What’s a dating “red flag” you have that everyone around you seems to disagree with?
29M. My biggest dating red flag is seeing someone with an excessive amount of travel photos.
On the surface, being adventurous and wanting to see the world sounds like a great quality. But in my experience, every time I match and connect with someone whose profile heavily revolves around traveling, things eventually fizzle because they’re simply too busy to make dating a priority long-term.
What confuses me is that a lot of people around my age say they want to travel, experience the world, and live spontaneously, while also saying they want to settle down and find someone for a serious, long-term relationship. From my perspective, those lifestyles can be pretty difficult to reconcile.
I’ve brought this up to family and friends, and they strongly disagree with me.
So now I’m curious: What’s a dating “red flag” you have that everyone around you seems to disagree with?