r/NerdDating

Hey I'm a small light skinned mom from the Texas and I'm looking for a long-term partner

My life is a mix of hitting the gym and being deeply creative—whether I’m drawing, sculpting, writing, or diving into creepypastas. I also play guitar and love bands like Bullet For My Valentine, Get Scared, and Alesana.
I’m a massive horror fanatic, so I’d love a partner who wants to spend hours on calls watching movies together—everything from Hellraiser and Evil Dead to Final Destination, Split, and El Hoyo.I’m really looking for a romantic, poetic partner who can be my person :) If you’re down for a dedicated, artsy connection where we truly share our worlds, I’d love to hear from you. 🖤🥀

Hey,

I'm looking for a real and genuine connection, something mutual and not rushed. Someone who is invested in seeing how things progress natural and wants to put an effort into working towards an outcome, even if it is unknown. Looking for someone who is within the UK only, so I can actually meet up and go on irl dates (I'm located in the East Midlands area if that helps).

I'm not looking for casual ho0k ups to be fetishized by my looks or for people to ghost me so if you can't be bothered to put time into getting to know me, then don't message me.

\*\*\*Disclaimer:\*\*\* \*I am plus-sized, if this is something that is a make or break for you. Then please don't reach out to me.\*

\*\*About me:\*\*

I'm pretty shy to begin with when it comes to meeting someone new but once I get comfortable, I am a complete and utter chaos gremlin. I love making deez nuts jokes (even though they are outdated), I can be incredibly childish at times especially when I feel safe and enjoy someone's company (so if I sit in call with you and make stupid noises, take it as a good sign!).

I can be pretty easy-going although I am terrible at making decisions. I can be quite anxious and I'm a huge overthinker who wears my heart on my sleeve which tends to make me extremely empathic (I have cried several times during d&d sessions when peoples characters have died or something cool/devasting happens).

I am quite an introvert but can be extroverted at times, I struggle a bit with social anxiety and depression (working on getting diagnosed for other bits too). I am a very caring person with a big heart, I'm quite affectionate despite having only two braincells to rub together.

\*\*My interests:\*\*

\\- I play videogames (PC and occasionally xbox). Been playing a lot of Arc Raiders

Games: REPO, Dead by Daylight, Hunt Showdown, Core Keeper, Peak, DayZ etc.

\\- I LOVE music, I listen to it almost constantly and I have quite a large playlist.

I'm always looking for new songs to add to my playlist!

\\- I am a huge TTRPG nerd (been DMing for about a year and playing for about 3-4 years). I especially love playing Dungeons and Dragons.

\\- I am an anime nerd although I am little rusty when it comes to watching it!

\\- I occasionally like to draw when I have the urge or inspo.

\\- I am a novice voice actor and currently working on a animated series!

If any of this interests you or makes you feel like there maybe some sort of a connection, please feel free to message me with a little introduction of yourself and a current favourite song that you like.

I look forward to hearing from you

I genuinely think nerdy people love harder than anyone else. Well little about me, I'm 23, a trans woman, and honestly I’m tired of surface-level conversations. I want the kind of connection where we can talk our day, movies, games, sci-fi, fantasy, weird internet rabbit holes, or just life in general. The kind where flirting slowly turns into comfort, and comfort turns into something real. I want someone I can obsess over a little in the sweetest way possible, someone who feels safe, genuine, emotionally intelligent, and actually interested in building something meaningful instead of disappearing after two days. If you’re, kind, emotionally available, and secretly craving real love too… message me. Maybe my favorite person is reading this right now.

i’m L and i’m making this post so i can meet people i play a ton of league of legends and other games, and im huge anime nerd, uh message me!

Ambiverted not-quite-vanilla guy seeking someone similarly minded for fun and games. I'm a whole adult, existing for real in the actual world. I work, I eat, I run, I enjoy digital media in multiple forms. All of the usual human things. I technically live in London, very nearly Kent, often in Brighton, work in Surrey, and driving allows me to reach other places for the right person. I'm free this weekend if you're free this weekend.

I'm not quite 6". My eyes are sometimes a beautiful blue, other times a sad grey. My hair has been called 'dark blonde', but I call it brown. I keep a slim to average form, waxing and waning between Mince Pie Season, Hot Cross Bun Season, Ice Cream at the Beach Season etc.

I like walks and hikes, mostly so that I can eat more.

I like sci-fi, fantasy reads and movies a lot but generally like most cinema experiences.

I like video games, I play little nowadays but the interest remains, quite in to DBD, FFXIV and the nostalgic idea of Pokémon.

Currently reading Tolkien.

I'm probably more interested in hearing about your hobbies and interests. I like to make fantasy in to reality, when people have desires they figure won't happen it's nice to make them real.

I'm spicy minded, have been for as long as I can remember, it would be nice to meet a woman who has similarly spicy interests or needs, but not essential.

Ask me about anything, it's so much nicer having a conversation than trying to make the perfect personals ad, which this almost certainly isn't, but I tried!

I would love to meet someone to fill a weekend with, a Saturday a Sunday or both, I'm down for coffee, chats, walks, cinema, book shops, shoppings, picnics, whatever floats your boat, takes your fancy, tickles your pickle.

Looks like good weather so let's meet up and chat and see what happens. Kindly DM or drop a comment. Much love, good morning, good afternoon, goodnight.

