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Entrega robada MediaMarkt
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Entrega robada MediaMarkt

Esta semana pedí un router 4G por medio de MediaMarkt. Fue poco más de 60€, el pedido fue enviado con SEUR y lo recibió otra persona en mi piso a mi nombre. La caja se veía sin alterar, tenía la cinta envuelta en la caja de mediamarkt. Vamos, que nada raro.
Fue al abrirla que me quedé flipando con lo que veía. La caja del producto, manual, cable y sin router. Llamé al poco tiempo con servicio al cliente y he tratado de ver también con mi banco respecto a la comprar. ¿He de dar por perdido los 60€? ¿Qué hace uno tras hablar y levantar queja? No grabé video del paquete puesto que nunca me había pasado. ¿Habrá sido alguien de SEUR? ¿o simplemente un error en el envío? Siempre pido recoger en tienda pero esta vez no había la opción y me da mucha rabia, puesto que tampoco es la compra del siglo como para tenerlo robado.
En fin, busco sugerencias en qué hacer.

u/Big_Race_8649 — 12 hours ago
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What’s something only LGBTQ people seem to understand without explanation?

u/Lesson-user — 14 hours ago
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Feeling mentally exhausted because of constant judgment

I’ve been under a lot of pressure because of the society I live in. People constantly make comments about my appearance, saying I look gay or that I’m trying to look like a woman. Honestly, maybe I do resemble women in some ways, and I actually like that about myself — it’s one of the very few things that makes me feel happy in this life.

But because of the constant judgment and comments from people around me, it’s been hurting me mentally for a long time. There are weeks where I end up crying alone in my room because I feel exhausted and lost. Sometimes I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do anymore. I just wanted to say this somewhere people might understand iam so

And I have a constant fear that my family will find out I'm undergoing hormone therapy for gender reassignment iam living in Constant fear gues

I tried so hard to leave this country, but I couldn't.

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A poster with a punk goose holding a trans flag in their beak with sparkles around them their is text saying "if you don't stand for all woman, then you stand for no women!"

u/BlockSenior4624 — 3 days ago
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A tweet by Duckie (trans and gay flag) @SisterDucky Saying "Young queers who say 'I don't consent to be part of your kink' Don't realize that that was the actual legal justification for arresting trans women and cross dressers until the 1980s. Unless someone is performing a public sex act, you don't get to consent to how I dress. Ever."

u/East_Bridge_1739 — 3 days ago
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Am i bisexual?

I am M26. When i was in elementary school i had a crush on a couple of boys in my class and neighbourhood and even had some cudling with one of them lol. But since then i have been mostly into girls, (The recent one being a tombaoy and she claims she is a lesbian so i am in a hellhole rn 😅) , but i still find some men attractive especialy twinks and femboys (sorry if these are derrogatory terms i am deeply closeted so i dont have anyone to ask) i.e. Johhny Cooper character from SAS Rogue Heroes show. I feel like i am losing my mind lol

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u/Crimson_Fang_X — 2 days ago
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Florida - Makeup for Masc Men

Hello I am Tristan. After giving y’all a break I came back to offer another “makeup to enhance male beauty” take

In this instance, I am demonstrating the behavior of: using garish colored eyeshadow palettes to enhance male beauty WHILE supporting … The Florida Gators. That is where I live: North Central Florida. In my brick cabin studio in the woods.

So the whole vibe here is that if you are a gay man? You might not do drag per se, but what if you want to look more beautiful, gorgeous or whatever? Or maybe you have a local team you’re into and want to support on game day (or Halloween for that matter)?

Well I have been occasionally dropping different photos demonstrating that you can totally be a MASC male but still use colorful cosmetics to enhance your beauty.

In this example, which I’m wearing now (this photo is 10 minutes old), we have a NYX “I know that’s bright” palette $20 and an nk new york “birthday cake” palette ($4). I also used physicians formula seasons bronzer and Milani Strobelight brightening powder.

