r/NerdDating

Hi! I’m 24 and from California. Looking for gaming friends, I play dbd , league , Minecraft, Roblox, Fortnite, etc a lot of games lol

Hi I'm Alex!

I'm 5'11", fit, and spend most days working from home, exercising, gaming, doing digital art, or cosplaying!
If you share any of these hobbies PLEASE hit me up and lets get to know each other!

Besides those I also play DnD, am currently learning 3d modelling/animation, and have a billion other hobbies I want to spend more time on but haven't quite had the time to dive into.

I find emotional intelligence super attractive and prefer a nice slow burn as we get to know each other, although for the right person & if the vibes are right, I'd definitely love a more intimate connection!

I prefer voice chat and would love to connect on Discord, and if you're nearby I'd love to travel to cons together! That or any event/cafe/etc you have in mind :)

(me!) https://imgur.com/a/kM8GIkz

✨️ Taking another shot at this! ✨️

Hii internet people, my name's Arlowe (she/they). Last post didn't do so well so I'm trying again. I'm 19yrs old, turning 20 later in the year, and I'm nonbinary. I'm a feminine person, but I don't like boxing myself like that because anything can feel comfortable at any time.

I'm a soft and kind soul that often spreads love, but no pushover. I like conversing with people deeply because surface-level stuff doesn't have enough room for engagement. That's not to say I want every conversation to be insightful necessarily, but I like chatting beyond "how's the weather," and things like that.

My hobbies include writing, listening to music, watching TV, gaming, and baking. Although it's been a long while since I've baked. Games I play are Among Us and Minecraft. Yes, I play that at my big age. Music I love includes pop, a bit of hip-hop, a tinge of indie, some RnB and dance pop. Ariana Grande's my number 1.

Appearance wise I'm brown-skinned, short, have long hair, a bit of 'stache sometimes, dark eyes, and a slim body. I'll add a link to my pics at the end.

Oh, my voice is androgynous if that matters? Idk sometimes it's femme, sometimes it's masc. Stating this in case someone wants to call on discord or something.

What I'm looking for is a friends-to-lovers dynamic. Although romantic attractions comes faster for me, I still like getting to know someone as a friend before anything goes further. Whether a guy is cis or trans doesn't matter to me. I'm into soft masculines too. I also prefer being with bi/pan guys. Height doesn't matter much to me. I'm also asexual so sexual attraction isn't that important to me.

Seeing as I posted pics, I'd also like an early exchange of pictures. Physical attraction does matter to me.

Anyway, I'm keen on seeing I meet!

https://imgur.com/a/Pgxt6FA

Hey Reddit 👋 my name’s Isaac and I’ve been lurking for a while, tho this is my first post on one of these types of subreddits. I’m in search of someone that can be at least somewhat nerdy, but not stereotypical so. Does that make sense?

Basically, I’d like a woman that can easily learn all of my hobbies (paintball, laser tag, trivia game nights, board games, fantasy sports leagues etc) and became good at them. In return I’d happily go out of my way to learn yours.

About me: I’m 5’11, slim-medium build, Latino, and work full-time as senior paralegal for a trusts and estates firm. In my free time besides being a nerd, I volunteer as a big brother (BBBS of America) to a young man on the autism spectrum. Personality-wise I’d say I’m pretty easy going but stern when necessary, funny but mature, and competitive but in a friendly way lol.

About you: In decent shape, shorter than me, kind, funny, ambitious, unique (many ways to be), loyal, and empathetic. Don’t really have much other physical preferences. You’d probably be surprised at the wide ranging phenotypes of my exes. When in doubt, just shoot your shot and the absolute worst you can get from me is a “you’re gorgeous, just not really what I’m looking for” 😆

Here’s me and Lucky: https://imgur.com/a/45XfYB3

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I'm a nerd at heart if your interested.

LOTR ( Extended version)

Over The Garden Wall

Studio Ghibli films ( love Kiki's Delivery Service )

Old-school anime

Young Frankenstein

Princess Bride

Space Balls

Beastars

Bridgerton ( my house is fantasy & bridgerton themed )

Disenchantment

Stranger things

I make my own cosplay/outfits

Mostly because I have a sewing machine.

