r/NerdDating

I'm looking for a woman whose interested in being my player two, my life partner. I want someone who ultimately wants marriage and kids.

I love videogames, I usually get along better with women who at least have a partial interest in gaming since it's an activity we can do long distance. I love Pokemon, Fortnite, Rivals, DBD, GTA and more. Maybe we can play a game together and see how we get along?

I also like superheroes, I love the DC reboot. Supergirl was okay, but the rest was amazing so far! Excited for Spider-Man, if you're close by or willing to meet half way then maybe that could be our first date.

I like visiting museums(I plan on seeing the Pokemon Fossil exhibit in Chicago), traveling, going on walks, and love animals! Liking animals is pretty much a requirement, I need a dog or a cat in my life.

Personality wise, I'm the shy nerd type. Also been told I'm very sweet and people are surprised I'm single haha. I can be funny too

Anyways if you're interested in talking, let me know :)

Howdy! I’m Nick! Currently residing in Norfolk,VA (U.S.) I’m a blue collar/nerdy Bisexual 6ft4 Male, AuDhd neurospicy golden retriever/gremlin.

On here cause I’m in search for a long term connection. That will eventually lead to a relationship.

A little about me:
I’m a Electrican/Structual tradesman. Working as a govt contractor for the U.S. Navy. I basically work on weapon systems on all Vessels Aside from my work. I’m very involved in nerdy things and as well as typical normal hobbies.

For my nerdy side:
Video games, Marvel, DnD (Warlock gang 🙌) Anime, manga, Comics, 40k, Pokemon, movies/tv. Horror, Sci-fi, fantasy are my fave genres of games, movies, tv ect.

Some of my fave games : Resident evil, Silent Hill, Left4Dead, Death stranding, Final Fantasy, Kingdom Hearts, Animal Crossing, Pokémon, The Sims and more.

Some fave movies/tv: Naruto, DBZ, Highschool of the dead, Squid games, Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, Lord of the rings, Dr strange.

As for things on the non nerdy side.
I’m really into history, philosophy, spirituality, Anything involving the outdoors, Learning new languages, Diving into new cultures/Foods. (Big foodie here) Photography, Art. And much more.

I’m really bad at making these bios but this is just a little bit of who I am.

I’m just a really nerdy guy looking for other nerdy people to court and make my partner

Long distance I have no issues with either

My preferred age range is late 20s and up.

If you like what you see hmu!

Definitely wanting mutual obsession and some (healthy) possessiveness!

Introverted but intensely present; physically disciplined, and super clingy (think yearning/lover boy-esque. Stable and unbothered by the small stuff. A nerd who rides a motorcycle — I’ll quote Lord of the Rings on long car rides and come home to play co-op PC games with ya (current hyper fixation game is World of Warcraft Forever)

I work as a chemical operator, I lift, I run, and I come home to my pit/lab mix Strider (yes, named after that Strider). I like to read history books/fiction/some self help, I hit up renaissance fairs (we should dress up), and I’ll drag you to a music festival or a new coffee shop without much convincing.

What I’m Looking For
A woman who wants to be cherished completely. Let me open your doors, order your food, remember your coffee order, and handle life’s details while you simply be. Be okay being thoughtfully spoiled like flowers delivered to your job, an appointment made for you to have your nails done (put my initial one one!), and even door dash you your lunch when you forget yours! I love someone who considers themselves as "bratty" — I’ll push back thoughtfully, and I genuinely find it attractive when you win.

The small moments are everything to me: lazy mornings with nowhere to be (cuddling and morning fun time :D), evening coffee shop reading dates, snuggling in a hammock, holding hands at the farmer’s market. I’m super affectionate in private and in public and I make no apologies for it. I don't show away from wanting lots of intimacy because it's one way I show my love, having a passionate relationship is my dream.

Binging shows, fantasy, gaming, movies — already there. Banter, long phone calls, voice notes of you ranting, random road trips — also there. The best way to make me feel wanted is just by giving me your time and letting me give you mine back a hundredfold with lots of physical affection.

I’m open to long distance in the US — travel isn’t an issue — but the goal is eventually closing the gap for good, relocation to me is ideal. I’d love to see a pic in your intro or within a message or two to make sure the attraction is mutual, and I lean toward partners who are fit or on the slimmer side, ideally 25+, though nothing’s a hard rule with the right person

If any of this sounds like what you’ve been looking for, come say hi.

