r/NEETr4r

Hey, I'm a 24 year old guy from Canada who's on the hunt for something real and hopefully long term if things work out, I'd love to find someone I really vibe with. I'm genuinely terrible at intros ;-; so I'll try to keep this short and sweet.

About me:

• Lets get the physical stuff out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and 230 lbs (I'm fat BUT I'm down weight and have been working out more and more,) I've got both ears pierced and have been thinking about getting some tattoos in the future, also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
• Like my title mentioned, I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly)
• As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault (I have trouble putting my foot down and have tendency to let people walk all over me ;-;,) I'm really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong. Also I'm left leaning politically.
• I don't have much relationship experience but I always fantasize about the super loveydovey stuff, I like doing little things to make those I'm close to happy and I can only imagine it would be amplified with a partner. My biggest love languages are Words of affirmation and Quality time.
• My BIGGEST potential red flag that I want to get out of the way is that I deal with pretty severe social anxiety, I'm medicated and would NEVER wanna make it someone elses problem but I naturally struggle really hard in social situations around people I'm not already super close with, once I warm up to someone it gets a lot better but I still wanted to mention it since its bound to come up especially early on.

About you:

• Honestly, I don't really care about looks, my type is someone who can make me smile, I've also always gravitated toward people who were "different" for some reason, so if you'd consider yourself weird or quirky I’ll probably fall for you faster than I should (like, embarrassingly fast).
• I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
• Long distance is fine with me, as long as there’s a willingness to meet up in the future if things go well.
• The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

If any of this resonates with you, or if you have any question/just want to chat and see where it goes, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to hear from you.