Craft/ paint/ drawing ( I also paint minis )

I paint minis from Warhammer 40k & Bloodbowl

Also D&D

I make my outfits for the Renaissance Festival, I go every year.

Hiking, swimming, photography

Camping, fishing ( love catching bullheads )

I love bonfires also.

If you play on Steam I have a few games we could definitely play together, ( I usually play with mods )

Repo

Lethal Company

Super battle golf

Golf with your friends

( and more games but these are the main ones )

Also my favorite games?

Assassin's Creed Black Flag

Dark Souls

Sekir

Legend of Zelda series ( Twilight Princess, wind waker, BOTW, TOTK )

Music? Celtic Folk, indie folk, funk, alternative rock, rock opera, edm, haunting pop, k-pop ( to name a few )

I mostly listen to The Oh Hello's, FFDP, Breaking Benjamin, Sleeping At Last, Stevie Nicks

Hey everyone! Hope y’all are having a fun and safe 4th of July. Figured I’d give this a shot.
I’m currently a Respiratory Therapy student working toward that big boy career. When I’m not buried in school, you’ll usually find me out hiking, hitting the gym, or doing something to stay active. On my downtime, I’m a big gamer, and I recently fell down the anime rabbit hole, so I’m always looking for recommendations.
If you’re into good conversations, bad jokes, gaming, or spontaneous adventures, feel free to say hi.

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Things I like: Cosplay, anime, animation, video games such as; RTS, Tycoon, Life sim, Shooters, MOBAs I'll put up with if it's really important to you.

If any of that is cool, then cool. Maybe you like cool stuff too and can tell me your cool stuff as well.

What are your values though? You want to build something or maybe settle down? You just looking for another dweeb to hang with, or a serious relationship where we both don't bullshit each other's mental illnesses.

If that sounds interesting DM I guess. Even if you just wanna chill I'm down. Let's just say fuck it and do shit.

This introverted, sometimes homebody, cozy hobby queen is looking to make a genuine connection. I’m more interested in taking my time getting to know a person, and see how things progress from there but definitely open to a long term serious relationship. Whether you’re local or another state away I’m open, my goal would be to meet up eventually if we click.

I am a laid back women who enjoys spending time with my friends and family, playing with my fur baby, and doing cozy hobbies. Some of my hobbies include coloring, crocheting, reading romance, learning Spanish and gaming( mainly Hello Kitty Island Adventure and Disney Dreamlight Valley, and others with similar vibes). Some of my fave franchises are anything Disney/Pixar/Marvel, Sanrio, studio Ghibli (Kiki’s Delivery Service is my fave) Stranger Things, Early 2000s Anime and more. I occasionally enjoy fun events happening in my city as well. I’ve recently started taking fitness seriously and enjoy going to classes, I love yoga. I’m liberal, Christian/Spiritual, no kids, social drinker, and 420 friendly. I also have a career that I’ve invested a lot of time and hard work that I’m proud of.

Some things I value in relationships are communication, emotional intelligence, creativity, compassion/kindness, consistency, chivalry.

If you’ve read this far and I’ve peaked your interest send me a chat/Dm. Can’t wait to hear from you.

Good Morning! I posted here last night and my inbox is trashed, so I'm currently sifting through the rubble but I thought I'd post here and in a couple more communities.

I'm going on a hike this morning and would love some verbal or virtual company.

What am I looking for? Hm. You know, I'd like to chat aimlessly with a handsome/beautiful stranger. I'm looking for someone with a little ✨️ zazz ✨️ and enough wit, word count and sentence structure to get me interested. I like weird but most importantly confident people who aren't ashamed to be themselves. Also, this is totally niche but if you try to negg me - you'll get blocked. I am incredibly confident and won't be rattled by a whole lot.

Mutual attraction is majorly important: https://imgur.com/a/ZAdN53v

I'm terrible at describing myself but I'll give you some bullet points:

Alt/Goth/Hippie/Tattooed Bisexual Woman

5'6 1/2 (no boots) 5'7 1/2 (with boots)

Curvy, Flirty and likely already sick of your shit.

Horror Movies>literally everything else

Diet Coke>literally everything else

CLE OH.

