u/2025outofblue

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Cherish your time at biglaw

This is to the junior associates, from a loser former biglaw. I know it’s hard. I know some of the junior associates may feel burnt out. But pls cherish your time at biglaw. In retrospect, that may be the easiest job I’ve ever had (besides clerkships, ofc). And those were my prime days speaking of earning capacity.

  1. Save aggressively. I know you may feel you will make more money with more experience, but that’s not true. For some of you, this may be your peak earning potential. I know it sounds outlandish if someone tells you so, but sorry, you could be flop after biglaw. At least, I am. Money gives you freedom to choose, so you don’t have to be forced into crappy and stressful jobs as I’ve been for the past few years. Money is everything. Save enough so that you don’t have to be me.

  2. Cherish the time when you can ramp on gradually and learn and get training. Because there are tons of terrible jobs out there providing 0 training but expect you to perform as Elena kagan in her best years. When I was at biglaw, I thought it was brutal, but now I think it’s heaven bc at least I got training b4 being thrown under the bus.

  3. Biglaw is stressful, don’t get me wrong. There’re others jobs that are as stressful (70 hour weeks with 0 support) and pay shit. I’m not making it up, trust me. If I knew what I know now, I’d work much harder at biglaw, so that I don’t have to do the crappy job with long hours and crappy salary.

Good luck to everyone young. I hope you never have to go through the hell I’ve and am got bf through. Cherish your time at biglaw, bc the world is cruel and some of you may end up like me (a big loser forced to accept jobs they . . . Euphorically speaking. . . Would very much not to do). I miss may easy life at biglaw when I was young (though I hated it back then). Remember, there’re tons of worse jobs in this profession. Oh did i mention thanks to our two-party system, I’m really enjoying my miserable working life. Cheers

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u/2025outofblue — 11 days ago

Amazon driver stole my package. With fake delivery photo showing a package that’s impossible to be mine

lol, hilariously stupid. The guy stole my package. Left a delivery photo, posing with someone’s package that in no way could contain my order. Lol. I’m amused. It’s a low value package and how can someone criminal be so stupid! He didn’t even brother to make it look like my package lol

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u/2025outofblue — 12 days ago

I feel like a big loser

Im a gov atty. my coworkers are leaving in droves. Im assigned cases that nobody knows how to handle (especially me). I’m earning peanuts (every year when it comes to renewing my lease I’d be stressed out bc it’s hard to find a place I like that’s within my budget). Coworker got threatened to be sanctioned, I’m sure I’m close if this craziness continues. Came home yesterday crying. Cried till I fell asleep after mid night. I’m miserable. I’m a loser. Applied to hundreds of jobs in the past 6-7 months, guess what? I can’t get out bc nobody wants me to work for them. I squandered my youth in my early career. Started in biglaw, used to be able to switch jobs easily when I was young. Took a “leisurely” job a few years ago, and my life becomes the embodiment of a big loser. I don’t know what to do. I feel now my career is shit, I’m only getting jobs that people with choice wouldn’t do. I don’t see any way out. The job will only get worse and I’m trapped

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u/2025outofblue — 13 days ago
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Came home crying. Don’t go to Gov now.

I’m a gov lawyer. I’m stressed out. I cried on my way home today. I remember someone asking about joining the gov now, don’t.

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u/2025outofblue — 13 days ago