u/10GaugeLobotomy

▲ 32 r/virgin

I feel like such a loser over how badly I want a girlfriend

posted this on another sub but it got deleted so I'll just post it here to get my vent out ig

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve always fantasized about being in a relationship. You see it everywhere, movies, TV, music. You cannot escape it, and I wanted to experience it so bad. I remember watching my older sister go to prom and homecoming and thinking about how I couldn’t wait until I got to take a girl to prom. Then I got to that age and realized I’m a fucking loser who’s wasted his life playing video games. I don’t even have the desire to change. It’s too hard. Everything is so difficult. I just want everything to fall into my lap, but it obviously won’t. So instead I live in my own head, in my fantasies, where everything is okay and I’m happy. The worst part about all of this is that I’d want a hypothetical girlfriend to be as clueless as I am about relationships. I’m too insecure to be with a girl who’s had a boyfriend before. I'm sorry I'm such a fucking loser. I hate me too.

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u/10GaugeLobotomy — 1 day ago
▲ 19 r/virgin

I just want to be someone's one and only.

Everyone has these giant friend groups, always having someone to talk to. I don't have friends, I don't want friends, I just want one person who can be both my best friend and significant other. She'd be my one and only and I'd love to be hers as well. I know this way of thinking may be unhealthy but I honestly don't care.

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u/10GaugeLobotomy — 6 days ago

20 [M4A] loser looking for loser

Hi I'm a failure that likes video games and anime. Very original I know.

love video games, always have since I was born, I play a lot... like a lot. mostly single player, but I'd love to play multiplayer games with anyone. as for what games I enjoy literally any game you can think of I've either played or know enough about it to hold a conversation.

I love anime too, my tastes aren't very niche but I've seen a lot of the big ones, and would love to talk about hype and aura or maybe even themes and such

so basically let's talk about dumb shit together and play games please! I'm not too shy when it comes to VCing I maybe even prefer it to text. just know that I'm really really awkward :P

If by the time you see this and the post is a couple days old don't worry Abt it and just message me anyway I don't mind

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u/10GaugeLobotomy — 1 month ago

20[M4F] loser looking for another loser

Hi I'm a failure that likes video games and anime. Very original I know.

I mainly play single player games but chances are if you asked me to play a multiplayer game I would. Except hero shooters I hate them cuz I suck at them.

My top 5 games in no order

Bloodborne

Doom eternal

Persona 4

Shadow of the Colossus

Majora's mask

I'm looking for something where we talk throughout the day, maybe play some games together. Unfortunately I don't really want something where we talk for the entire day since I do enjoy being alone but if we rlly vibe I might change how I feel abt this. I dont think I'm looking for a romantic relationship rn. Just want to be friends first

I would like it if you're a loser like me so we can wallow in our misery :)

If by the time you see this and the post is a couple days old don't worry Abt it and just message me anyway I don't mind

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u/10GaugeLobotomy — 2 months ago