Why (F19) tried to seduce me (M21) while in relationship?
So... There is this one girl (F19). I have met her for the first time like 1.5 years ago. She was with a guy and they vanished into the forest for 10 minutes and returned all red faced with an aquard smile 😏.
Then the next time I saw her was like 6 months later and since then I have regular contact with her. She formally wasn't in a relationship with this guy but she had sex with him etc. Everyone knew that it wasn't just a friend. They acted like they were in a relationship but they formally weren't.
She fell in love with me then. It was a year ago and she started flirting with me, giving me signs that she is into me and everything while still having this relationship with this guy. She almost kissed me, she was holding my hand and things like that to the extent that I was feeling uncomfortable. Everything while still having a relationship with this guy.
This guy was definitively into her. There is no doubt. He explicitly told this to few people. He cared how she feels, bought her roses, they were meeting one on one regularly few times per week. He was more involved than her into this. They weren't officially in relationship that long because she didn't want to.
She was able to lose contact with him for me. I started ghosting her cause I don't want to have a girlfriend who already has a boyfriend and she cried but hasn't told anyone why but it was obvious to me. Then they started dating officially but they had broken up a few months ago and she's now starting all over again.
They still have a contact and it looks like they remained friends but now the roles have switched. They doesn't explicitly dislike each other but now she is more involved than he. She is seeking attention from him sometimes but he is unmoved.
Why is that. Can u explain the mental process for everything above? I don't understand anything. Why something like that happend?