u/100mlfree

We’ve been together for almost 5 years now and throughout all these years this man has never really been the type to just randomly want to take pictures when I’m all dressed up and pretty or even want to complement me when he sees me(he’d literally just do it after hangout when he drops me off). And I find it so funny and weird.

He does take pictures of himself A LOT and posts on all his social media platforms but never wants to take pictures of me. Never feels inclined to even give me a compliment.

He’s never jealous. Like ever. Never truly curious unless I start being really distant.

I kinda feel unseen sometimes.

He’s does other things right tho, has a sense of urgency when I’m in need. Buys me food when I’m hungry. Brings me meds when I’m sick. Takes me everywhere I want to go. Overall takes care of me.

So am I tripping for thinking he isn’t proud of me?

I(23F) have had mild pain on my right ovary for the past 3 and half years. I never took it seriously as I thought it was nothing crazy.

Plus I had gone to the doctor to ask about it plus other symptoms which include bleeding in between periods, during sex and after sex but they said it was normal as I may be stressed. Again, it’s shoved to the back of my head.

In March I had unprotected sex and unfortunately got nutted it. I went into panic mode, took 8 birth control pills and morning after pills a day later to prevent pregnancy. I then took pep meds for a month to prevent HIV. (Yes, I’m dumb as fuck.)

Month later, it’s April, I get tested. I’m not pregnant, HIV negative. We’re good. My period comes in late and it’s only 3 days and it’s painless.

I get my period again end of April and it lasts a whole 15 days - has clots, tampons fully soaked, unbearable pain, vomiting, appetite changes and headaches.

I go to the doctor and let him know, he gives me meds to stop bleeding. I eventually do stop bleeding but the pain, nausea and vomiting persists.

I get tested again, get sonar.

First results say I have mycoplasma genitalium. I start treatment.

I get more pains, THEY SEND ME TO THR HOSPITAL and I’m still not taken seriously.

Get another sonar and blood tests, suddenly I have a benign cyst in my uterus and I get antibiotics.

I don’t know what’s up.

Please help and if you’ve been as dumb as me, let me know what you’ve done.

Also, I’m never having sex again. Omg.

I(23F) have had mild pain on my right ovary for the past 3 and half years. I never took it seriously as I thought it was nothing crazy.

Plus I had gone to the doctor to ask about it plus other symptoms which include bleeding in between periods, during sex and after sex but they said it was normal as I may be stressed. Again, it’s shoved to the back of my head.

In March I had unprotected sex and unfortunately got nutted it. I went into panic mode, took 8 birth control pills and morning after pills a day later to prevent pregnancy. I then took pep meds for a month to prevent HIV. (Yes, I’m dumb as fuck.)

Month later, it’s April, I get tested. I’m not pregnant, HIV negative. We’re good. My period comes in late and it’s only 3 days and it’s painless.

I get my period again end of April and it lasts a whole 15 days - has clots, tampons fully soaked, unbearable pain, vomiting, appetite changes and headaches.

I go to the doctor and let him know, he gives me meds to stop bleeding. I eventually do stop bleeding but the pain, nausea and vomiting persists.

I get tested again, get sonar.

First results say I have mycoplasma genitalium. I start treatment.

I get more pains, THEY SEND ME TO THR HOSPITAL and I’m still not taken seriously.

Get another sonar and blood tests, suddenly I have a benign cyst in my uterus and I get antibiotics.

I don’t know what’s up.

Please help and if you’ve been as dumb as me, let me know what you’ve done.

Also, I’m never having sex again. Omg.