EDIT: I reiterate: the idea here is makeup to enhance masculine beautify, not to feminize or do drag. The description alone can facilitate the vibe, but what I will note that really makes this idea a bit different than traditional drag, editorial, or ballroom aesthetics, is the way that I apply it. Bold colors, but not blended really. Instead the application of the various colors in the masculine concept are applied more jagged, rough, mildly geometric at times, and sort of almost look like a milder version of war paint concepts. You don’t have to use garish colors, sometimes you can use more earthy tones, shimmers or things, but yeah a coarser or more bordered, rugged application pattern is central to having the makeup come across to support masculinity rather than feminine or editorial-coded iterations

u/LongTimeChinaTime — 3 days ago
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I’m wondering where the best place to find a trans gf when my area really doesn’t have any 😭

33 single no kids and home owner just looking for my queen

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u/Ok_Grab6599 — 3 days ago
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idk if I am Bi

I am 25M and i've never considered to do more play with my "down there" area but I had some tries with "my own hands" I think I am straight, I never had sex with a man and I was never aroused by watching gay porn or smth, but thought of sucking dick and having dick inside of me can make me feel horny which is weird because in realtionship with my gf I am the one that takes the iniciative and do more of the things. I wanted to ask if G or P spot orgasm can feel different than "normal" male orgasm and if it feels better in yours personal opinion. The second thing is that after doing that I might feel like a failure in a sense that I am a f***ot or smth (I am from Poland and we look very strictly at those things and theres a lot of stigma) ignoring fact that I am almost 2 meters tall I would say I look more femmine from my face and bodyI am really skinny with a lot piercings and tattoos and I dont know what to think about all this. On one side I am thinking about buying d*ldo and try to explore it on my own while my other side tells me that this would only fullfill what I guess rest of the people already tuink about me ://

It is also worth mentioning that only men I „find attractive” are the ones more like me, meaning shaved skinny and overall leaning into feminne side or just looking more alternative. It is really confused because I would like to have it figured out once for all…

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u/Soft-Pay5552 — 4 days ago
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A friend of mine and I made queer flag coded Coat of Arms based on mythological creatures because it is FUN and they look frickin cool in my opinion :D

Hello, everyone.

Half a year ago, my best buddy and I had an idea during one of our late-night Discord chats. We are both big nerds for fantasy and mythological stuff and wondered how fun it would be to have banners or coat of arms for different orientations and identities. What could they look like, and which mythical creature could fit well or just be fun to see like that? Thus, this little collection was born!

We got:

- The Peryton of Non-binary

-Hydra of Omni

-Unicorn of Pride

- The Phoenix of Trans

- The Siren of Lesbian

- The Winged Lion of Gay

- The Griffon of Aro

- The Dragon of Ace

- The Harpy of Sapphic

- The Minotaur of Achillean

- The Oroboros of Intersex [really proud of that one]

- The Hippocampus of Genderfluid

- The Sphinx of AroAce

- The Winged Wolf of Bisexual

- And Pan for...well Pansexual

Please let us know if you come up with other cool ideas for additional identities and what they may entail.

If you like this silliness I got more on my tumblr here, mostly queer colored dinosaurs and othe rneat prehistoric nerd stuff 😛 :

https://www.tumblr.com/shattersaurus/816449993984589824/hello-everyone

Take care everyone!

u/Shattersaurus — 5 days ago
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I mapped out verified LGBTQIA+ crisis hotlines and international support services so people don't have to search in a crisis

Hello! I've been working on compiling a comprehensive global database of LGBTQIA+ hotlines, text lines, and support channels. A lot of these are 24/7 (but not all), some are supported officially by their respective government and others are through nonprofits.

Nobody should have to navigate a crisis alone, regardless of where they are located.

📞 Core Lifelines & Immediate Resources

  • (US/CA) Trans Lifeline @ translifeline.org | 877-565-8860, 877-330-6366 | Transgender-centered crisis organization that does not use involuntary intervention/forced hospitalization to provide support to transgender people.
  • (US/MX) Trevor Project @ thetrevorproject.org | 866-488-7386 | The leading suicide prevention and crisis intervention organization centered on LGBTQIA+ young people ages 13 to 24.
  • (MX) Diversidad Segura @ consejociudadanomx.org | 55-5533-5533 | National Mexico Safe Diversity Line and Chat for LGBTQIA+ Mexicans in crisis or needing legal help.
  • (CL) Todo Mejora @ todomejora.org | Confidential support program for LGBTQIA+ young people in Chile up to age 29.
  • (GB) Switchboard @ switchboard.lgbt | National UK LGBTQIA+ support service and telephone line that provides care to those residing in the United Kingdom.
  • (FR) Foundation Le Refuge @ le-refuge.org | 09-39-03-63-03 | LGBTQIA+ organization in France that supports young queer people ages 14 to 25.
  • (RU) Russian LGBT Network @ lgbtnet.org | Organization that serves LGBTQIA+ people’s needs regarding emergency care, legal assistance, mental health, etc. Chat services available through QueerilBot application.
  • (LB) Helem @ helem.net | 961-81-478-450 | LGBTQIA+ rights organization in Lebanon that facilitates a helpline for those within the SWANA region.
  • (ZA) Triangle Project @ triangle.org.za | 021-712-6699 | General helpline for LGBTQIA+ people in South Africa.
  • (KR) Chingusai @ chingusai.net | 02-6953-7941 | Free phone consultation service for LGBTQIA+ people in South Korea seeking advice about sexual orientation, gender identity, and related mental health issues.
  • (TW) Taiwan Tongzhi LGBT Hotline Association @ hotline.org.tw | 02-2392-1970 | Regular telephone services provided to LGBTQIA+ people in Taiwan seeking peer counseling.
  • (SG) Oogachaga @ oogachaga.com | Free WhatsApp counseling provided by trained volunteers to LGBTQIA+ individuals in Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, and Brunei.
  • (AU) Lifelink @ lifeline.org.au | 13-11-14 | Australia’s leading suicide prevention service that provides 24/7 LGBTQIA+ crisis support via their hotline.

