24 [M4F] - #Canada #Anywhere - Nerdy guy looking for the love of his life
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24 [M4F] - #Canada #Anywhere - Nerdy guy looking for the love of his life

Hey, I'm a 24 year old guy from Canada who's on the hunt for something real and hopefully long term if things work out, I'd love to find someone I really vibe with. I'm genuinely terrible at intros ;-; so I'll try to keep this short and sweet.

About me:

  • Lets get the physical stuff out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and 230 lbs (I'm fat BUT I'm down weight and have been working out more and more,) I've got both ears pierced and have been thinking about getting some tattoos in the future, also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
  • Like my title mentioned, I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly)
  • As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault (I have trouble putting my foot down and have tendency to let people walk all over me ;-;,) I'm really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong. Also I'm left leaning politically.
  • I don't have much relationship experience but I always fantasize about the super loveydovey stuff, I like doing little things to make those I'm close to happy and I can only imagine it would be amplified with a partner. My biggest love languages are Words of affirmation and Quality time.
  • My BIGGEST potential red flag that I want to get out of the way is that I deal with pretty severe social anxiety, I'm medicated and would NEVER wanna make it someone elses problem but I naturally struggle really hard in social situations around people I'm not already super close with, once I warm up to someone it gets a lot better but I still wanted to mention it since its bound to come up especially early on.

About you:

  • Honestly, I don't really care about looks, my type is someone who can make me smile, I've also always gravitated toward people who were "different" for some reason, so if you'd consider yourself weird or quirky I’ll probably fall for you faster than I should (like, embarrassingly fast).
  • I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
  • Long distance is fine with me, as long as there’s a willingness to meet up in the future if things go well.
  • The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

If any of this resonates with you, or if you have any question/just want to chat and see where it goes, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to hear from you.

u/Maebe2 — 7 days ago

Some questions from someone who is new to this and relatively scared to sleep because of recent discoveries

For the better part of a year and a half to 2 years I've been frequently experiencing daytime drowsiness and lots of trouble focusing, It wasn't something I worried about too much until recently since I needed to start focusing on stuff more seriously in life, I recently went to the doctor for it and he said I likely have sleep apnea and he wants me to take some sleep tests.

I have a sleep study scheduled but stuff like this takes time so its about a month away, I've also heard getting a CPAP machine can take a long time too. I've been reading quite a bit and think I might be worrying too much but I wanted to come here and ask to potentially ground my fears a bit.

My main question is. I'm currently a 24 year old male whos pretty overweight (pushing 40 bmi,) whos likely unknowingly had untreated sleep apnea for about 2 years, I also enjoy drinking quite a bit. How likely am I to experience serious health complications in the meantime while I wait for proper testing and treatment, also is there anything I can do to help manage it?

Thanks in advance and sorry if this is formatted kinda weird, writing isnt my strong suit + I'm kind of freaking out about all of this lmao

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u/Maebe2 — 2 months ago

Recently had this detected in a malwarebytes scan, curious as to what measures I should take beyond what I already did if anything.

https://imgur.com/a/z-fAtDLXM

the full location is C:\USERS\XXXX\APPDATA\LOCAL\GOOGLE\CHROME\USER DATA\DEFAULT\INDEXEDDB\CHROME-EXTENSION_BGNKHHNNAMICMPEENAELNJFHIKGBKLLG_0.INDEXEDDB.BLOB\43\26\2666

I quarantined the file and ran a scan with HitmanPRO, I also changed all my passwords, but I'm curious as to how dangerous this is really, I can't find much info about it upon googling and I know trojans can be really dangerous and hard to truly get rid of, I tend to get pretty overly worried around stuff like this and I'd rather not have to take the nuclear option of reinstalling windows, if I'm at massive risk without doing it though I will, thank you in advance

u/Maebe2 — 2 months ago

Recently had this detected in a scan, how concerned should I be?

https://preview.redd.it/go1gce63oa8h1.png?width=763&format=png&auto=webp&s=543816e5fee31e028e68aaa2cf2b4bfa05f6f44c

The full location is C:\USERS\XXXX\APPDATA\LOCAL\GOOGLE\CHROME\USER DATA\DEFAULT\INDEXEDDB\CHROME-EXTENSION_BGNKHHNNAMICMPEENAELNJFHIKGBKLLG_0.INDEXEDDB.BLOB\43\26\2666

I quarantined the issue and ran a scan with HitmanPRO right afterwards, I also changed all my passwords but I'm curious as to how dangerous this is really, I can't find much info about it upon googling and I know trojans can be really dangerous and hard to truly get rid of, I tend to get pretty overly worried around stuff like this and I'd rather not have to take the nuclear option of reinstalling windows, if I'm at massive risk without doing it though I will, thank you in advance

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u/Maebe2 — 2 months ago

Bit of a weird request but I'm looking for anime that scratch a certain itch/have similar stories to some of my favourite games listed below

The games in question being Metal Gear Solid 2, 13 Sentinels Aegis Rim, Nier Replicant/Nier Automata, The Hundred Line: Last Defense Academy and most of the Persona/SMT games.

