Yall know when it comes to what we put in our body it’s almost if not always different for black women. I’m new to birth control, so I know I don’t want anything with too many hormones. And something secure enough that’ll keep me from freaking out if I have a slip up with my man iykyk
So me (F18) and this guy (18) who I go to school with started getting to know each other last Monday. We went on a date for the first time Saturday and since then we’ve both expressed that we’re very sexually attracted to each other.
At college we both want to explore being with other people sexually. So we settled with just hooking up over the summer if being in a relationship together isn’t going to work and staying friends while we’re in college. But since I’m new to sex I’m having a hard time deciding if this choice I’m making (which I’m very secure and happy with) it’s a sign of not having any self respect??
I know what I want, I know what he wants… so why does it feel like I’m failing myself by doing this?