u/1800-swampass

So I went to this week long event with NF and yesterday I stayed 3 hours longer than scheduled on my last day. @ 2:40 AM Mb and Db came home plastered. I said hello and mb said thank you good night nothing else. Not a sorry we’re late af or how was my kid. I assumed they were coming home at a reasonable time and thought I could let them know I was leaving pretty early the next day. But that did not happen. I left and sent a text but have not received any replies. I also need to get paid but I’ve double texted and nothing…. Also now that I’m here ranting- I hear them arguing and Db said a very concerning statement toward MB that made me wonder if this is a DV situation or was he just joking.

I don’t like being a nanny for these reasons. Too much drama that I don’t want to be involved in. Just pay me and be civil and txt back.

Hello! How much are we supposed to charge for an overnight position? I get paid $27 hourly but I don’t know if I’m supposed to have a flat rate overnight? Hours would be from Sat 3pm to Sun 12pm

Bf(m28) and I (f26) started our relationship back in December.

We hit it off immediately and have been having “sleepovers” ever since. He officially asked me to be his gf in February. I told him how I was ready to move in 2 months ago, also the commute to each other, groceries, and time packing was getting to me. He said it was too soon. And I must be childish, stubborn and immature because I don’t understand how spending every night and morning, having space in each others closet, making dinners together and just playing house is not the same/ a similar glimpse of us moving in together. He said he wants to experience more things we me. In my opinion I think we’ve bee checking a lot of things on our bucket lists.. what else do I need to prove to him? We talk about marriage and buying a house. Moving in would help us save a shit ton of money for that and for traveling. But he’s not ready and wants to wait for the feeling to come to him. Am I just delusional? He also said he’s scared I won’t wait for him and break up with him which I thought was insane. I’m now in a pickle because I don’t know if I should renew my lease or find somewhere I can live month to month incase he decides he’s ready. Has anyone been in my shoes? What did you do?