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Hi guys, I made a post a few weeks ago and took it down but it was about how I was suspicious that my dad was going to get a second wife behind my moms back. A lot of people were being soo helpful so that you guys for that, but a lot of people were telling me to hop of my dads dick which is weird as hell. Anyways a few things have happened since that and I just needed help again with what to do. To summarise my last post: I’m the eldest of 7, but also still a child. Recently my dad went to Somalia and took four of my younger siblings (with my mom’s knowledge ofc) and he started going out a lot like from 9am til dark saying he was going to take care of his elderly mom. He also starting neglecting my younger siblings (which he has never done before he was literally such an active dad)and leaving them with a maid who wasn’t doing anything (not even her job theyre literally his kids).

Anyways, when my mom found this out she booked the fastest ticket to go see what was going on and my dad’s behaviour has gotten way worse. Even with my mom there he’s still hiding around the house on phone calls. My 11YO sister told my mom that my dad was doing this frequently and he would go to the toilet when he would get this calls. When my mom confronted him about it he started getting super defensive and starting shouting at my little sister, he’s still ignoring my sister. Two days ago, he said his mom collapsed and he has to sleep over at the hospital (is that even possible) and he’s just came home today and didn’t even speak to my mom he was just arguing with her. My mom told me when he came back he was reeking of perfume that he never wears and so naturally my mom’s suspicions. The thing is if my mom is suspicious you can maybe say she’s being paranoid but for my 11YO sister to ask if aabo is cheating is crazy isn’t it.

Guys plss don’t tell me to stay out of it because I LITERALLY cannot. If my mom doesn’t tell me she has no one else to tell everyone in her life is incredibly xaasid esp her family members and they want this to happen to her. I’m concerned for her mentally my youngest sibling recently turned 1.

(Poorly written sorry)

I’m a qurbo juug and I love politics but Somali politics confuses me soo much I’ve spent so much time trying to understand but nothings sticking. Tomorrow is the current presidents last day in office and he’s refusing to leave. If he doesn’t leave at all what happens ? And why is he refusing? What do Somalis in Somalia do then like I’m genuinely so confused. Someone please explain why he’s refusing to leave and what’s going to happen.

Hello! I wanted to buy this for my little brother and he said he only wanted a Lenovo laptop but idk if it’s good or not the reviews are confusing me. Can someone tell me if he can use it for Roblox and download games on it? Would it run smoothly he only plays Roblox on it and he’ll just watch Netflix and things like that. Would it be a good laptop?

Before anyone starts being rude keep in mind I’m still a child and also the eldest of 7.

My parents decided to take my younger siblings (4 of them) to Somalia for a short while so they can learn Somali and the Quran. My dad took 4 of them and after a bit when school finishes two more were going to go with them and my mom and dad were going to switch, so my dads here and my moms back in Somalia. Now my dad’s done a complete 180 and changed the whole plan. He’s saying that the 2/4 that’s with him in Somalia should go back to my mom in Europe and he only look after 2 in Somalia so he can “focus on looking after his elderly mom”. He’s also been talking about how a lot of his age mates are getting multiple wives and getting married such and such. Now if he’s changed the plan and he’s also talking about how his friends are having multiple wives you can see where I’m getting suspicious especially if he wants to bring back two children to Europe when they’ve only been there for a few months.

A lot of families are having this problem where the husband goes back home and boom he’s gotten another wife I do not want this to happen.

Moreover, my problem is I’m stressed that if this does happen and my parents end up divorcing (even if they don’t which is unlikely what man can keep two families at once) I’m going to have to step up as a father figure when I’m already a 3rd parent. This is a nightmare, I’ve sacrificed a lot for my siblings and my parents and if this happens I’m never going to be able to live my life without feeling guilty if you get what I’m trying to say.

Anyways, what do I do.

I don’t understand every time I bring this up with someone they act like I told them im leaving the religion. Why wouldn’t Islam and feminism go together, especially if “Islam gave women rights” that’s quite literally what feminism is and everyone’s talking about “feminism is a dangerous word” I’m genuinely so confused.

Whenever I’m on my period I get such painful cramps and I vomit lots and faint it’s also caused me to fail exams because I started my period one time during an important exam and passed out in the toilets 💔💔

Anyone else have this

ALSO whenever I’m clearly in pain my dad always says everyone gets their period you’re not the only

One and this rlly annoys me like who says that

Also how’s my post getting removed for not having a post flair when it says optional