u/77_revolboy_77

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Ftm Femboy yap/rant

Being a ftm femboy isn't for the weak(⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠), I constantly get called a "girl who fetishizes yaoi" or a "fake trans person" BY OTHER TRANS PEOPLE

We are in the same boat :'> why u hating. I get invalidated mostly by trans meds, even tho 99% of the time I dress masculine and I do have dysphoria and even in fem fits I wear my binder. But even if I didn't I'd still be valid as a trans guy, I hate that people tell others what they can and can't be or don't respect their gender because of the way they present

A trans man could be a literal barbie and he should be seen as a man. I just hate the transphobia in the community. Not every trans person is binary or gender conforming (I'm a binary trans guy who is gender non conforming). All my friends are cis men (and even they understand and accept me as a femboy) I understand that they can sometimes have troubles understanding gender expression and stuff but from other trans people I expect at least empathy for our own community, lately I saw a trans guy saying he doesn't believe in non binary people because you're either male or female(⁠╯⁠°⁠□⁠°⁠)⁠╯⁠︵⁠ ⁠┻⁠━⁠┻ we are in the same boat, we get insulted harassed assaulted and even killed for who we are, why are we hating on our own community and invalidating their experiences

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u/77_revolboy_77 — 10 days ago

I'm a trans femboy, am I valid?

It's kinda a silly question but I've seen so many people being mean to ftm femboys and it really made me feel like crap, dysphoria, feeling of inadequacy and all and I just wanted to know if ftm femboys are seen as valid by the femboy community

edit: OH MY GOD THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH YOU'RE SO SWEET I ALMOST CRIED FROM HAPPINESS WHEN I READ YOUR REPLIES, THANK YOU (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)♡

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u/77_revolboy_77 — 3 months ago