Hi everyone, how's it going? Just as the title says I'm a disabled nerd looking for love! Strictly monogamous, and not interested in conservatives.

I love anything having to do with fantasy, including writing and drawing fantasy stories and characters. I used to customize dolls as fantasy characters before I ran out of room haha. I love Terry Pratchett, and lotr and I love learning about all things, especially science. I actually have a degree in chemistry! I also love anime, my favorites are sailor moon and Fullmetal alchemist.

I'm looking for someone hopefully in the new England area, but I'm open to something long distance within the US if we click. Feel free to ask me anything, including about my disability (eds).

Im looking for a nerdy guy to bond and form a friendship and see where things go from there.

Im not super picky about body types as long as its the same as mine.

Ive been playing a lot of No Man Sky, and would love to play a videogame wirh someone.

Say hi and let's see where the future takes us. :)

Tbh, I’m not entirely sure what to expect from posting here, but I’m a very social person and I love meeting new people, so here I am!

I’m 34, 5’10, and I live in Ontario. I’m also a huge nerd about a handful of things. I love anime, video games, movies, learning languages, and Eurovision (yes, Eurovision deserves its own category).

I watch a pretty wide range of anime and I’m always down for recommendations or having someone to watch something with.

I game pretty regularly on PS5. Cyberpunk 2077 and Skyrim are two of my favourites, and I’m playing Red Dead Redemption 2 right now. I also just started playing Marvel Rivals and I’m having way too much fun with it, so I’d genuinely love to meet people who’d be down to play together. I’m still learning though, so behave 😂 just a little note - in general, I don’t like mean/overly competitive people - a little competition is fine, but please be kind about it and be encouraging/patient if I’m not as good as you lol

Personality-wise, I’m outgoing, curious, affectionate, and pretty talkative. I like people who can actually hold a conversation, have a sense of humour, and get genuinely excited about the things they love. I’m very social, so I’m looking for someone who actually wants to talk, hang out, game/watch things together, and see if we click rather than exchanging three messages every six business days.

Effort and enthusiasm are sexy to me. Having said that, do not love bomb me lol. Let’s just be genuine about how we speak to each other. Be interested because you’re actually interested, not because we’ve spoken for twelve minutes and you’ve decided I’m the woman of your dreams 😬

I’m ultimately interested in a genuine romantic connection, but I’m not trying to manufacture one just because we met on a dating subreddit. Let’s talk, see if we actually like each other, and go from there. I have a lot of interests so let’s talk and see what we have in common!

If you message me, tell me a little about yourself and send some photos too! Mine are in the post, so it’s only fair hehe

I'm 35, a mom of 2, and I live west of Houston. I loveeee books, crafts, movies, art, museums, yoga, and learning new things (currently learning Spanish!). I'm goofy, generally unserious, and the most introverted social butterfly you'll ever meet!

Politically, I don't play about human rights. I believe that food, housing, and universal healthcare should all be guaranteed. I also believe in the liberation of all people and can't be in community with people who don't.

Romantically, I'm a lover girl, very affectionate, and looking for someone similar. I'm not the "play it cool" type and will tell you straight up that I like you and want to be with you lol. I appreciate romance and thoughtful gestures like notes and flowers. Also, I enjoy going out to dinner and exploring the city, but a perfect night for me would consist of ordering in and watching a movie while cuddled up on the couch (or anime if that's your thing lol).

I'm looking for someone who is between 28-50, single, and preferably lives within an hour or so of Katy, TX. If you live outside of Texas, I'm only open to getting to know you if you're willing to travel here at least once or twice per month on a consistent basis, but that's still less than ideal. I value emotional intelligence, empathy, curiosity, and stability.

Anyway, I'm excited to hopefully meet my person!

Hi all! Cozy gamer here looking for someone that enjoys nights in over nights out.

I love games such as Sims 4, Stardew, Palia, animal crossing and minecraft!

I love watching Asian dramas and I enjoy some anime as well, more of the slice of life with a mixture of fantasy and sci-if.

I love to go to comic cons and renfaires and I ALWAYS dress up! Would be cool if we could do some together?

I am very much of a homebody but I dont mind a night out here and there!

Come ask me questions :)

Hey im 18m! My type is any age and americans , arabs or europeans! Im willing to chat more in dms :)

Star Wars nerd, author, piano player and former gymnast here lol. Looking to hopefully find my better half. The dating apps are discouraging and pay to win. I just want to win someone’s heart ❤️

Okay, putting myself out there because apparently my future husband isn't going to magically spawn in my bedroom. :3

I'm a 28-year-old gay doctor, and despite the whole "doctor" thing, I'm really just a soft little helpless boy that would really like to have a big, handsome man to cuddle with.