If you want to explore the full map and specific international hotlines, this is the directory: https://transsolidarityproject.org/lgbtqia-hotlines/

If you know of a vetted mutual aid group, international hotline, or inclusive local resource not currently in the database, drop it in the comments and I'll verify/update the master map!

Stay safe, take care of yourselves, and remember you don't have to carry the heavy stuff by yourself.

u/g0ffbe — 4 days ago
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A guy falling in love with a lesbian girl

I’m just a regular guy and I’m only attracted to women. I am a nursing trainee, and I met her during my clinical training about two weeks ago. From the very first day, there were a lot of eye contacts between us, and every time I looked up, she seemed to be looking at me as well. On the second day, we talked more about food, interests, travel, and free time, and she was actually the one who gave me her WhatsApp number. We started chatting on WhatsApp, and I quickly became excited to spend time with her during training. I asked her out, and she agreed, but we haven’t been able to go yet because of work, busy schedules, and she also had to travel. We followed each other on Instagram, and through her profile I discovered that she is currently in a relationship with a girl, and her profile shows both bisexual and lesbian pride flags, so I’m not completely sure if she is bisexual or lesbian. Despite that, after some time she still agreed to go out with me. However, recently her attention toward me has become much more inconsistent. We have now set a proper date to go out in about a week, and it is still confirmed. I suggested paying because I insisted, and she agreed. During this time, I showed my interest in her through small gestures like giving her flowers once, making her pancakes another time, bringing her ice cream, and other small gifts. She seems uncomfortable with the gifts I bring her or the way I express my interest through them, but at the same time she seems to enjoy them, that’s what I have noticed. I’m honestly confused about her intentions, I don’t know if she is just curious, if she is bisexual, or if she is simply being friendly while already in a relationship. We will also meet again in three days at the vocational school where she is currently studying, as I will be there during my training placement, and she told me that she wants to spend the break with me and have lunch together, and we are also planning in detail where we will go and what we will eat during our date which will be in about a week. We now have a planned date in about a week, but I honestly don’t know how I should act or how I’m supposed to behave. I’m also confused about why she wants to go out with me in the first place, because I’m pretty sure she knows I like her, and I also know that she is currently in a relationship with a girl. I don’t know what her intentions are or what she expects from this meeting.
By “date,” I mean just a friendly hangout, not a romantic date

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u/BILAL_DE — 4 days ago
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I’m confused about sexuality

So I’m a teen and I’ve recently started wondering if I actually like boys. I’ve started liking girls less but still like them a teenie amount but I wouldn’t date a girl and I have taken a slight interest in boys. All of this is really confusing to me as I’ve been straight all my life and haven’t really gotten myself into the LGBT community, any help would be appreciated

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u/Cammo-18 — 6 days ago
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Am I the only one who thinks the soccer player saying he made up the story, was actually lying and just saying he made it up because Chappell’s pr team told him too?

Like there’s no reason for a successful, mid aged south American athlete to make up a story about a 27 yo pop star. What could he possibly gain? He’s already famous and rich 😂

And the one day he says that he made the story up. Next thing you know is that, when you search Chappell on tiktok, all of the videos complaining about her are suddenly gone and replaced with people singing her praises.

Like whether or not Chappell was in the right/wrong, this was clearly a PR clean up. But her fans aren’t seeing that. The soccer player was either, bribed, threatened with a lawsuit, or felt guilty for starting this whole drama, and so made a post saying he lied about the incident.

And then Chappell got her team to take down or conceal all of the videos hating on her or calling her out. Because those are so difficult to find now.

I like her music but I just don’t buy into her bs. And it’s annoying that her fans don’t see this as a pr clean up

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u/peerlesscucumber96 — 8 days ago