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(First picture) I don't know if it would still be called a third lobe piercing, but I had a second and it closed. I think I prefer having an earring where the third would be. Would it look weird to only have one there assuming the only other earring on this ear would be the one I have in the photo?

If I don't do that, I could get a third lobe piercing in the ear in the second picture. (Also had it years ago and it closed.) Would it look weird to have earrings only in the second and third lobe holes?

I don't know why, but I think I prefer not to have anything in my first lobe piercing. I usually prefer the little hoops like what I have in. Sometimes studs, but never anything dangly.

I definitely want to get something new, but not sure what would look best. I was thinking third lobe because lobe heals the fastest. I kept my original helix earring in for 2 years before changing it. My top choice would be a tragus piercing, but it would be such a pain with headphones which I usually wear every day. My headphones are bone conduction headphones, but I think it might still be difficult to keep them from touching the earring

I left my house keys out of the photo. Also my cat doesn't live in my bag, but he wanted to be included.