back in 1st house. AL = Libra (10th house sign).

▪︎​7th House Rule: If AL falls in the 7th house, use the 4th house.

​Example: Aries Ascendant with Mars in Cancer. Counting 4 signs forward lands in Libra (7th house). AL = Cancer (4th house sign).

》●Below I have mentioned all 12 signs and their AL explaination where people might perceive you as a great person in particular way and also what they might see you as in special cases when they aren't so pleased with you.🌸

▪︎​Aries AL- People might see you as straightforward, blunt and full of fiery Mars energy. Jumps straight into situations and is easily seen as a bold, unapologetic person, sometimes they might think you have anger issues and you get in arguments.

▪︎​Taurus AL- You could be seen as someone who is grounded, stable, and work-oriented, who likes to be direct and takk about money business etc more. Seen as serious with a bit of talkative side at times or materialistic and distant.

▪︎​Gemini AL- You could be someone who is social, quick-witted, and fun to chill with, likes to joke and plays around, communication could be what you are knows for, people might sometimes think you are dual and they don't know what you could be sometimes cause of your multiple personalities.

▪︎​Cancer AL- People might see you as emotional, nurturing, caring loving, and deeply attached to people. Sometimes people might thing you have emotional problems and mood swings.

▪︎​Leo AL- Leo radiates confidence, bold energy, charm and natural power, needs respect and proper treatment. Sun's influence makes them look like a boss or leader or king in full control and does what they wants, though people sometimes think this presence as egoistic or narcissistic and might feel intimidated.

▪︎​Virgo AL- people might see you as highly skilled, analytical, flexible with any situation knowledgeable. Seen as a capable problem-solver who knows what to do at the right time whenever something is brought to them. Sometimes you might be seen as someone who needs over perfection and is way too much analytical and is not easily impressed, satisfied and happy with anything.

▪︎​Libra AL- You could be looked as well spoken, charming, and diplomatic. Carries a loving, smart energy and naturally knows how to handle public relations, business deals, and people. Sometimes people might see you as overly sweet or you please people, or extremely diplomatic and don't end on a particular party or side which might irritate them.

▪︎​Scorpio AL- You could be seen as a person with depth, who is a bit secretive, and intriguing with very serious intense energy. Influenced by Ketu, you carry a unpredictable aura due to which they don't easily end on a conclusion of perceiving you, and people feel like you rarely open up completely, and are seen as someone who has lived through major life transformations. Sometimes they might think you are toxic or plays mindgames.

▪︎​Sagittarius AL- Poeple might see you as someone who is Righteous, moralistic, and opinionated, and think that you don't stands with something you don't feel right about. Seen as a guiding figure who likes to teach and give advice, and confident. Sometimes they might feel that you often preferring to guide rather than listen to others, and don't agree with others terms easily, unless it satisfies you.

▪︎​Capricorn AL- Serious, and slightly detached. Relying heavily on their own life experiences, you come off as self-reliant people who rarely seek or take outside advice. Sometimes people might think you are stubborn and do what you want in the end of the day and don't like advices, has a slow moving and less emotional.

▪︎​Aquarius AL- It’s hard for people to pin down to an outcome due to Rahu's influence. Different people see completely different sides of them—sometimes smart, clever, analytical, or a problem-solver. But they themselves can't perceive you or predict how you are properly, they can't completely see you as something and are mostly confused of not understanding properly.

Sometimes they might see you as someone who has way multiple personalities, or who plays and stays hidden zone.

▪︎​Pisces AL- People might see you as self-contained, gentle, and emotionally healing, manifests things. Seen as a giving, open person who finds joy in themselves, though some may occasionally see them as emotionally toxic or holds things for long times.

♡Hope It helps to people who are exploring astrology and are trying to understand better about themselves and how the world sees them as.🌸