u/9Qs-

[27M4F] | Bangalore | Software Engineer

Hey 👋

Not a huge fan of the typical arranged marriage setup, so thought I’d try this instead.

I’m 27, originally from Uttarakhand, currently based in Bangalore and working in tech. Career-wise, I’ve been fortunate to do well for myself over the years and am in a stable, comfortable place professionally now (currently around the 90L+ range).

Outside work, I’m into cooking, travel, movies, music, business, and random deep conversations at odd hours. I enjoy staying active, trying new things, and spending time with people who are genuine and emotionally aware. I’d describe myself as ambitious but grounded — someone who values consistency, communication, and mutual effort in relationships.

Personality-wise, I’m more of a listener than a speaker, fairly easygoing, and someone who believes strong relationships are built slowly through trust, understanding, and shared values rather than just instant chemistry.

Looking to meet someone kind, independent, intellectually curious, emotionally mature, and interested in building something meaningful long term — not just checking boxes or rushing timelines.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out 🙂

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u/9Qs- — 5 days ago

27M | Bangalore | Software Engineer

Hey 👋

Not a huge fan of the typical arranged marriage setup, so thought I’d try this instead.

I’m 27, originally from Uttarakhand, currently based in Bangalore and working in tech. Career-wise, I’ve been fortunate to do well for myself over the years and am in a stable, comfortable place professionally now (currently around the 90L+ range).

Outside of work, I’m into cooking, travelling, movies, music, and random deep conversations at odd hours. I enjoy staying active, trying new things, and spending time with people who are genuine and emotionally aware. I’d describe myself as ambitious but grounded — someone who values consistency, communication, and mutual effort in relationships.

Personality-wise, I’m more of a listener than a speaker, fairly easygoing, and someone who believes strong relationships are built slowly through trust, understanding, and shared values rather than just instant chemistry.

Looking to meet someone kind, independent, intellectually curious, emotionally mature, and interested in building something meaningful long term — not just checking boxes or rushing timelines.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out 🙂

reddit.com
u/9Qs- — 5 days ago