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I made a post here maybe a week or two ago about being drugged at a nightclub. I’ve also mentioned that my ex might have been involved.
I’ve never told anyone IRL until a few days ago, when i told the person ive been with for 12 years. She said that that I should marry her, because at least she didn’t have me set up to be raped like my ex wife.
Im not sure what I was gonna get by telling her my story, but I was not expecting this. What should i tell her?
I remember being on my way to a nightclub for reggae night with what is now my ex-wife. I have no memory of actually being at the club. My next memory isn’t until I wake up next to my ex-wife’s friend who was a past roommate. Her bedroom was upstairs, but for some reason we were on the foldout bed of the couch in their living room. I don’t remember if I was fully naked or just in my underwear, but I woke up not having any idea where I was.
My girlfriend‘s friend was laying right next to me and she looked like she was fully awake the whole time. I stand up and have to piss. I remember trying to get to your bathroom, but there was no way I was gonna make it. I literally pissed in her trash can in her kitchen.
This is a person that I had shot down at least twice in the past with one exception, I was willing to have a threesome with my ex her, but my ex got upset so that never happened. I’m not sure if I was physically raped because I’m not sure if I ever got hard, the one thing I’m sure of is that she would’ve absolutely tried.
What i think bothered me most is that I believe my ex-wife was part of this, when I finally got home, she didn’t question anything.
I’ve messed around with women while blacked out from alcohol before. One time I made out on a dance floor with a coworker on my birthday without remembering anything that happened for like two days, but I did eventually remember. There was another time where I blocked out on a first date and I somehow ended up receiving a BJ that I didn’t remember until the following morning.
The difference is not only did these women have no ideas blacked out, as these things were happening, but I had served myself the alcohol I know for sure. Also, the gaps in memory are much smaller. I have no idea if my ex‘s friend had drugged me or not, I just know it was different from these other two times I made out with a woman blacked out