u/1977PontiacTransAm

my dad has been trying to get a security job (level 3) and needs TOPS to finalize his listened but when he clicks on pay it says nothing is due and won’t let him proceed, he has been calling the helpline for weeks with little help and no progress, any tips or similar experiences?

my dad has been trying to get a security job (level 3) and needs TOPS to finalize his listened but when he clicks on pay it says nothing is due and won’t let him proceed, he has been calling the helpline for weeks with little help and no progress, any tips or similar experiences?

I am not being malicious in any way by anything I am trying to say here. I don't understand why people are trans. Ive already had it explained that gender has nothing to do with someone choice to be masculine or feminine, you can be a masculine woman or a feminine man. If all of this is true then what does being trans do? Is it just the genitals, because if that's it I still don't get it. I am a man but I feel that what I have in my pants has nothing to do with who I am as a person, If I was a girl instead I feel that I would be the same person I am right now. I don't feel that my mind has an innate desire to be any sex. I'm just me, I was born the same me that I am now and will be in the future. So what does it mean to be a different sex, we can all do the same things and in 2026 dress the same way so what changes, I just want to understand.

https://preview.redd.it/ue0qytpy6rzg1.jpg?width=2160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dd5b20bc4c928ede316308bd614d11fde139a3cc

Just dropped 2 grand into this setup, Im very proud of it