If I had to describe the "itch" im talking about I'd say its a combination of all of the games

  • Having some sort of over arching conspiracy/mystery going on
  • Most of them covering some philosophical topics/getting existential at points
  • The stories of all of them getting INCREDIBLY emotional at times
  • Most of them having some sort of dystopian setting (less important than the first 3)
  • And lastly, most of them feeling like there's lots at stake (again, less important than the first 3)

Since I know this fits pretty much everything I've listed I'll end this post by saying I've already seen Evangelion and its one of my favourite pieces of media of all time

ANYWAYS I'm open to any and all suggestions that fit some or all of the kinds of things I'm looking for, thanks in advance!!

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u/Maebe2 — 2 months ago

24 [M4F] #Canada #Online - Shy nerdy guy trying to break out of his shell and find something heartfelt

Hi, my title is pretty self explanatory so I'm guessing if you're reading this we're looking for something similar. I'm really shy/awkward at first so dating apps have never been great for me, and I figured this place would be better for finding someone with similar interests. I'd love to find someone I really vibe with, I don't think I believe in soul mates but I'd love to find something pretty damn close.
Anyways, I'm awful at intros so I'll try to keep this short and sweet!

Stuff about me:

  • I feel like I should get this out of the way instantly but by FAR my biggest red flag is the crippling social anxiety I deal with, It makes getting to know new people incredibly difficult for me, It affects most aspects of my life, I'd never wanna make it someone elses problem but I wanted to let you know upfront since its bound to rear its head at some point. DESPITE ALL THAT, I promise that once the initial social barrier is down I become a LOT more talkative and outgoing, I've been told I have golden retriever energy.
  • Appearance wise I'm 5'8 and 195 LBS, I'm chubby but have been working on it and been exercising more and more recently, Oh and here's a pic of me https://imgur.com/a/ZNWsQpa
  • I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly)
  • As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're talking about something I'm passionate about. People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault (I have trouble putting my foot down and have tendency to let people walk all over me ;-;,) I'm really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong. Also I'm left leaning politically.
  • I don't have that much relationship experience but I always fantasize about the super lovey dovey romance, I love doing little things to make my partner happy, I'm normally pretty down to earth but can end up with my head in the clouds when it comes to romantic stuff. Also my BIGGEST love language by far is words of affirmation, followed by quality time.

Stuff about you:

  • I don't really have any deal breakers when it comes to looks, I can find all types of people beautiful, if you're generally nice to me and I feel like I can be myself around you I'll probably fall for you so fast its embarrassing. It would be nice to see what you look like eventually though so I know I'm not talking to a ghost
  • Distance doesn't matter too much as long as you'd be down to meet up eventually if we hit it off, it would obviously be nice if our timezones were somewhat close but I'd do my best to work around that if I really liked someone
  • It'd be nice if we shared some hobbies or had a thing or two in common since it would give us something to bond over right away.
  • I don't really have an upper age limit, but I'd imagine I'd relate more to someone closer in age to me
  • Lastly, I prefer people who sort of "wear the pants" in a relationship, this definitely isn't a dealbreaker though, just bonus points

I'm not sure what else to add so I'll end it there. IF you're still reading after that trainwreck of a post you should shoot me a message with a little about yourself, I'd love to chat with whoever!! :)

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u/Maebe2 — 2 months ago
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Hi, my title is pretty self explanatory so I'm guessing if you're reading this we're looking for something similar. I'm kinda shy/awkward at first so dating apps have never been good to me, and I figured this place would be better for finding someone likeminded. I'd love to find someone I truly connect with, I don't think I believe in soul mates but I'd love to find something pretty damn close.
Anyways, I'm awful at intros so I'll try to keep this short and sweet!

Stuff about me:

  • Like I said in my first paragraph and title I can be shy at first and its by FAR my biggest red flag, I deal with some pretty serious social anxiety and it makes getting to know new people really difficult for me, despite that, I promise that once the initial social barrier is down I become a LOT more talkative and outgoing, I've been told I give "golden retriever" vibes
  • Appearance wise I'm 5'8 and 195 LBS, I'm pretty hefty but have been working on it and been exercising more and more recently, Oh and here's a pic of me https://imgur.com/a/ZNWsQpa
  • I'm a big nerd, my main hobbies are playing games (I LOVE JRPGs and fighting games the most but I'll play absolutely ANYTHING if its with someone I like,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly)
  • As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're talking about something I'm passionate about. People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault (I have trouble putting my foot down and have tendency to let people walk all over me ;-;.) Also I'm left leaning politically.
  • I don't have a lot of relationship experience but I really enjoy all the lovey dovey romance stuff that comes with one, I love doing little things to make my partner happy, I'm normally pretty down to earth but can end up with my head in the clouds when it comes to romantic stuff. Also my BIGGEST love language by far is words of affirmation, followed by quality time.

Stuff about you:

  • I don't really have any deal breakers when it comes to looks, I can find all types of people beautiful, if you're generally nice to me and I feel like I can be myself around you I'll probably fall head over heels for you stupidly fast
  • Distance doesn't matter too much as long as you'd be down to meet up eventually if we hit it off
  • It'd be nice if we shared some hobbies or had a thing or two in common since it would give us something to bond over right away.

I'm not sure what else to add so I'll end it there. IF you're somehow still reading after that trainwreck of a post you should shoot me a message with a little about yourself, I'd love to chat with whoever!! :)

u/Maebe2 — 1 month ago