AIO: My sister sent me a “prank” video knowing how I feel about it.
First and foremost i get this may be a prank for some of y’all but this is not okay with me.
For context:
my (f33) sister (f34). there was an incident that happened when i went to her house over the holidays in 2023. my daughter was 5 at the time of the incident. I was sitting outside on the porch enjoying the outside when i saw her, her friend and her friends kid gathered around the kitchen and my daughter on a step stool. As i walked in, i was to late. The egg hit her face.
They all laughed i asked what happened(already having an idea), they showed me the video. I did not laugh or respond to them i looked at my daughter’s face calmly asked if she was okay. She started to cry and ran into my arms. Once she started crying thats when my sister says thats why kids are so sensitive(in a very rude aggressive tone). And that set me off. I went off on her and i did not respond well. She also yelled at me bc i wasn’t okay with the prank? Or bc i asked if my daughter was okay? Idk why she yelled at me. If she would have asked me first this would not have happened. Ive also posted my dislike all over facebook.
This feud went on for sometime. She is a cop so when i brought up that it was assault, she CORRECTED me saying that its not assault that it would be considered battery. i eventually ended up going no contact with her for many reasons.
I am sensitive, meaning i cry when i feel left out or disrespected. My daughter is sensitive and im okay with that. I love that about her. For my sister to say it like it was a bad thing, i know that caused a little T trauma, after that she started hiding her tears. I try to express to her that its okay to cry in the open when you feel like crying. That its nothing to be embarrassed of.
I know how much my daughter loves my sister so I forgave her and apologized for how i responded. Now today she sends me a text asking about my stolen tv and monitor then sends me a video of the egg prank. It wasnt funny then and its still not funny.
Ill insert screenshots. Am i overreacting. Im so tired of how insensitive she is towards my feelings and mental health. This was not something i wanted to be reminded of or would think is funny later down the road 🥺 my babys face looked embarrassed and hurt. I don’t know why she sent this to me talking about PTSD. Did i overreact?
EDIT: my daughter isnt in the video sent to me just a video that triggered feelings and confusion. Why send me a video of kids getting egged then talk about ptsd. Especially after what she did to my daughter.