A little about me:
🦦5'6", soft petite Asian otter — bearded, pretty hairy, dark brown hair & hooded eyes, fair skin, with a twink-ish look. (People says I look Japanese/Chinese)
Basically: small enough to fit in your big arms, large enough to have opinions about which movie we’re watching.

🎮 I'm a gaymer, I love Minecraft, The Last of Us, Taiko no Tatsujin, Harvest Moon, etc

🎬 Big fan of movies and cozy movie nights.

🎤 I will absolutely sing at karaoke, and whether I'm actually good is between me, the microphone, and ghosts.

🌿 I love the beach, also hiking, walking in nature, and generally wandering around somewhere calm and quiet.

🐈 I'm a cat person. If you have a cat, there's a very real chance I'll fall in love with them and I will be their daddy too.

🎶 My music taste is basically some pop with emotional damage and hints of darkness: Lana Del Rey, Ariana Grande, Marina Diamandis, Kacey Musgraves, Clairo, and plenty more.

And romantically...
I'm a hopeless romantic. This is embarassing tbh. When I fall for someone, I fall HARD. I'm affectionate, loving, clingy in the "I really like you and want to be around you" kind of way, and I genuinely enjoy making my person feel loved.
My love languages are physical touch, words of affirmation, and quality time. Holding hands. Cuddling. Little kisses. Being told I’m loved. Spending an entire afternoon together doing absolutely nothing. Sending each other stupid things because \\\\\\\*“this reminded me of you.”\\\\\\\*
Give me a hug and tell me you missed me and I'm basically yours. 🥺

As for what I'm looking for...
A big boy.
Big. Masculine. Hairy. Bearded. Skinny/Fit/Ideal/Thick. Soft. Handsome. Cuddly. Rugged. Dad bod. Bear bod. — whatever type of bear you are, come here. :3

I don't need some perfect person.
I just want someone who feels like home.
Someone I can be ridiculous with. Someone I can kiss in the kitchen. Someone I can drag on little adventures with. Someone whose shoulder becomes my favorite place to exist. have deep conversations at 2 AM. Someone I can look at one day and quietly think,
\\\\\\\*oh.\\\\\\\*
\\\\\\\*I'm completely fucked.\\\\\\\*
\\\\\\\*I love him.\\\\\\\*
And when I find him?
I will love the absolute freak out of him.

So, hi.
If you're somewhere out there being a big cuddly bear who likes affection, good conversation, dumb jokes, and having a little otter permanently attached to his side...

Maybe come say hello. :3

Tell me your age, where you're from, what you look like, and one oddly specific thing you're currently obsessed with.

Hello there, I'm a 21 year old french trans man hoping to maybe find my future partner :)

Even though I'm an introvert, when I start talking I can be a real yapper but I also can just listen to whatever you have to say for hours! I'm into a lot of stuff, as an Art history student I love visiting museums, I love writing fanfics and reading as well as playing boarding games! I listen to a lot of music too (can be several hours per day) and my favorite genre is musicals! One of my favorite hobbies is playing video games, mainly solo ones (currently on Red dead redemption, the new fire emblem, fields of mistria, mew genics, Sovereign Tower and looking forward to the new GTA) but if you want to show me multi players video games that we could play together, I'll be delighted too!

I don't really have a type, just not into people who are obsessed with sport (as I hate any kind of physical activity) and I'm attracted to any gender though I have a preference for men! I'd just want a partner who shares at least a few hobbies with me, who will communicate with me about their feelings, when things are wrong or good and who will respect my gender and my boundaries (as I will do the same with you) :)

If you have dark humor, don't mind talking endlessly during the day, are the affectionate type, and a cat lover, it's even better!

Even though I have a high libido (I'm a bottom btw and into bdsm but won't mind a vanilla only partner) I'm not interested in sexting/nudes. I want to be able to spend time with you irl, to hangout together, cuddle and do more, that's why I prefer someone who lives in France or in a nearby country and who is willing to travel so we can see each other! I'm also looking for a genuine relationship and not something short!

Also I don't mind an age gap between us, my limit is someone who's past 32-33 :)

If you feel like we might get along, feel free to dm me! (Please be willing to show a picture of you at some point!)