u/2ShyGuyJim

Dating again after a divorce or end of a long term relationship. Or even just hooking up.

Not me, but a coworker of mine was talking about how hard it was to get back into the swing of dating after their 10 year marriage came to an end. Any advice?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 11 days ago

You want to hook up tonight, what are you doing, where are you going?

You want to hook up ASAP, what is your game plan? Asking for a friend.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 12 days ago

Friend might be on a sugar daddy app. How do I handle this girl?

Female friend of mine keeps talking about finding a sugar daddy. Morality aside this can not be good for her long term. How should I handle this or should I just mind my business?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

How did you meet your partner and how long have you been together? Still like them?

I have a theory that half of people in long term relationships are just in them because it is easy or convenient.

If you don't mind sharing, how did you meet your wife/husband, girlfriend/boyfriend or partner? How long have you been together? Still like them or is it convenient at this point.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

Dating apps for threesomes.

I want to keep this safe for work, but has anyone ever used a regular dating app to set up a threesome either as a couple or as the third person. Me and a FWB are very much interested but I don't want to get into one of those fetich sites.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

I am getting way pickier with who I date the older I get.

You would think that I would start becoming more tolerant when someone doesn't meet every expectation I have but I find myself becoming pickier the older I get. It is s a huge problem.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

Am I the only guy who cleans his home before going on a date?

I hear all these stories about women going back to a guys place and it being disgusting. I may only clean once a month but I make sure to do it before a date, just in case I get that lucky. Guys what are you thinking?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago
▲ 1.8k r/WeSuckAtDating+1 crossposts

Ended a date bc the guy liked Joe Rogan.

I know it’s petty… and things weren’t going amazing from the jump.

Do you guys have any advice on how to handle a date that takes a hard turn for you? Do you ride it out, speak your mind, let them know nicely, etc.?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

How long would you keep dating a woman if she refused to go exclusive?

I think a month tops. More than enough time to decide if you want to try and get serious.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

Reddit is the best app for hookups and one night stands!

I keep reading this, but can't seem to see how it is true. What sub are y'all using to hookup on Reddit?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

Getting back into dating after a divorce from a 10 year marriage.

Looking for tips from a friend. They have been separated for 6 months and the divorce just finalized. How can he get back into dating after such a long time off?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

My super power is being oblivious to flirting.

My dating life would be sooo much better if I simply had the ability to recognize flirting. Can't count the number of times it has occurred to me that a woman was flirting hours after it happened.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

Had an affair with a married woman from a hookup / dating app by mistake.

Hooked up with a woman, not knowing she was married until it was too late. I am angry at myself for not asking if she was married before we did anything but I didn't want to kill the mood with too many questions. Afterwards I saw her lock screen with a family pic on it. Asked her about it and she confessed to being married. Should I be upset with myself or her?

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

The only way to meet women is with dating apps because that is the way they want it.

I see this said all the time: “Don’t approach me at the gym." "Don’t approach me while I’m running errands." "Don’t approach me at work." "Don’t approach me when I’m out having drinks with my girls.”

Inderstand that women don’t want to be approached in certain situations. But there’s a huge number of women whose position seems to be that they don’t want to be approached ANYWHERE, and when a man asks where he’s realistically supposed to meet someone, the response is, “Use a dating app.”

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago

Unpopular Opinion: The person you want for a hookup and the person you want to marry are not the same person.

Someone can be insanely attractive and great in bed but still not have the qualities you’d want in a long term partner. On the other hand, someone can be perfect relationship material without being the person you have the strongest sexual chemistry with.

I think women in particular are sabotaging their chances of long term relationships by strictly finding the hottest guys they can land. Those guys aren't looking for relationships though, they just want to hookup and leave.

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u/2ShyGuyJim — 1 month ago