"Tan everywhere, JAN everywhere."

Come, sit and have coffee with me.

Hey first post here and I thought to myself "this is the perfect place for my people" but yes My name is Merlin, and I am looking for my witch to conjure demons together. I love all nerdy things and enjoy the simple things in life. I am currently on a journey to better myself and been doing great so far, id love to have some company while doing so! Let's make some magic?

Looking for someone to game with and possibly a FWB to review my nudes before I post them to my sites. 🐺🦊

Hi everyone. Thought I’d repost with some different photos I haven’t posted anywhere else! I’m Jaz. I’m from Central Florida. TBH, I’ve been into nerds, my whole life (since I’ve been into dating). If you’re from the area you probably already know how hard it is to find nerds here. While something local would be nice, I am open to long distance since I know my kind of people don’t tend to live in my area. I just ask that you be in the US or at least in a country where English is the predominately spoken language. I only ask this because I know long distance is difficult so I would like to meet up within the first month or 2 so we both know that we’re serious about this.

First, I must start off with this: I’m fat. Yes I could lose weight, and I have before, but sometimes I gain. My weight fluctuates a lot because of a medical condition that affects my hormones. I’m finally in a point of my life where I don’t feel insecure about my weight. So if you don’t like fat girls or you expect me to lose weight, maybe just skip this post. Here are other things about my appearance: I’m 5”6’, I wear platform shoes, my glasses always make a statement, I overdress everywhere, I love accessories, and my eyes are grey. Oh and I always carry a stuffie around

Now here are some things about my daily life. I’m currently going to school to be an accountant. Because of this I do live with my parents however, I do have experience living alone. I currently also work at a build a bear (I love my job. Please ask me about it!).

Now you may be wondering what’s nerdy about me. I’m really into video games, board games and anime. I like to play rhythm games and friend slop games. I play mostly PC but I also have a switch. I also like going to the arcade to play rhythm games. I really love Taiko no Tatsujin. When it comes to board games, my favorite game is Zombicide. Unfortunately I do have to find a new place to play board games though. Lastly, my top three favorite anime are Spy x Family Beastars, and jujutsu Kaisen (my fav character is Geto). I also sometimes write fanfic for certain anime I like. Oh and I also cook!

My biggest hobby is collecting stuffies. I primarily collect Build A Bears. Why stuffies? iykyk. Ask me about it!

Now here are some things I look for in a guy. First, let’s talk about appearance. Mutual attraction is very important to me. I wouldn’t want a guy to date me if he didn’t find me attractive, so I wouldn’t do the same. I tend to like guys that are taller than me and are thin to a little chubby. Tbh just look proportional. I honestly just really like size differences so that’s why I prefer a guy to be taller and thinner than me. Regarding personality I like guys that are serious and maybe a little bit sassy. It’s a good contrast to my whimsy. I also like romantics. I just don’t think I’ve ever been loved right, so I kinda want a man that knows how to love a girl to the fullest extent.

If you have read this far, please say eagle or 🦅 (in the spirit of 4th of July lol) in your first message. Please also share the following information in your first message: at least 2 pictures of yourself, ASL, hobbies, school/work (don’t need to give me details if you’re not comfortable), and, as a fun question, what’s your love language. Feel free to share other information as well. I’m an open book and I don’t judge.

I’m looking forward to getting to meet you (:

Hello. I'm a guy looking for a guy to chat with and form a long-term and serious connection with. I know what I seek and want so I expect you to also do the same.

I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. I am 26, so I'm figuring things out in adulthood, since life is a bit lonely on this life stage. However, I do have big dreams and goals. 

I'm currently working part-time in a job I truly enjoy and just finished two internships.

What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing, listening to music, and walking. I also like taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, skincare, eat well, and meditate). So, if all goes good, I AM LOOKING FOR long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm a normal guy with softer facial and personality traits, not truly feminine or trans at all, if that matters) WHO HAS academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset. I dont mind long distance as long as there is a meeting plan.

BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes, so dont ask for my snap, we are adults and maturity is what I seek in someone.

Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN. Not only hi's, try your best as I always do :)

Include a Taco emoji in your message and send me an intro about you if you truly read my posy. Hope to see you 😄