How do I (38F) verify that he (35M) is who he says he is?

We've been talking foe about two months now, and while I know he's actually the guy in the photos he's sent me (we've videocalled a couple of times), I have no way of verifying everyhing else. He claims he doesn't have any social media so I don't have a window into his life and all I know is what he tells me. Do I just have to take his word that everything he's saying is true? I may be overthinking, but I can't help but think that he could very easily be lying about everything he tells me. He could have a partner over there and just using me as fun internet side piece. I have no way of knowing and it's making me anxious. It's my first time talking to someone long distance so this all very new to me.

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u/-howaboutn0- — 1 day ago