I am an 18 year old white dude. I have Zero experience with sex, kissing, relationships, and women. I am a Huge romantic and love Rom Coms and Anime. And all I want is a Girlfriend who loves me and is My Best friend. I don’t care if you’re Fat, Thin, Muscular, Tall, Short, Ugly, Beautiful, Cute, or if you are Transgender. I just want to Find Love. Real Love. I am looking for My Soulmate. The Woman to be with Me Forever

Hey, what's up? To start off, I'm entirely asexual and sex repulsed, I know that's a deal breaker for a lot of people so I wanted to get that out of the way!

I go by Kaz on public forums, I'm nineteen and non-binary transmasc (he/him pronouns)! I'm also Gay Oriented AroAce (aromantic asexual). I'm largely feminine presenting and only plan to transition socially.

I love gaming (specifically Apex, Siege, Val, Overwatch, Outlast Trials, and DBD), writing, video editing, cooking, baking, reading, photography, listening to music, anything horror or zombie related, etc! I'm a witchy person and I also LOVE ghosts!

I'm open to long distance in the US, UK, Norway, Sweden, and Ireland, but my timezone is EST! I also would prefer to date cis men at this time in my life. I only date people between 19-22, but if we really hit it off, I'd be willing to push that to 23

Other than that, I don't care about height, weight, or interests! I just want someone who'll like me for me, play games with me, and eat my food in the future lol! (Cooking is my biggest love language)

I'm a certified yapper but I'm also spacey so if I disappear sometimes it's nothing to do with you! I likely got distracted and lost track of time.

I have longer posts about me on my page if you wanna see, but other than that, feel free to reach out! We can chat, see how we mesh, and I'm also open to answering any questions you have! I'm a fairly open person (as long as things are asked respectfully)

Hello there!:) I’m looking for a connection that could become something more. I’ve been in one relationship but it was a serious one and it lasted 8 years so I’m a bit out of the loop when it comes to dating. I’ve tried some actual dating apps and have found nothing to put it plainly lol, so I thought I’d try here.

A little about me is that I love love love Star Wars! (Star Wars marathon perhaps?). I’m also into DC and Marvel. I love horror movies, going to comic cons and museums. I also enjoy gaming (we could play together!), and baking. I also enjoy building LEGO, and have quite the nerd collection. I have two cats. Personality wise I’m fairly shy until I get to know someone though I do try to match your energy. I can be a bit of a recluse or homebody. I’d like someone who could help me out of my shell a bit. Physical appearance wise I’m 5’6, dark shoulder length hair, glasses, blue eyes, freckles, and have tattoos. Sorry to disappoint but I’m not super skinny I am in fact curvy 😭. I don’t necessarily have preferences tho I am a sucker for some blonde curls I can’t lie..

If any of this caught your eye, I look forward to hearing from you 🫶

Hiiiii :)

I’ve posted on Reddit before and honestly learned a lot about myself through my experiences and interactions with people on here. I think I’ve grown a lot emotionally and figured out more about what I truly want in romance, so I’m trying this again because I really do want something genuine.

First off, I’m not looking for anything casual or short-term. I want a connection where we genuinely become part of each other’s everyday life. The age range I’m looking for is around 20–25 and open to anywhere around the world as long as they’re willing to work out time differences!

I’m looking for someone I can annoy 24/7, talk to for hours without getting bored, lose track of time with, and slowly build something real and meaningful alongside :)

Here’s a little about me:

- I enjoy cooking and experimenting with new recipes!
- I also love making fun drinks, from matcha lattes to espresso martinis.
- One thing I learned from being on here is that I’m probably way clingier than I originally thought 😭 I want the kind of love where we’re both crazy about each other, the yearning, emotional, young-and-angsty type of romance like something straight out of The Notebook.
- I love being updated throughout the day and being “annoyed” back with random texts, thoughts, and affection.
- I also realized I get attached through consistency, communication, and mental stimulation. Persistence and effort make me weakkk. If we click, I’ll probably want to talk to you all day every day, not gonna lie

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m clingy, affectionate, emotionally open, kind of sensitive, and very much an “us against the world” type of person when I really care about someone. Though honestly, the journey of getting there can be a little difficult because I play hard to get way too much sometimes 😭 I can accidentally come off like I dislike you when, in reality, I’m just guarded at first LOL.
But deep down, I’m a hopeless romantic, and I love people who are protective, reassuring, obsessed in a healthy way, and who genuinely want a relationship where their partner is also their best friend.

I also really love people who hate dry small talk. Tell me about your weird interests, your current fixations, your childhood lore, literally anything. I love conversations that feel natural and endless.

I’d love someone who:

- Has a lot of love and attention to give and isn’t afraid to express it
- Wants consistency and effort.
- Is affectionate and possibly even more clingier than me
- Values emotional closeness and emotional intelligence
Is attentive, kind, respectful, and loyal.
- Actually wants a relationship and not just temporary attention

Physically, I’m curvy, so please just be kind and respectful about that <3

Bonus points if you:
- Send random paragraphs.
- Are chalant!!!
- Like constant communication and quality time.

Please don’t just send “hey” Introduce yourself a little!
Tell me your age, where you’re from, what you’re into, and what made you message me :) You’d be surprised how far effort can go. ;)

Last but not least, keep your hopes up just like me! <3