Community Meta Poll: Where do we draw the line on discussion rules as we grow?
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Hey everyone,
I want to pause for a second and check in with all of you because we are rapidly closing in on 600 members. I'm incredibly glad to see this space growing, but hitting this size means we are running into some pretty typical growing pains with how people interact with each uther in the comments.
We founded this subreddit to be an open, unfiltered space where we can challenge things, share data and opinions, and have real discussions without heavy-handed censorship. But lately, I've had to deal with an influx of rude comments that completely ignore the core issues of a post and just resort to personal attacks.
To be completely transparent, I have a few hard limits that are absolutely non-negotiable. We will always remove NSFW content, hate speech, discriminatory language, and totally unproductive, targeted personal attacks. That stuff is fundamentally bad faith and has no place here.
But beyond those obvious baselines, I want to get an understanding of what this community actually wants to tolerate when it comes to standard heated debates. Because Reddit poll options have strict text limits, I'm breaking down the exact meaning of each choice below so you know exactly what you are voting for:
Poll Options Explained:
- Choice 1: Draw the line strictly at targeted personal attacks.
If you vote for this, you think cursing, heavy swearing, intense tilt, and general rudeness are completely fine as long as a user is talking about the game or a topic. The only thing that gets stepped on beyond our baseline hard limits is when a thread completely derails into targeted, malicious harassment against another member.
- Choice 2: Draw the line at attacks + pure unconstructive trolling.
If you vote for this, you want us to also remove low-effort comments that add absolutely zero substance to a thread and exist solely to mock, belittle, or troll people in bad faith. You want arguments to stay focused on actual points, even if they get heated.
- Choice 3: Draw the line at general hostility (Keep tone polite).
If you vote for this, you want a much cleaner environment. This means filtering out heavy cursing, aggressive call-outs, and intense hostility to protect the general vibe and emotional comfort of the space.
I genuinely want your raw feedback on this because I don't want to run this space based entirely on my own subjective feelings. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below if you want to expand on your vote. Thanks for being here and helping build this space.